please please please help!...i screwd up..im an idiot!!..i was talkin to my ex n she said she was gettin really bored n stuff n her parents were goin outta town for 2 days n they were askin if she wanted to come with..i din realize n i didn say anythin..n then after 5 mins she decided to go wit em..n then after half an hour i realized n i asked her if she wanted to go clubbin or sumthin n she said well now its too late..u shudve asked me earlier..then i said so do u wanna go somewhere when u come back n she said no!!..what do i do!!..im a ******* idiot!..how do i convince her!!help!..please temme! fast! what do i do ?how do i get another shot ?
2007-08-15 04:59:12 · 35 answers · asked by seth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, you were a little slow. She will get over it though.
2007-08-15 05:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her cool off for a little bit- you're not a mind reader- she's perfectly capable of asking you to do something as well
tell her that it means a lot to you and that you'd really appreciate it if she'd give you another chance and spend some time with you- if she's gonna be stubborn still after putting yourself out on the line for her.. then its not worth it... she's just being mean!
but give her a little time to cool down 1st before saying anything that way her answer will be a rational one and not emotionally charged and all over the place, which is often what happens when we try to solve problems when we're upset
2007-08-15 05:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You missed the boat on this one, man.
Learn from your mistake and don't let it happen again. You'll feel better about the situation if you look at it and say to yourself "Wow, I was a {bleep}ing idiot. I'm never going to do that again though, so its okay." And then the next time you have an opportunity such as this and you take advantage of it, you'll give yourself a little mental pat on the back.
2007-08-15 05:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her go it will be better for the both of u it may hurt for a while but just please do it man unless u want to feel hurt for a long time i used to be just like u with this one girl but no were like bff and ill always have her back dude to tell u the truth if she a normal teenage girl then she find a dude on vacation unless shes still gettin over u both need sumone so u can forget about the feelings for eachother just open up and date again unless u feel that ull never find sumone as good as her but thats not true trust me ive been there
2007-08-15 05:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're sorry and you weren't sure if you should ask or not. Tell her that you would really like to hang out with her when she gets back and you hope she considers it.
Other than that you could just let it go. Don't be so hard on yourself. She's your ex anyway, you two are broken up for a reason. Just relax. If she's gonna be stubborn like that then just let her meet another guy to stress out.
2007-08-15 05:04:53 · answer #5 · answered by TegLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me she's trying to teach you a lesson and maybe this will help get your priorities straight and show you she thinks it's more important you give more thought to your relationship. She was bored because of what you two weren't doing together that she likes to do. So when she comes back, you should make every effort to impress on her you'll do better to take her needs into consideration
2007-08-15 05:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its true...you're an idiot. To drive this fact home your command of the English language (or lack thereof), failure to properly apply punctuation and lack of sentence structure solidifies your self admittance of having no brains.
there is no other shot. like much with life you have one chance to get something right. failure to do so may have catastrophic results. I suggest stay off the dope or put down the video games long enough to pay attention to what she's attempting to communicate to that fogged and shallow mind of yours my son. think clearly and pay attention and not only may you be able to salvage a relationship, but you just may get to graduate high school.
2007-08-15 05:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now she's mad, so you might as well wait for her to come back. But, once she gets back, think of something that she really likes (like, if she likes white roses, buy her some; if she likes teddy bears, get her one, etc.) and just keep showing interest to let her know you're serious.
2007-08-15 05:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by smcbroomagain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude- sounds like you dropped the ball. Don't panic- give her a call when she gets back with her parents. Don't apologize- tell her she missed a great time out. Make HER sorry she missed the time with you. Play hard to get- drives girls crazy.
2007-08-15 05:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by scott m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not an idiot. Remember why she is an ex - then ask yourself why you would want to subject yourself to being treated that way again.
I think you were wise to not take the bait she was dangling in front of your face.
2007-08-15 05:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and let her spen this time with her parents. Try again when she comes back. She probably needs the break anyway. Back off of her for a while.
2007-08-15 05:05:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋