In the winter I walk fully clothed, and when something fell off or I showed him a piece of skin, he would oogle and want some.
now in the summer, i walk in my birthday suit all the time, and he barely notices me anymore! he doesn't stare etc
and i don't like it one bit. what should i do to remedy it? could all that nakedness have de-sensetized his visual senses so much that he does n't look anymore or if he does look he's like "whatever?"
i'm 11 weeks prego btw, if that adds anything to this.
2007-08-31 05:36:12 · 18 answers · asked by chapped lips 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Girl, get some clothes on!
2007-08-31 05:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by make room for daddy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know, My husband walks around naked and it had "desensitized" me. It leaves nothing to the imagination. It like right there, in front of me, all the time...OMG! I just want to tell him to put some clothes on. It's exciting every once in a while but he does it all the time. I would say cover up or walk around in something sexy so he will think of sex but you still left something to the imagination. Plus there is nothing sexier than watching someone UNdress.
2007-08-31 12:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by mamaofone1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know about anyone else, but my wife and I have been walking around naked for 13 years and we both still love the view. We will even bend over in front of each other just to keep things going.
NiF
2007-08-31 21:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by fl_nudie_boy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you are pregnant it may not carry the same effect that it did. Yes, you can de-sensitize a man to something if he is subjected to it all of the time. I love seeing my wife naked, but I wouldn't want to live in a nudist camp with her. Showing a little every now and then keeps the excitement and luster to it. If you cut back a little and then do it spontaneously you will recover that reaction. If not, then you will have to take it a little higher.
2007-08-31 12:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
His visual enjoyment of you could have changed because he is too accustomed to your nakedness or because of the pregnancy.
Some men stop seeing their wives as sex objects when they are pregnant and after birth. You need to remind him that even though you are about to become a mother, you are still a sexy woman with desires and needs.
If I were you, I would break out the lingerie. Sexy bras and underwear, sheer and flowing nighties etc. You can find some that are sexy and that can accomodate the pregnant belly.
Sometimes, wearing the right thing is as hot as wearing nothing!
2007-08-31 12:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You just ans your only question its because you're pregnant he use to like your regular but he soon get over it ok just give him some time. But in the mean time keep on your clothes becuase sometime guy realy dont feel interest in their woman or wife when they be walkin naked cause you than get them use to that. I don't walk naked for my man i have to much pride for that am scared but he loves that about me.
2007-08-31 13:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetsexy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are very visual so it is hard for me to believe but it is possible. There are some men who have a period of adjustment when thier wife becomes pregnant. It sometimes changes the dinamic when you go from being a lover to the mother of his children. Try wearing sexy or skimpy outfits around the house for awhile. Change things up a bit, sometimes a well placed t-shirt or thong can go along way. Give it some time he will come around. Pun intended
2007-08-31 12:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by Tater 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
he probably is a bit desensitized, but what a way to go!
and i think a prego wife looks just as sexy as a newlywed bride.
if the visual doesn't do it, then the touchy-feely might, or else he's just resting up for the next bambino...
2007-08-31 15:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its biology. When you were covered he had fantasys. Once he has seen it all he is bored. But don´t take that personally. He would get bored with a pornstar eventually. Guys need variety. Its just biology.
2007-08-31 13:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, you're not showing at eight weeks, but you soon will. Put some clothes on. And after the babe's born, keep 'em on. Yah,we guys do get desensitised - and it's far more fun to peel the banana and then eat it than it is simply to grab it and eat it.
2007-08-31 13:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
so instead of walking around naked walk around in a skimpy outfit...a t-shirt with no bra...or maybe one of his dress shirts unbuttoned half way so it exposes a little but not a lot...try a thong with a tank top or a t-shirt cut off right beneath your breasts...
2007-08-31 14:04:23 · answer #11 · answered by Cupcakes Moosey! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋