Family & Relationships - 15 August 2007

I've been seeing this guy for a while. He is been a great guy and everything that we have is wonderful. He treats me like a lady and we do things for eachother all the time. My parents and family are 100% Italian and I am dating a cuban/peruvian man. I am no where near racist, and I love all race's equally. My parents always wanted me to continue our Italian race and marry an Italian man. They wanted my kids to be Italian and continue on the family tree. I feel horrible because I think I am letting them down. I'm afraid when we get married and have children because I have had that image in my head since I was a little child to have Italian child and marry and Italian man. Is this wrong of me to be a little scared to move the relationship foward? I mean I love this guy alot and I would do anything for him but I also love my family. I'm a horrible person I know, but can someone please tell me whats wrong with me and why do I feel this way?

2007-08-15 04:10:05 · 6 answers · asked by LacrosseGirl5 2 in Singles & Dating

what are the songs that can make you fall in love or that can make you cream in your pants (thats probably a bad way to put it). please tell me the songs that touches you the most. thanks!

2007-08-15 04:08:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

party with his sister-in-law by themselves until 3 AM after everyone else has gone to bed two hours earlier? This would be his brother's wife. Then at 3 AM they decide to leave the house they are at together to go and buy cigarettes?

2007-08-15 04:08:41 · 22 answers · asked by firedancer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-15 04:08:38 · 1 answers · asked by dogsroc11 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if your ex was phenomenal in bed and your fiance is so-so and u just wanted one last time before marriage? would u do it? (especially if your fiance was being a total @-hole at the time)

2007-08-15 04:08:08 · 7 answers · asked by jean grey 6 in Marriage & Divorce

is there a such thing as love at 1st site,it's a friend of mine that wants to know,thankyou.

2007-08-15 04:06:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 04:05:47 · 5 answers · asked by Sweet n Short 2 in Singles & Dating

I was Adopted when i was 3 and i want to find my biological family, where do i star? i have no clue, the only thing i know is that i was born in illinois.

2007-08-15 04:05:22 · 4 answers · asked by Ashleigh 1 in Family

please please please help!...i screwd up..im such a ******* idiot!!..i was talkin to my ex n she said she was gettin really bored n stuff n her parents were goin outta town for 2 days n they were askin if she wanted to come with..i din realize n i didn say anythin..n then after 5 mins she decided to go wit em..n then after half an hour i realized n i asked her if she wanted to go clubbin or sumthin n she said well now its too late..u shudve asked me earlier..then i said so do u wanna go somewhere when u come back n she said no!!..what do i do!!..im a ******* idiot!..how do i convince her!!help!..please temme! fast! what do i do ?

2007-08-15 04:04:43 · 1 answers · asked by seth 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister is getting married on August 23 at 5:30pm and the forecast calls for rain. Where can we find a detail weather report of time rain is expected and what type of rain shower (drizzle, pouring rain, haze) online for the Bowie, Maryland area?

2007-08-15 04:04:35 · 13 answers · asked by nene 3 in Weddings

I heard it's about posting cheaters online.Any other type of guys too,like how to avoid nice guy for exsample

2007-08-15 04:03:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 04:03:11 · 7 answers · asked by vey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...over the ocean, and drink champagne, and look longingly into each other's eyes until we can't take it anymore, and then make out so erotically and passionately it makes the paint on the outside of the car glow red-hot, and forces people to come up with a new name for "Love..."??

2007-08-15 04:02:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 04:01:56 · 12 answers · asked by Dori 2 in Friends

2007-08-15 04:01:39 · 12 answers · asked by casey l 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend moved halfway across the country to live in the same city with me (and there is nothing else here for him--it's a small town). After about four months of living here he became distant, said he doesn't require affection, told me I'm the perfect girlfriend and he cares about me a lot and then proceeded to tell me he doesn't want a romantic relationship anymore. He told me that I am basically his only real relationship ever even though he is 26. I don't think he's ever even had a relationship spanning more than a month or two besides me... I'm so perplexed right now because it seems like his actions and his words don't match. Any ideas here? How do you dump someone that you call the "perfect girlfriend?"

2007-08-15 04:01:27 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

http://ca.lifestyle.yahoo.com/family-relationships/articles/dating/divine/sex_love-the_man_whisperer-the_man_whisperer;_ylt=AlP5QqECvzpA8v1HQYUNJmVzOod4

TERRIBLE! There might be some good relationship advice buried in that article, but the tone is so condescending that I can't swallow it. I like to think I have a good sense of humor, but this just seems like reverse sexism to me.

Any thoughts?

2007-08-15 03:59:48 · 3 answers · asked by Church Music Girl 6 in Singles & Dating

We are catering our wedding reception and we need plates. Renting them through a party rental place would require us to wash about 200 plates before returning them. Are there any good options for high end disposables that would match our atmosphere?

2007-08-15 03:59:33 · 22 answers · asked by skblah 1 in Weddings

My sister is having a small wedding and is very strict on how many guest can attend because of the cost for each guest to attend. My sister and her fiancee had other guest waiting on the invitees to RSVP so that they could fill in the spots of anyone who couldn't originally attend. A guest responded late by a week, but has been replaced. What is the proper thing to do in this case? I say my sister needs to verbally tell her not to come so she doesn't show up thinking it is ok to come. It is 33 dollars a plate and they are already over budget ,plus the wedding caters expect payment right after the reception. I do not want my sister to have to worry about guest who didn't RSVP showing up. How should this be handled?

2007-08-15 03:59:07 · 19 answers · asked by nene 3 in Weddings

2007-08-15 03:57:20 · 13 answers · asked by Gauri 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-15 03:54:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-15 03:53:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

from the last 4 months i have joined this MNC as a receptionist I am a mphil degree holder and this is my first job in the corparate world .My superiors are very happy with my work and do tell me that I will be taken on roll of the company .Though they do give me assurance but looking at the past record and my colleaugues who have been working here from the past 2 - 3 yrs I feel very dubious about the job assurance .On the top of this they are also paying me very less and the payment is equal to peanuts .On the other hand if i leave the job and at home give tutions then also i can earn as much as this job I dont know what to do whether I should invest my time and energy in thsi job or not should I wait for confirmation or leave the job ?please help i need the advice

2007-08-15 03:53:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex of 4 years dumped me for someone else ( they were texting n stuff b4 we broke up) and denies it, and she thought that if we broke up that we would be best friends she said...."it will be the same just without the physical part" she thought i would still go over and all that stuff(movies, dinner ect.) and i tried being her friend for the first 2 weeks after the break up but it was to hard after that b/c she got a new b/f( the guy she was texting) not even 1 week l8r and didn’t tell me....anyways i then realized what she had done and so i cut all contact with her b/c i think she's just stringing me along and using me for when she needs a shoulder to cry on....she was so upset about this, mad and sad, she would cry and tell her brother to tell me to talk to her but he’s on my side, cuz i wont talk to her even though she would ask me if we can talk and hang out about three times a week...and well she might also have wanted to b friends so she doesn't feel guilty? and EVERYONE that we use to hang out with ( including her best friend) says that she's changed and now nobody that we us to party with wants to b around her, anyways just wondering if i made the right choice about cutting all contact with her?
I love her so much but i believe this will be the only way for me to be able to move on ..THNAKS

2007-08-15 03:53:01 · 7 answers · asked by Nanonan m 2 in Singles & Dating

ok where do i start my husband was caught watching porn. i am really uncomfortable with it.he was extremely sorry. i feel betrayed because he once told me i swear i have never or will ever watch porn behind ur back.he is not turned on by it since he got me.ok that he broke.now since i am trying to open him up to me. i have to tell u guys i cannot change how i feel or what it makes me feel like trying to solve this issue. these things shuld not be coming in my life. but they are.so yesterday i put on porn on tv and start watching with him. first he starts acting weird like telling me to turn it off. he doesn't like it. then i am like why u watn to watch it by urself? then he starts playing with me. like to make me think he is excited by me. i ask him what kind of porn u like he doesn't answer any question i ask him. he says i love u blah blah. but he likes them playing around. and when we were actually doing it his face was toward the tv. and mine too. he was trying to change ...

2007-08-15 03:48:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

love

2007-08-15 03:44:21 · 16 answers · asked by abhiram 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

been with my bf for 2 yrs and we'd love to get a flat, get married and have kids at some point. we can't afford to do anything right now but we know we want to spend the rest of our lifes together and we can't wait to start. only thing is we're both still in our teens and i want people to take us seriously and not think of us as kids rushing into things. any advice?

2007-08-15 03:44:20 · 11 answers · asked by SpongeMate 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i kind of made up with my friend but the friendship is still very patchy...how do i get it back to the confidence level it was at...the issue is we are not in the same city as well ,i am in chicago,she is in cali...and email is presently our only means of communication...please give some suggestions which will help our frienship get back on track

Thanks

2007-08-15 03:43:53 · 3 answers · asked by life goes on... 2 in Friends

is this funny or what when the first cheetah girls movie came out my hampster dide after i sung to a song and then they started talking and he died is that funny

2007-08-15 03:42:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

5 yrs bk i discovered my husband had an affair while i was pregnant, thru a video cassette of him and his mistress extracurricular activities . On confronting him he didnt even apologize. For following two very long and hard yrs our marriage was cold like the south pole till things returned to normalcy but are still not the same like before ,they never will be. Meanwhile i find a net pal with whom i just click. Every idea , every thought , every word is spoken in sync with eachother , its like we can read eachothers minds. On occassions i have delibarately stayed away from the net but i feel something amiss. And then i go right back to chatting. He makes me laugh ,which never happens anymore with my husband thou he takes good care of me and our kid. Its like my husband changed in a very odd way after his mistress left him , he is there but not quite there. Meanwhile i miss his old self and in lack of that , i find it hard to resist the easy companionship i find with my net pal.

2007-08-15 03:42:24 · 15 answers · asked by smashingdelite 3 in Marriage & Divorce