my wife read the ansers i got and said they dont know it all. so here goes more info. i was told of frist two chance meetings. nothing more till jan when he watched our kid. sun night mon mourn our daughter was with them the whole time. he left just before they went to bed. when i came back from fld and blew up at her she thought that i was just venting. and things whould be just fine. then when i moved out jan 26 she told him thier friendship had to end. she stoped calling him but he kept calling her. somtimes she anserd sometimes not. all were 2 to 5 min calls. said he just wanted to know how we were doing and that he didnt mean to cause her troble. she changed her # so she could prove that she ended it. but then he started to show up where she was. store;mall, mcdees. at Mcde she told him it was over she had to save her family. she couldnt be friends with him anymore. he said that he thought that they were going to be more than friends.she said she never had whanted to be more.soYli
2007-08-15 05:55:37 · 4 answers · asked by jd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she says that she hasnt seen or heard from him since Mcdes. says i can see phone bills if i want. but her cell dosent give incoming numbers. and his old number has been disconnected. so how do i know?
2007-08-15 06:55:23 · update #1
Just be aware that she could be telling you one thing and doing another. She lied before and was comfortable doing it, so why is it all of a sudden different, because she got caught? Be on your guard and don't trust so easily, let her know the trust has to be rebuilt from the ground up.
2007-08-15 06:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by bm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will be the first to admit that my answer to your last post was uncalled for in the way that I wrote it. However I still feel primarily the same way. Think about it. If they were "just friends," then why did she bother any lying? Why would she call him before you were on the plane? Does she have respect for her own marriage? If so, then why allow ANY man to stay at your house well into the morning? You may be getting more information from her, but rest assured that you will never get ALL of it. I truly believe that you have done the right thing by moving away and would not even consider moving back until AFTER she proves her faithfulness. Starting with this guy being reported as a stalker and a possible restraining order placed on him. You need to have proof, not promises of your wife being yours and yours alone.Just my opinion.
2007-08-15 06:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe stalking is illegal in all states? If it is a major problem and your wife is trying to make a go of it with you, perhaps the police can convince the guy to back off. If she hee-haws around about it...I would question her motives.
2007-08-15 06:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by peggy m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is stalking her. She should check with the police about this and perhaps get a restraining order.
And, sorry, but I think you are being too paranoid. I would believe her and help her get rid of this clown.
2007-08-15 05:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋