i kind of made up with my friend but the friendship is still very patchy...how do i get it back to the confidence level it was at...the issue is we are not in the same city as well ,i am in chicago,she is in cali...and email is presently our only means of communication...please give some suggestions which will help our frienship get back on track
Thanks
2007-08-15 03:43:53 · 3 answers · asked by life goes on... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Due to the long distance friendship, it will be hard to rebuild it. It is not impossible though. Give it some time. My only suggestion is be a good friend who is always supportive, there to make her laugh, etc. I know you said email was the only communication, but perhaps give her a call once in a while. I'm sure she will like that. Be patient, kind, and understanding. It might take some time, but I'm sure with effort the two of you can rebuild this lasting friendship.
2007-08-15 04:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Broken friendships never fully mend back; some take YEARS to mend to minimum acceptable levels; some never mend at all (which I wonder which is the more tragic, sometimes).
Patience, honesty and sincerity are key elements that work towards healing friendships.
2007-08-15 10:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard when you're so far apart. there are no miracles that work itself overnight. you'll just have to continue to correspond and make efforts to see one another every now and then. be open in your correspondence about your feelings, and make sure you make it meaningful by making it personal. good luck.
2007-08-15 11:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by StarGazer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋