OK So I am a 16 year old guy. My friend of 13 years, is really a good friend to me. We have a lot of similarities and we tell each other a lot and trust each other.
I am starting to have a lot of strong feelings for her. Should I tell her.Or will it ruin the friendship if she doesnt feel the same way? How do I tell her I love her and ask her out? The problem is I have never had a gfriend b4 !!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE HELP
Thanks in advance for answering
2007-08-31 04:24:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am in the exact same situation! I'm also 16, well I will be in december and she is 13, she'll be 14 in october. Everything you have said is exactly the same for me including never having a girlfriend before. I wish I could help you but I'm stuck in the same situation and I would also greatly appreciate an answer to this. I do have a formal event coming up through my church(where i met her) in 2 weeks where I do plan to tell her my feelings. I have some stuff rehearsed to tell her. My advice is: find a time and place where you can be alone and uninterrupted. Find out her good qualities and incorporate them into some sort of small speech. Be serious and look her in the eye when saying it. Don't make it too long so that you forget it. Most of all...include your utmost feelings for her at the end when it matters most. I'll get back to you in maybe 2 weeks when I try it out. All the best to you.
2007-09-02 05:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you really enjoy her company and then ask her out to a movie or something.
maybe don't tell her you love her right away until you are sure she feels the same way about you
2007-08-31 04:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mizzy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. If y'all are really that good of friends, and if you are willing, even if she doesn't feel that way about you, the friendship could remain intact.
Good luck!!
2007-08-31 04:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsay G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be the guy that's staring at your friends boobs in the other question?
2007-08-31 04:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-08-31 04:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋