Family & Relationships - 15 August 2007

tried multiple partners?

2007-08-15 06:07:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex boyfreind recently got married and he told me that it was more business than pleasure with him and the girl that he married and i am still his freind and still talks to him but i am not sure if i like the fact that he would marry someone to stay in the country and not for love. i am not sure if there is anything wrong with that what do you think...........................................does he secretly love her..........

2007-08-15 06:06:40 · 5 answers · asked by Chanel B 1 in Singles & Dating

hi i married female but find woman sexy i find that i either want to play with a female while my husband watches or he can join.
Do you think i should do it..

2007-08-15 06:06:17 · 37 answers · asked by smartie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so there is this guy at my church. lets say his name is Nathan. he asks me to hold his hand and he always tells me "I love you" i have a huge crush on him and i am not sure if he likes me for real, so i never say it back. oh and by the way, he is four years older than me(i am 12!). please be nice to me(unless that is really what you think), i have had my heart broken too many times.

2007-08-15 06:06:10 · 18 answers · asked by norskie_gurl 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex and have been broken up for a year and a half. In that time she has met someone else. But recently we been spending time together and we have been intimate for a month or two. I told her I want her back but she tell's she cant because she has a boyfriend. I told her that I cant be just friends but she wants me to be her friend. I told all I'm to you is a back up she told me no. Long story short I told I cant talk or see her again she tried to change my mind but I stood my ground. We havent talked or seen each other in a week. The question I have I still want her back but what should I do. And should I have cut her off or just waited to see how things were going to go. I want her back in my life. We were together for 3 years.

2007-08-15 06:02:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the most romantic movie to watch with your BF or date......doesnt have to be a current movie thats out....
I like Meet Joe Black

2007-08-15 06:02:00 · 16 answers · asked by oklasoonersgrl 2 in Singles & Dating

I know that it might be somewhat ridiculous to post a question like this on YA, but an objective point of view might be just what I need. I've been with my gf for a little over a year now, and it seems like she just isn't happy. She is very quiet around me. She hardly ever laughs. She seems to just have no passion. Sex is a joke, but that's not the biggest issue in our relationship. The biggest issue, in my opinion, is the fact that I treat this woman and her four year old daughter like gold, but get nothing in return. I can walk in the house and barely get a "hi." I know she loves me because on my b-day, she wrote a very heartfelt note on my card. It talked about how much she loves me and how she wants to be with me forever. She also went WAY overboard on my gifts. Honestly, I don't care about all that stuff. I want her, not material possessions. I love her daughter so much also. I just don't know what to do. A sidenote: she has cerebral palsy, so that may have an impact

2007-08-15 06:01:15 · 9 answers · asked by chickenbeansoup 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK I REALLY WANT SCHOOL TO START BUT ALL OF MY FRIENDS DONT..... IS SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME????

2007-08-15 06:00:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He is trying to make me choose between my son (16) and him of course hands down my son. Now I want him gone because how can I live with a man who wants me to choose. What to do or how do I get him to leave. He said he was leaving but never left. What to do???

2007-08-15 05:57:57 · 11 answers · asked by forrealgyrl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

soooory and his mood was still the same this morning. he said that he was very upset at me .... im like for what? i know i didnt do anything,i know i start an arugment, i was sleep when he came in at 915 last night this morning he said that i was acting funny when he came in. how can i act funny when i just woke up? we was the one acting funny when he came in. that is when i told him that she had called for him and i and i tld him everything she said.that is when his mood started to change.he said well im not going to talk to her know . for what he didnt do anything right? i ask him you have been going to school for 2yrs and you just started talking to her?he said that he had her number before he lost it. and when i told him she called he was soooo exicted to know that she called. that is what makes me think he has something up his sleeves. he also said that he got her number because she is throwing a party. she said that was not true.he was beging to come over when you gona let me.

2007-08-15 05:56:18 · 6 answers · asked by jessica f 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife read the ansers i got and said they dont know it all. so here goes more info. i was told of frist two chance meetings. nothing more till jan when he watched our kid. sun night mon mourn our daughter was with them the whole time. he left just before they went to bed. when i came back from fld and blew up at her she thought that i was just venting. and things whould be just fine. then when i moved out jan 26 she told him thier friendship had to end. she stoped calling him but he kept calling her. somtimes she anserd sometimes not. all were 2 to 5 min calls. said he just wanted to know how we were doing and that he didnt mean to cause her troble. she changed her # so she could prove that she ended it. but then he started to show up where she was. store;mall, mcdees. at Mcde she told him it was over she had to save her family. she couldnt be friends with him anymore. he said that he thought that they were going to be more than friends.she said she never had whanted to be more.soYli

2007-08-15 05:55:37 · 4 answers · asked by jd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay this is really serious and I need help. There is this guy I like. I have known him since high school, we graduated this year and well there are times where he calls me and talks to me and then there are times when I call him and talk to him. Are conversations dont last very long, the longest we have ever talked is about 10mins on the phone. I have told some of my friends about me liking him and they say that I am to good for him that he isnt good enough and that I can do better. Well I have known him for a year and a 1/2 and I feel that I know him pretty well. He has no Idea that I like him and I want to tell him but I dont know how. I dont want to be straight up and tell him "I like you" I want to kind of give him hints rather than just tell him. What kind of hints would you give a guy/girl.
P.S. he is a class clown and he might not take it seriously I want him to take it seriously though.
The reason my friends say that im to good for him is cuz of looks and how he is a clown

2007-08-15 05:55:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother had a stroke about 4 years ago, shortly after my step-father died of cancer...she was heart-broken. I have 1 brother and two sisters. My brother swore to my step-father on his death bed that he would watch take care of our mother. When she had the stroke, my brother and his wife (a nurse) decided to take care of her. We other 3 thought this was very brave and commendible, and had a lot of respect for their decision. Well, in the past three years, they have gotten Durable Power of Attorney, Medical Power of Attorney, had her house Quit Claimed into their name, emptied all bank accounts, disconnected the phone (they have cell phones now which we don;t know the numbers) and my mother has bruises on her arms and hands where her has been pinched by my sister-in-law (the nurse). also, she says my sister-in-law slaps her frequently. They demand a 24 hour notice when we take my mother, and also demand a schedule of everything we plan to do with her. I am so afraid for her well-being.

2007-08-15 05:54:48 · 10 answers · asked by nateru1966 1 in Family

i talked to my boyfriend about his goals in the next 5 years (see previous question) i made sure it was during one of his favorite programs on television, he seems to tell the truth when he wants me to shut up so he can waste time watching tv... he said a few things and also said that he hoped when the time was right we'd get married within the next 5 years :)))

so what y'all think?

i shouldnt start plannin a wedding and all i know but what ya think? i want it sooner than later but id respect his wishes.. when do you think he wants to wait till ? i dont wanna push it and ask him but i wanna brag to my friends with something more than a 5 year goal plan that has me in it :)

2007-08-15 05:54:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Wife claims abuse because husband took sexy video of themselves, BUT she is seen on Video asking husband " take a video of this dirty sexy sexy woman". Also in part of video she asks to use the cam corder and then tapes sex of them. Also before marriage she sent sexy pictures to him via the internet she took of herself while she was in another country and he was in USA. Also she made her own sexy clothes. What would a jury think?

2007-08-15 05:52:15 · 13 answers · asked by DALIAN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He told us that when he made love to his wife, that she would proclaim that she did not feel him. Now mind you these people are in their early 30's, and she swore she felt nothing. I haven't a clue as to weather or not they have children, but from the way he talked I assumed ....NOT!

Now, my take on this is that she felt NOTHING for him and therefore felt nothing when they made love..

But, I want to know what you all think..

WE did find out that she left him, and he is a rather large man, but could his weight have something to do with it?
I mean, yes he is large, but that has nothing to do with his penis! Surely she could feel it?

Let me know what you all think! Thanks!

2007-08-15 05:50:49 · 6 answers · asked by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im having a party to celebrate the end of my divorce. Any suggestions are appreciated as to the wording for the invite.

2007-08-15 05:45:07 · 16 answers · asked by Bklyn born Jerzy bred 1 in Marriage & Divorce

"The person you are tring to reach has disconneded their phone at this time (and to really kick ya when your down) for now (meaning its just until you go away)" How do you feel when you hear that recording on you phone?

2007-08-15 05:43:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I caught her trying on his things. He sweats alot on his job, and I hadn't had a chance to wash them yet. She was wearing his uniform and glove. What should I do?

2007-08-15 05:43:07 · 17 answers · asked by AJPierzynskis' 4 in Marriage & Divorce

For nearly two years my wife has denied an emotional affair with her Ex-husband that start while she was pregnant with our daughter. During the 2nd session with our second marriage counselor she has admitted it. I have asked her to choose between her Ex and his family and me with the family we have now. I told her there was no half way on this issue. I told her that the only interaction with her Ex should be directly related to my stepson. She says she needs more time. I’m thinking that kind of speaks for itself. I am only asking her for what she vowed when we go married. Should I call it quits and go to my lawyer or give her more time. My stepson is 8 and my daughter is 23 months. For more background check my previous questions.

2007-08-15 05:42:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I am lookin for some caucasian woman websites that s not porn

2007-08-15 05:40:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for six years. we recently hit a snag when my mom fell on hard times and my brother and sister had to move in with us in our 1 bedroom apartment. We got into an arguement about my sister calling and asking my bf for a ride from work. He chewed me out stating that it's not his sister and he should not have to pick her up. We have been having the same discussion for the past seven days and that's how long my brother and sister have been at my house. Finally I got upset and told him that we need a break now I regret it. It's been two days since I last seen him and I am too stubborn to call just like he is to stubborn to call me. What should I do?

2007-08-15 05:39:47 · 7 answers · asked by nita23 2 in Singles & Dating

Some people say that inviting someone to be in your wedding is a show of how they feel about you. Do you have an opinion on what factors go into selecting participants to be in a wedding and what inferences (if any) are involved in being exluded or included? Also, words of wisdom for the person who is asked to participate and the person who is not? And also, the person doing the selecting? Obviously, the person getting married can choose who they want, but looking at the overall scheme of things, the choices could affect relationships for years to come. Any thoughts?

2007-08-15 05:38:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok my bf started to drink about a while ago. about a week ago he came home drunk and pushed me and i have a bruise on my side.and i left i knew he didnt know what he was doing but since we have been broken up he has sobered up do i go back and take that risk again please help

2007-08-15 05:37:54 · 28 answers · asked by I♥EdwardCullen 3 in Singles & Dating

There must be thousands of aphrodisiacs that claim to work wonders, however do any of these actually work?

2007-08-15 05:37:47 · 8 answers · asked by stuartie74 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband figth always wit my daughter,because his having a hart time with hr to be teenager she is a good kid but the problem she is to pretty and his scare she get out of the house I know it's hard to lose your little girl, but can't stand the figth any more

2007-08-15 05:36:06 · 14 answers · asked by Babedahl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-15 05:34:20 · 24 answers · asked by Me 5 in Singles & Dating

I am having a horrible day. I yelled at my husband last night and even though I apologized I still feel horrible. I hope you are having a good day.

2007-08-15 05:34:02 · 18 answers · asked by C Deezy McCain 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband recently told me he wants a divorce, and its because I am taking too long in school (1 year left), and he has no other VALID reason as far as I am concerned. In the recent months, he has helped his one friend move (female) and has done a lot more for her than he has for me, what kinds of things should I look for and how to get the valid truth?

I know divorce is inevitable now, and when we initially married, we agreed we didn't believe in divorce, unless there was cheating or abuse involved. And I know I didn't cheat, as I am the type who loves unconditionally. He was never like this before, she started coming around. How can I know for sure? something that can hold up in court when the divorce goes through?

2007-08-15 05:31:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

"Please hang up and try your call again, this is a recording"
When is the right time then, after you hear it 100 more times then you finally to sit and say hmm it was the wrong number after all?

2007-08-15 05:29:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating