I just dont get it. I'm not trying to be an ****** here. I am in good physical shape and so is my fiance. I just cant imagine being attracted to an overweight girl.
2007-08-31 04:44:02 · 23 answers · asked by Seamus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to clear this up, I'm not referring to "curvy". I am referring to overweight.
2007-08-31 04:57:20 · update #1
Hell no. To me it's a sign of sloth and lack of discipline. I too work hard to keep myself in shape and so does my gf. It's a choice I make to keep myself healthy. Someone who choses not to do so is just lazy and unattractive to me. My hats off to the "Chubby Chasers" out there cause I can't do it.
2007-08-31 04:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by fordy 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I'm generally attracted to people of average size, but I'm a curvy girl. There seem to be a lot of guys that are really attracted to curvy women. I've never had a hard time getting a date. When someone is grossly obese, like can't walk or leave the house, then that's a bit much, but some people like a little meat on the bones...just a matter of preference. =)
2007-08-31 11:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Vbonics 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been attracted to some, but it wasn't because they were fat...it was just that I was attracted to someone who happened to be carrying a few extra pounds.
Do I find fat attractive? No. I've been obese and I knew I wasn't pretty...I didn't get upset that men didn't hit on me. I knew why they didn't and I understood (just as I've never been attracted to an obese man).
I've dated guys that had a bit of a belly, or weren't overweight but weren't fit (tight/firm) and that's never been an issue for me...
To each, their own...some people prefer those with extra pounds, some are turned off by any add'l weight. It's great though...if we all liked the same things the world would be BORING and there would be a TON of single people in it.
2007-08-31 11:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yea, it's what on the inside counts. So what, not everyone can be in good shape and be like a size 0-3. It dosen't mean there not attractive. You may not find them attractive, but others could.
2007-08-31 11:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not physically at first. But if you get to know someone who is overweight, their personality can make them attractive. Actually, that works with pretty much anyone despite their appearance.
2007-08-31 11:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by lafemelle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i understand, you take good care of your body, work hard for that, so why would you want to be attracted to someone overweight, but i know someone overweight people that is so loving and kind, and i know some people that are fit and they are so selfish and rude. Depends on the person, what are they attracted to.
2007-08-31 11:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly, I am not attracted to overweight men either. I have many overweight friends, but I would not date them.
2007-08-31 11:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't imagine going out with a fat man Him wearing jeans and having Bob the builder bum lol and a pot belly lmao
2007-08-31 11:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the old saying "men like something substantial to grab when they are in the mood" was probably coined by some overweight chick. I dont subscribe to the heroin chic models the media is trying to sell, but I want someone who is able to do some fairly strenuous outdoor activity, and who I wont be embarassed to be seen with by my friends. Like the other old quote "fat girls and mopeds have something in common... " im sure you know how it goes.
2007-08-31 11:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by rand a 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes. I like a woman to at least be healthy but a bit over weight isn't bad at all.
2007-08-31 11:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋