Family & Relationships - 15 August 2007

Ok when i was in elementary school i was a major tomboy so im used to talking and being frends with boys. so now that im of age to have boyfrends and flirting and stuff, it comes so easily to me to flirt cuz i talk to them like they are another girl! sumtimes whenever i talk to my frends boyfrends they say im flirting with them but i really dont mean to at all! im just talking to them like a frend but they think im flirting. how can i control my flirting?!

2007-08-15 05:28:28 · 21 answers · asked by Red 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf complains all the time bc he tells me that im not willing to experiment like with toys and different places etc. should i be more adventurous???

2007-08-15 05:28:11 · 12 answers · asked by Chi Chi 1 in Singles & Dating

The husband works full time and pays all the bills and buys all the food, clothes, etc. Wife doesn't work or have any income. She stays at home with the kids while he's at work. The kids trash the house. The dirty dishes are piled up in the kitchen and there's food all over the floor throughout the house. Husband comes home and cooks his own dinner and dinner for the kids. Wife refuses to wash any dishes or clean the house or cook dinner for husband. Ok, so the question is: Does husband just need to slap her around a little bit or is she a lost cause?

2007-08-15 05:28:03 · 18 answers · asked by ignernt 3 in Marriage & Divorce

after repeating the same mistakes again n again.she resoloute not to do,bt then again she does n hurts her loving husabnd.How to stop this?Is she addicted?

2007-08-15 05:27:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-15 05:26:57 · 15 answers · asked by Handsome Stranger 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know lots of things do...but what is your favorite, and what makes it so good?

2007-08-15 05:26:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married for 6 years. We didn't have a wedding 6 years ago, we got married in a court house and had a little party after the ceremony. I was upset about it for years, I was only 20 when we got married and I always wanted to have a dream wedding. My husband promised me that we would have a nice wedding. So we had a church wedding 4 months ago and it was a disaster. My stepdaughter fainted during the ceremony, my hair stylist didn't show up, the sound system didn't work at the church, food was not served on time at the reception, our pictures and video didn't turn out, etc. I put so much time and effort in this wedding! I made my own pew bows and I asked a friend to tie them to the pews but she forgot. There were no place cards ( I spent a month making them!). We never had a wedding night either, my husband fell asleep both times!I am still devastated. We had two weddings and I do not even have pictures! My husband says that we could have a third wedding.. How do I get over it?

2007-08-15 05:20:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

if your husband pays atention to the games like the play satation more than hisown wife

2007-08-15 05:19:42 · 16 answers · asked by maria7959@sbcglobal.net 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad is healthy, retired with a good deal of money, young at age 58 but lives with me and my husband and my 3 kids.
He does not "need" to stay with us. He can easliy afford something close to us. We love him dearly but as an adult, you move out of your parents house and you don't expect them to move back in with you - especially since he does not need to be cared for. It puts a strain on our marriage (only 4 years married) because we sometimes have no time to ourselves.
He does not help out with money, groceries or anything but expects me to cook and clean for him. He also sits out back of my house almost every day and just drinks beer - sometimes 12 a day. Now, I have 3 children and this is something that I don't want them exposed to. My dad can't even help babysit if I need to do something because he typically has already had too many beers.
Please help - I don't want to hurt his feelings and I have no idea how to say this to him.

2007-08-15 05:19:20 · 5 answers · asked by axdavis06 1 in Family

I've been married for two years and things aren't going very well in my marriage. To make matters worse I have a crush on someone else and the guy is nice but totally wrong for me. Why am I attracted to people who are not right for me?

2007-08-15 05:17:13 · 9 answers · asked by ernie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

MY PARENTS HAD SEX B4 THEY WERE MARRIED MY MOM GOT PREGNANT WITH MY BROTHER MY MOM FORCED MY DAD TO MARRY HER HE MARRIED HER 2 YRS LATER THEY HAD ME

2007-08-15 05:14:15 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-15 05:11:02 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We are not being allowed any visits with our grandson Joshua by his parents. We have bonded with him for 4years. His mom hates us and his dad (our son) is so controlled by her that he refuses to bring Joshua to see us on his 2nd weekend visits, (verbally agreed to at a case conference), because she tells our son that I am putting bad things into Joshua's head, and saying that Joshua tells her some bad things I'm saying about her. She tells our son that Joshua is a fu--ing brat when he comes back from seeing my husband and I. We have gotten to see Joshua about 4 to 8 hrs a month over the past year and our bond is being threatened, and we love him very much and believe he is hurting needlessly, but his mom will not talk with us. From previous actions, we know that she doesn't forgive or accept forgiveness. Our son told us he is trying to get her to get someone to supervise visits so that she may eventually realize that Joshua enjoys his time with us. He hasn't been successful so far.

2007-08-15 05:10:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am past the stage of being patient! I know it sounds harsh, but I have needs! My husband and I are 32 and we've been married for almost 7 yrs. He won't have sex with me. I have started to threaten divorce if he doesn't act like my husband and not a roommate. I have started to nag again. I am just very frustrated. It's been like 4 months!!! I have not changed since we got married. What would you do in this situation?

2007-08-15 05:10:52 · 28 answers · asked by Marygoroun(d) 6 in Marriage & Divorce

even though you look like a monkey's butt?

2007-08-15 05:08:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really didnt mean to do it, that happens with me alot. Probably because of the way i play around with ppl. but i dont like the other guy. Do yout hink he'll get mad?

2007-08-15 05:05:46 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a 15 year old stepdaughter and like most teenagers she is not the most pleasant person to be around. I tried to avoid her and her negative comments about me, her disrespectful behavior etc. But I feel very guilty, I care about her and I want to be her friend. I want her to be in my future children's life. My husband and my stepdaughter had an arguement 2 months ago ( she was very disrespectful to him and I) and he told her that she was not allowed to come to our place - be respectful or do not come her at all. I know it was too harsh probably. We haven't seen her for 2 months. I would like to ask her to have lunch with me or go shopping. What should I tell her? Should I apologize, what if she doesn't want to apologize? How do we deal with this situation? She is probably mad at us. I want to do something special for her and make her feel loved. Any suggestions?

2007-08-15 05:05:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Please help me to make my husband happy again as i dont know what to do anymore. He has recently started going on about how crap everything is (his words).
General gripes are overworked and underpaid, constantly tired, lack of fun time, the pressure of a mortgage and responsibilities (2 kids). He plays in a band, and to be honest i think he would like to just up sticks and go on tour. He says he feels his creative nature is being squashed by the rat race and he cant deal with it. He has just gone and got another tattoo and has thrown himself into getting fit. He tends to be obsessive when he starts anything.
He is only 36 so mid life crisis early?
I dont understand his half empty attitude. We both have jobs, a house, two cars and have just come back from a really good holiday. (Have also booked another for next year). Our kids are good, not perfect but no problems and he has his health. What is he looking for, I dont know if I am going to be able to be whatever it is he is after.

2007-08-15 05:05:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My parents just found out that my boyfriends father is in prison. This has lead them to make some hurtful remarks. They constantly belittle him because of this fact.
Brad is seventeen and trying to get on with the rest of his life. He has big plans. He says that in college he wants to major in criminal law. He wants to become an attorney.
He understands that his father isn't perfect. He understands that his father had to go away to pay for the mistakes that he made. He has not let his father's situation influence his career choice.
But my parents just don't see the good in Brad. They treat him as if he is to pay for his father's mistakes. They are always saying "like father, like son.
All I want is for them to see Brad for what he is. I have tried telling them that Brad has plans for after he graduates but they don't want to hear that. I feel as if they are judging Brad based on the mistakes his father has made.
How do I get them to see Brad for who and what he really is?

2007-08-15 05:03:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when i come to think about it,it does but there are time god make me think it is not................which is which ?why god make us confused?or is just me the confuse one?

2007-08-15 05:02:17 · 17 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't financially afford to live on my income alone. What are my options?

2007-08-15 05:02:14 · 3 answers · asked by cmwinter62 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

please please please help!...i screwd up..im an idiot!!..i was talkin to my ex n she said she was gettin really bored n stuff n her parents were goin outta town for 2 days n they were askin if she wanted to come with..i din realize n i didn say anythin..n then after 5 mins she decided to go wit em..n then after half an hour i realized n i asked her if she wanted to go clubbin or sumthin n she said well now its too late..u shudve asked me earlier..then i said so do u wanna go somewhere when u come back n she said no!!..what do i do!!..im a ******* idiot!..how do i convince her!!help!..please temme! fast! what do i do ?how do i get another shot ?

2007-08-15 04:59:12 · 35 answers · asked by seth 1 in Singles & Dating

I just met this new guy a few weeks ago and he has me kind of frustrated and confused. When I met him on a Friday night, I didn't call until Monday afternoon because he said he has a little boy and I don't know if I want to deal with any "baby mama drama". He said that night that him & his ex get along great. Ever since that first call, he's called me when leaving work, text me during work, but since his schedule sucks, he doesn't have much time at night so naturally on his day off, I assumed he would want to see me as he said he would. Wrong - he made other plans with his friend at a football game- or so he says. He's said a few times that he would call and then claims to have fallen asleep. Also, since we have spoken more and went to dinner and all that, he's started to make comments about there being drama with his baby mama and how much he can't stand her and a part of me feels like maybe they are still hooking up or something. Should I be worried? Or give him space?

2007-08-15 04:59:08 · 10 answers · asked by Caramella 1 in Singles & Dating

As a teenager, I always put knowledge before friendships, thus intellectually, I was ahead of my peers. Although I've never acted snobby or condescending towards others, I still have a difficult time relating to others my age. In several instances, people have bolstered my social ineptness just to undermine my intelligence ("you have brains but you don't have friends").

On some minor occasions, I have played the "average jane" role in order to fit in at school. But I always ended up hating myself for that. Education is what makes me happy--it is my passion and my purpose--and I refuse to sacrifice that for anybody. However, friendships are very important to me as well, and I don't want to lose out on them anymore.

(P.S. I am 19 years old and I'm about to start college soon).

2007-08-15 04:59:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

As soon as you meet her, she comes across as a good natured person. A little shy but it's obvious that she's good hearted.

However, she tends to become consumed with her insecurities and fears and she is so scared of getting hurt. Hasn't really considered the guys feelings because she's wrapped up in her own fears.

Is this girl selfish?

2007-08-15 04:58:59 · 26 answers · asked by Chelsea 2 in Singles & Dating

To make a long story short: Went out with this guy, but broke up with him because it was too difficult to keep seeing him (he knows the reason why, I explained to him), he still likes me and is willing to go back out and continue to work around the difficulties. However, I feel bad that we have to work around it in the first place and things would be hard anyway! He tells me he's fine with this.

I'm not sure if I still like him, I think I do because I often miss talking/hanging out/etc. with him. But then again, I'm not really sure if I want a boyfriend. Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. I feel like I need more time to think about this. He texted me just now saying: he still likes me and wants to go out.

How do I respond to this? I want to have more time to think but I don't want him to lose interest and I'll get hurt without expecting it. I also don't want to say yes and make things even more difficult and end up getting hurt anyway.

Please help. I'm very, very confused

2007-08-15 04:57:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is rebellion !

2007-08-15 04:55:46 · 25 answers · asked by Sharon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-15 04:54:08 · 83 answers · asked by Lost in thought 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 04:52:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told him to go to a brothel and pay prostitutes to teach him how to have sex. I swear I was dead serious! I honestly think it's a great way to learn to have sex. What better 'teachers' could there be than prostitutes? They're experienced, he'll never see them again, he doesn't need to know them or trust them, their consent is given, and he can do it as many times as he wants. In minutes I got quite a few thumbs downs, why? Lol.

2007-08-15 04:51:06 · 46 answers · asked by M 1 in Singles & Dating