Family & Relationships - 15 August 2007

I'm 4 years older than him. The first time I found out (a year ago), I told my parents and they talked about it with him and if he did it again he wouldn't be able to use to computer anymore.
He still did it, but my parents were so upset, I didn't want to tell them again because they would be even more stressed out. So I always kept it to myself.

looking at the history, he searches for cartoon/anime porn of his favorite animes. when i first found out, i saw one of the sites he was on and it was so disturbing...since then ive never viewed any of the sites, just the history...thats how freaked out i am by it.
today, i caught him on those sites again..at my moms workplace!! (when she wasnt there) then i caught him again when we got home!

Yeah, i know it's natural for boys to be doing this but he just finished 6th grade and i think he is too young to be doing this...plus isn't it illegal since he is underage?

what can i do without telling my parents?

2007-08-15 01:22:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

After being a smoker for 21 yrs, I have been on NRT for the past 6 weeks. Still smoking but cut down 75% and no smoking in the house either.
However, my mum came to visit yesterday, refused to stand outside, swore at my kids and has stunk my whole house out. She walked out today without even saying goodbye! I told her she was selfish for not respecting my wishes, but she left me a 'terse' note on my table saying thanks for my unhospitality!
How would you guys react to this?

2007-08-15 01:18:30 · 19 answers · asked by cazkenton2003 2 in Family

Looking at these questions ive realised that their are some points that are so obvious to me First i think its awesom,e that men and women are equal but the problem is were geting sameness . Here we go i belive men dont know how to be men anymore so many guys have personalitys traits that are unmasculin you know like men being to femmine , no wonder men end up in the freindship zone with women its because their acting like a girlfreind and not a man . I personally belive women cant feel attraction for nice guys who by definition are agreeable , approval seeking , let people walk over them , needy , overly nice , sensitive , caring etc some of which are female personality traits .
Basicly men are not masculin theyre too femmine , it a nutshell
masculin attracts femmine . Men by definition and nature are dominant ( no not controling thats dommineering and insecure ) , strong personalitys , mature , have goals in life , assertive , honest , have integrity , dont try to impress people

2007-08-15 01:15:24 · 46 answers · asked by badass-mofu 5 in Singles & Dating

My sec. cousin loves me more than my parents...i think. and why?
Is
n't it sad that my second cousin shows me more love than my parents?

My dad is often away and when I seem down he dismiss's it. My mother was raised by her grandma because she never recieved the attention/love she got from her own mom. Her mom pretty much abadoned her and my grandma was left to take care of her. Now my mom is taking it out on me. Were not suppose to show our feelings-as in being sad or else she'll scream at me and saying im acting like a grannie.

than how come my cousin is the only one who was very nice to me and was trying to cheer me up while no else cared? not even my other cousins at the party? he is my sec. cousin. even though my other cousins are nice he was being esp, nice to me. hes 21. im 14.


BTW AT THE PARTY I WAS MOODY NOT SAD!
and he dosnt know the situation at home

2007-08-15 01:07:04 · 2 answers · asked by ♥dO yoU loVe iT♥ 1 in Family

bascially alot of stuffs happened in the past week, I got kicked out of my home by my parents and I was wondering just to call in with an upset stomach (which could be thought to have been stress related) your views?
thank you xx

2007-08-15 01:02:00 · 22 answers · asked by Krysia D 1 in Singles & Dating

We both work full time. I pay all the bills and I clean the house... although I've already gotten to the point where i stopped picking up after him, but he can't even pick up after himself. And plus he ruins everything I put together presuming i touched one random thing of his and put it in my things. He'll tear the house apart when he's lost something and not put anything back. Plus if he loses it for good he shrugs it off and buys a new one, still continuing with his ways. It's embarrassing and I can never have friends over after work anymore because I don't know what type of mess he's left that day. I've honestly stopped trying with him and he just lets everything go... pass the mold stage and everything. I've sat down and tried to explain how one thing leads to another when its a mess, and he didn't want to listen... so any ideas?

2007-08-15 00:57:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you were me, as a good looking, sexy, attractive 28 year old woman , would you stay in a no-sex marriage withouth an affair or the thought of divorce?
My husband refuses to have councling, denies there is a problem, no need for medication and closed door to the subject of sex.
For me sex is very very important, it gives me life, energy, and power to go on dealing with the challenges. I just love it full stop, it's the greatest fun and pleasure. But at the same time, I have always had that belief that when you marry, you shall never cheat or divorce no matter what. But after 2 years of no-sex marriage, I have just lost my confidence, ambitions, always down and think about sex and remembering how great I was feeling when I had it before meeting THIS guy. Basically I can't cope any more.
Would you leave to satisfy your needs, or would you stay unhappy for some religious faith?
Why I married this guy? Because we had a long-distance love relationship for 10 years before marriage!!!!

2007-08-15 00:54:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to know what makes guys attracted to girls... i know what makes me attracted to guys but im not sure how guys think....

2007-08-15 00:50:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think spain or greece is nice but now his started talking about engagement so i wont to go somewhere special does anyone have any ideas where theres a nice place? Thanks guys

2007-08-15 00:50:10 · 9 answers · asked by Candy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Because my husband made a statement last night, saying "She is the perfect wife for his friend (Sunny) to bring out". What does he mean by that?

2007-08-15 00:49:58 · 8 answers · asked by candie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't even been married a year yet and the world is falling at my feet. My husband and I had a row yesterday which ended up in violence. He choked me until I blacked out. I know I need to leave for the sake of our children so that they don't grow up witnessing this kind of behaviour which I am more than sure could happen again even if this is only the first time but the man I married has been the one true love of my life. We have been together for 5 years and I have changed from someone who hated themselves so much to a smart and confident woman. My husband has been diagnosed with depression and has been using recreational drugs over the last six months which really hasn't helped anything. He came back yesterday to tell me he wants a divorce because he can't live with someone in the fear that one day I will push him to killing me. We have had our times in the past but he hasn't ever initiated violence. My children have to come first buy my heart is simply breaking.....

2007-08-15 00:47:15 · 19 answers · asked by Yoga Wifey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i got in with a gal the uva night n we were gna take it furva n get closa...since then ma m8 has jumped in n started backstabbin n they are now cin eachother but she dosnt know wat hes like n i dont want her gettin hurt but want her back aswell...help lol

2007-08-15 00:47:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One in real time and another online. You would very much like to be with just one but you can't . The online man is more suitable age-wise, personality and long-term potential. The real time man who was there first is a bit immature but loyal, and great chemistry; no future maybe the case here because of big age difference.
Would you go for sex or for long-term-( although not guaranteed)-potential relationship. The woman involved is divorced and beyond child-bearing years.
How do you explain to the one to be dumped that it's over without revealing or sounding like a cheat and without hurting his pride? Each of these thinks he's the only one in her life.

2007-08-15 00:46:21 · 2 answers · asked by Blue lagoon 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend left his cell phone in the bathroom. When I went in to use the bathroom, he immediately followed me in and swiped up his phone. This made me think that he was hiding something from me on his phone.

Would this bother you?

Do I have anything to worry about?

2007-08-15 00:45:45 · 6 answers · asked by Jay's Mommy 4 in Singles & Dating

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2007-08-15 00:39:11 · 21 answers · asked by king of spain 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 00:38:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

enen just a little bit?

2007-08-15 00:37:10 · 8 answers · asked by yerafudbaw 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-15 00:35:30 · 5 answers · asked by ducks_1234 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 00:35:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know its a tough question. I can not understand why a guy or girl cheat when they love their gf / bf soo much? But still this happens and no one can help it. I just want to know why did you cheat when you have a partner? Its even for the married ones.

2007-08-15 00:33:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you still get married?

Hypothetically, of course.

I'm happily married and to answer my own question, yes, I would have still married even if I KNEW it would end in a divorce.

2007-08-15 00:29:39 · 8 answers · asked by Sleek 7 in Marriage & Divorce

The advantages and disadvantages of a relationship which is wife is earned more than her husband.

2007-08-15 00:19:07 · 18 answers · asked by blunt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

boys keep looking at me (sorta staring) and im not sure if there looking cos they like me or theyre just looking. also any flirting tips for the more shy girl

2007-08-15 00:16:02 · 12 answers · asked by kellyjames95 2 in Singles & Dating

I will be having a peaceful break up dinner with my girlfriend soon, any suggestions of do's and don'ts? What's life after this going to be? Any suggestions on how to improve mood and prevent depression and loneliness from break up?

2007-08-15 00:15:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 00:13:56 · 24 answers · asked by sun 1 in Friends

ok i have a question i went out with some girl for 4 years we had our ups and downs in the end it didnt work out and we ended up as enemies.. we didnt talk for months but then everytime we talk we try to be friends but for some reason we always end up arguing..and i always notice that when we speak she always tells me how happy she is with her new man....what does this mean??

2007-08-15 00:09:16 · 6 answers · asked by kid233 1 in Marriage & Divorce

HOW DID U FIND OUT??

2007-08-15 00:03:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my frind have a prb help her

2007-08-15 00:01:40 · 10 answers · asked by huma a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl in my batch hardly talks 2 any boy in batch. Studies made us talk sometimes. She had a BF then. Smtime l8r we became frens dat was1.5yr back. Then after smtime she had a breakup its been 1 yr now. Reasons not known but dat was a healthy break up. Tho i liked her a lot but just been frens. 6 mnths later i started givin her hints that i m interested, showin my care 4 her, 2 mnths further i told her dat i care 4 her & trust her a lot . she replied that she trusts me 2, but ferns dnt need 2 talk daily. throughout this time it was me who used to call her evrytime weekly. Tho she was very welcoming bt nvr made a call herself. thn down the line i smhw told her my liking 4 her. She gave me hint that she dsnt wanna hav BF yet & her family is very orthodox. I appreciated her a lot for her trust in me to tell me all that. Then i started calling her frequently every alternate day. she seemed comfortable with that 2. But she still nvr takes an initiative. Any advice how 2 carry it furthe

2007-08-15 00:01:03 · 8 answers · asked by Aryan K 2 in Singles & Dating