have a close guy friend of mine whom I 've known for over a few years.He happens to happily married, and from what I understand he and his wife have what you would consider an"open relationship"...they've even went so far in having relations with other people outside of their relationship.During the time that me and my friend communicated, his wife was very aware that he and I we're phone buddiesI even thoughhis wife and I hadn't met each other face to face, she invited me out several times and she would invite me to family outings, but then I lost my job, and my friend rented me out a room out of thier house from that point on everything changed with his wife, she didn;t really speak to me, I'd smile and say hi, she would like at me all crazy..then everytime I'm at home she would close her bedroom door for some reason, she was just very mean , you can tell she really didn;t care for me and I can't figure out why?
2007-08-31 20:25:06 · 11 answers · asked by Sweetladi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The wife thinks you have moved in to become his lover... you are now competition.
She probably considers you a freeloader, too.
Don't you dare touch that man!
Get a job and get the heck out of there as fast as you can.
2007-08-31 20:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no open relationships! This is just an excuse for a partner to cheat. The wife sees you as a threat.
2007-09-01 03:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's one thing to know that your partner has a thing for someone but to have that person in your face and in your house might feel like a slap in the face and maybe their marriage isn't so open save your friendship and find your own
2007-09-01 03:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by mojolov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the wife is jealous of you. imagine you, her husband's phone buddy, living under one roof with her husband. she will feel threatened-no matter how open their relationship is supposed to be.
2007-09-01 03:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares just stop caring what people care about u...just show the same respect towards her and just be nice to the guy friend.
2007-09-01 03:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by The Game 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her idea of an "open relationship" has become too close for comfort.
2007-09-01 03:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by **** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just thinks that you and her husband might be going out and if she does think that then talk to her,or she might be mad that you lost your job and that you have to stay...
2007-09-01 03:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't figure out why? do you need a map? c'mon now, i know you are not that ignorant
2007-09-01 03:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by Max 77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous and crazy!
2007-09-01 03:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by Farah_Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...now that you are in the house, you pose a threat... you're in "her" space........
2007-09-01 03:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋