My husband figth always wit my daughter,because his having a hart time with hr to be teenager she is a good kid but the problem she is to pretty and his scare she get out of the house I know it's hard to lose your little girl, but can't stand the figth any more
2007-08-15 05:36:06 · 14 answers · asked by Babedahl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think counseling is in order. All men have a hard time dealing with the fact that their daughter is growing up. He can not keep her locked up. He needs to trust the parenting skills and the morals that he has instilled in her and allow her to grow up and live her own life. Good Luck to all of you!!
2007-08-15 06:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, what you need to do is take your husbands side against your daughter every time. If you don't back him up this will encourage her to drag out the argument and make things worse. If you step in then she'll know she can't win against both of you and the problem is solved. She will be reluctant to fight in the future if she knows she'll have to take on both of you. Whatever you do NEVER take her side against him. That will drive you apart more than the fighting.
2007-08-15 05:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by ignernt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does it have to do with the prettiness and the care? Is your husband has something to do with your daughter without you even know it? I'm just assuming since she is too pretty. Well, there are lots of pretty girls out there walking and shopping, so if she wants to go out make sure with someone that you can trust
2007-08-15 05:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont want the divorce over your daughter that is just your excuse do you ever back up what your husband says or is it two against one get a grip and dont use your daughter as the scape goat about your divorce
2007-08-15 05:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never known any parents to not fight constantly with their teenage daughter.
I don't really think it's grounds for a divorce.
2007-08-15 05:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kaja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How exactly did this become your issue? They are the ones fighting. They will still see each other and still fight. How is you divorcing him going to solve anything but you not having to hear it? Fact is he is the parent and she is the child. He makes the rules so any fighting that ensues is actually a result of her attitude and behavior.
2007-08-15 05:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"my husband always fights with my daughter because he's having a hard time with her being a teenager, she is a good kid but the problem is she is too pretty and it scares him that she gets out of the house, i know it's hard to lose your little girl but can't stand the fighting anymore."
talk to him before you divorce him over this petty issue please
2007-08-15 05:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of language is that???
Ummm....he needs counseling. Encourange him to go talk to a therapist. If he is hitting your daughter,leave him. He may have legitimate reasons for being mad at her,but his way of handling the situation is too harsh.
2007-08-15 05:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to let go and you take over for a while. He is a father and some fathers are more protective. why not have a family meeting and allow your daughter to talk to him and reassure him that she is a good girl and he should trust her more.
2007-08-15 05:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't have to divorce because of that...
2007-08-15 06:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by Haidee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋