2007-08-15 03:54:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because no one wants to stay with a cheating husband.
2007-08-15 04:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They get a divorce, because they didn't truly love each other when they got married. So many people think they're in love, but they don't even know what love is. Alot of people get married way too soon and then they get to know each other after they are married and come to find out, this is not what they wanted. So many people get married for the wrong reasons such as; a place to live, because she is pregnant, to make more money, etc.
Divorce comes naturally when you are married for any other reasons, but true love.
Your ready to be married and marriage will be excellent when you fall in love and you've been together for at least 3-5 years, late 20's, early 30's, because that's when you're ready to settle and start a family, when you will do anything to make your partner happy, not yourself and when you know that you could never be apart. Then naturally you're going to make the commitment to spend the rest of your lives together, till death do you part. If that's the way you were married, nothing could come between you.
If you wait for that person, because they will arrive someday, your life will be great! My life is and I waited till I was 33 for the most fabulous man on this planet.
2007-08-15 11:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, they may love each other in the beginning stage of their relationships, and even got married after they found out that they truly loves each other. But things can change over time. There are some things which are uncontrollable and unpredictable. Certain things or characteristics might worsen the marriage if both parties could not compromise each other anymore. Hence, some couples who could not solve their problems, chooses to end their marriage and ended up divorce since they feel that there's so much trouble living together.
2007-08-15 11:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by smooth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well since Im going through a divorce I can only comment on my own life and reasons why. 1st of all I was completely in love with my ex at the time we were married thought I could change his habits ( what a joke people only change if they want to change) of drinking and abuse thought I could be diffeerent well I married for love we have one son together and just didn't go forever. I believe forever is as long as it lasts
2007-08-15 11:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi moonstar,
no one can predict the future. Things change and adults have to make difficult choices in reaction to the changes.
Let me put it this way, if you found out you had a preventable illness, would you just let it overtake you? Or would you take corrective steps to keep it from killing you?
You would do what was necessary to sustain a healthy life and lifestyle.
Divorce is not an attractive situation, but sometimes it is necessary - for the health and happiness of both people involved.
2007-08-15 11:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by yoak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really expect two people to know each other inside and out when they've been together for 1 year or so. People change, and lives change. No one really knows if you'll love someone else forever.
Marriage is like organized religion...it's a nice thought, but completely impractical when you experience it first hand.
2007-08-15 11:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people rush into marriage or do it for the wrong reasons (money, security, etc.). Then afterwards, they realize that they made the wrong decision, and they get a divorce.
2007-08-15 11:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by LSU_Tiger23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage gets extremely boring sometimes, and loves goes out the door..
2007-08-15 11:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by Haidee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people just can't live together. its sad their differences are somuch they can't stay together some meet new people and their stuff changes. so much can change when you meet others also. but you have to stay focused and love the person you marry
2007-08-19 00:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life sometimes gets in the way, and sometimes people make that promis when they have no business doing so.
2007-08-15 11:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋