Family & Relationships - 15 August 2007

To make a long story short: Went out with this guy, but broke up with him because it was too difficult to keep seeing him (he knows the reason why, I explained to him), he still likes me and is willing to go back out and continue to work around the difficulties. However, I feel bad that we have to work around it in the first place and things would be hard anyway! He tells me he's fine with this.

I'm not sure if I still like him, I think I do because I often miss talking/hanging out/etc. with him. But then again, I'm not really sure if I want a boyfriend. Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. I feel like I need more time to think about this. He texted me just now saying: he still likes me and wants to go out.

How do I respond to this? I want to have more time to think but I don't want him to lose interest and I'll get hurt without expecting it. I also don't want to say yes and make things even more difficult and end up getting hurt anyway.

Please help. I'm very, very confused

2007-08-15 04:50:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was living with my baby's father but i moved out with my child. I have been seeing someone ever since. I feel like i love him at times. But when i am with my baby's father i feel butterflys in my tummy. But my "Buddy" is married had a baby. He still lives with his wife. i am not shure if he truly love me or not he says it but does he mean it. I can't make up my mind. I want both but I cant. I must decide on wich one to choose. But so far no luck. My baby also get extreamly angry when he's around me.

2007-08-15 04:48:49 · 17 answers · asked by cindyrelachick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it?

2007-08-15 04:48:22 · 4 answers · asked by wigberto.serpa 2 in Singles & Dating

when it comes to relationships after going through the ringer with your ex???? Is your heart hardened or are you able to love willingly and openly?

2007-08-15 04:48:20 · 5 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have decided to renew our vows every year in a different state. We were married this year in Michigan and it was beautiful.

We are looking for unique ideas for a renewal ceremonies in historic or famous places for each state. Examples are under the arch in St. Louis, MO or at the Alamo in Texas, or Times Square in NYC or Niagara Falls, NY.

We are just looking for Ideas. We need to start planning for next year...especially if we are going to Hawaii!!!!!

2007-08-15 04:47:49 · 15 answers · asked by shay 3 in Weddings

We now have been married for 6 years I have noticed also that he looks at almost every girl and plus he works with a bunch of them. I used to work at the same place he did and that's how we met. I know his work routine, etc. I have confronted him about the "wondering eyes." and he denies and denies. There's also times that he is really unhappy and uses financial woes as the reason. He's been on a diet and looks great but I have to wonder why he's doing it now. Right before we met he had been trying to lose a few lbs. (he's not heavy to begin with) but that's a time when he was trying to pursue me. Most of the time I can read him like a book but here in just the last 4-5 mo. or so plus being so overly nice and somewhat flirtatious I have begun not to trust him anymore. What are the signs of being unfaithful be? He says he's not interested in other girls and he also says that he just hasn't been think about having sex. Come on. A guy who doesn't think of sex? Opinions?

2007-08-15 04:45:19 · 14 answers · asked by Sunflower 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont drink alcohol at all, I never have. My girlfriend however, does. A friend mentioned that it was a double standard that I dont drink, but date a girl who does. Thoughts?

2007-08-15 04:43:59 · 1 answers · asked by methodistmaniak 2 in Singles & Dating

I told him I 'm his backbone and I'm with him no matter what. He keeps downing his self saying he's never gonna be nothing now. A whole bunch of jibberish, I feel as if he's trying to push me away. Advised him it's not that easy. I'm not going anywhere. I love him too much.

2007-08-15 04:43:29 · 1 answers · asked by heartbroken 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 04:43:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 04:43:10 · 2 answers · asked by CHS Track Sprinter 09 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-15 04:42:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 31 yrs. old and getting married 8-15-07 , my parents are losing there home , I have belled them out before. They spend on other things. Should I give them the little I have saved, and should I feel guilty about having a nice wedding?? Im happy for once in my life........

2007-08-15 04:41:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-15 04:41:38 · 20 answers · asked by billy the kidd 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 04:40:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who will get first preference?

2007-08-15 04:39:58 · 5 answers · asked by kk 1 in Friends

okay. yetserday me my bf and my friend were in the car and while i was driving i saw a boy that used to be my friend. i met him about the same time i met my bf but when i met the boy i was single. well the boy i saw was good friends but then he started telling me how he wanted to be with me and he hopes we can have a relationship. but by then i had a bf so i told him no, so i didnt feel right talking to him anymore because i know that he wants to be with me so i ignore all his phone calls. so anyway while i was driving he saw me and i felt so bad beacuse he had just called me a hour earlier.

anyway when i dropped my boyfriend off at his car me and my friend that was in the car started talking about the boy we had just saw, and my bf got mad and said why do i have to talk when he gets out the car.

so i decided that night to tell my boyfriend about the situation because i love him and i thought i could tell him anything. but he got so mad but he said he just dosent feel good

2007-08-15 04:38:06 · 1 answers · asked by Money Makes Me C(u)m 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this guy, and i think he knows i like him because i told him he was hot a while back..but anyways i think he likes me too , at least i know he thinks im good looking cuz he said so...well he came into class and sat right behind me on the first day of class and asked if it was ok if he stared at the back of my head for the next six months (which was kinda stupid lol) but n e ways some new girls walked in and he was like hellooo ladies like he thought they was hot..if he liked me would he do that in front of me? or am i looking too much into this and being silly

2007-08-15 04:34:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 39 years old, been married three times, have one child.

Husband #1: I was 18, young and dumb. Divorced at 22, one child. We split on good terms.

Husband #2: Complete lust, married at 24, lasted 1 year. We split on good terms.

Husband #3: Together 10 years, just my child from the first marriage. Loved him deeply. He left me FOR MY BROTHERS WIFE. I'm still bitter.

Almost 3 years later I'm living with a new boyfriend, together 9 months now. We're both mature, no drama, good communication, many of the same goals. He has no children and mine is now 18.

Should I take the plunge one more time and hope this is the one?

2007-08-15 04:28:44 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

everyone on here is going to hate me probably but
i left my wife 7 months pregnant, its been a week now
when i left i just said i needed a little time to think things over, she didn't want me to go and ran after me but i left her there crying...
i went back to spend some time with my friends (when i was about 18 i lived with 4 or 5 other friends sharing a house) it was cool for like one day and then i basically realized that i was way past that stage in my life. i had already gone to college and gotten a job and they were still eating day old mcdonalds and playing video games all night. i want to go back to my wife but i know she wont take any crap so what can i do? after spending a week with the friends i used to live with it made me miss my wife and i realize that all i wanna do is live with my wife again.. i know ill have to spend tomorrow searching for my wedding ring (one of my friends threw it out into the backyard), how can i get back with her?

2007-08-15 04:26:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So my companion found my myspace page and he's upset right now of the content on it. He read somethings that I wrote last year when we were having problems and I said some pretty mean things. I tried to explain to him the reasoning behind it and now he thinks that I dont want to be with him, which I said on the blog but that was when I really didnt want to be with him last year. What else can I do?

I told him that I did want to be with him and I admit that was immature and I told him that if he wanted to break up then it was fine. Im not going to spend my time going back and forth because that was the past. He's already going through some rough things in the family. I dont want to add fuel to the fire.

2007-08-15 04:25:50 · 7 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Singles & Dating

I know I am askin this again but I forgot to add the details.I am tryin to get my crush 2 ask me out but I am way too scared to talk to him and there is no chance that I am gonna ask him out!!

2007-08-15 04:25:34 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To add to my string of sex based questions today (sorry, but I'm in one of those moods - got a lot on my mind! - but they are serious questions), is it important for a woman to orgasm? I've had girlfriends before that would orgasm very quickly, and then there have been others that never did. Is it important that a woman has an orgasm with her partner? Men need to for obvious reasons, but women don't. If you're female and can orgasm when masturbating, would you expect your partner to take you there too? Serious answers only please. Thx

2007-08-15 04:22:04 · 68 answers · asked by Charlie Brigante 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Contact me if ur interested- steff_craig114@yahoo.com

2007-08-15 04:20:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after 25 yearsof marriage and alot of up and downs we were at his mothers house having dinner and he tells everyone i dont come down because im embarresed.Looking straight at me as he does so.I made a excusee my tooth was hurting and left very nicely so no one new i was upset but my husband he comes back to the room adn tells me he dont care how I feel and to get over it. how do you handle that

2007-08-15 04:20:10 · 9 answers · asked by furby_lost 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, so I'm from romania and I'm looking for a nice guy with the age between 18 and 20 (I'm 17), possibly from the same country, that shares the same passion as me : anime. I'm from Bucharest, 1 m 64 cm, light brown hair, and I really want to find a guy that will listen to what I have to say and who can confort me at any time without asking anything in return. If youre that guy please send me youre messenger ID or your myspace. my mess ID is: simoni_chan_yumi and my myspace is : simoni_chan_yumi@yahoo.com

2007-08-15 04:18:54 · 3 answers · asked by simona t 1 in Singles & Dating

I think marriage is the highest of relationships. Its has more commitment then a bf/gf relationship and its the final.
Im very hurt to find out that my bf thinks marriage is nothing more then a piece of paper. This makes me feel like he never wants to get married, as he doesnt care about it.

But, what do you think of marriage, what does it mean to you?

2007-08-15 04:18:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

1st of all I just want 2 say that I love my dad more than anything, & that I wouldn’t be posting this if it wasn’t affecting my future.

I’m 24 yrs old, living with my parents (tradition where I live), & have been working in a good company for the past 9 months which give me a good salary. when I started I made a chart dividing my paycheck into : saving, house expenses, my little brother's allowance, taxi fees (I don’t drive), & a little bit left 4 me. I planned 2 save abou60% of every paycheck till I have enough money 2 be able 2 get my masters degree.

My problem is my dad. He has his own business, which at a lot of times gets hard & he had 2 borrow money from people 2 keep it going. He has even done this 2 our money (my mother's, brother, mine, even my kid sister's allowance), & he NEVER gave any of it back. there were times I had 2 give him my birthday / christmas money, & I don’t remember a time when I had any money more than a month before he took it from me or my siblings.

2007-08-15 04:18:08 · 50 answers · asked by Janie's got a staplegun 2 in Family

I am a successful man in my 40's. She's in her late 20's and married a year ago. I'm not sure she's even aware she does this.

We are pretty good friends, but I have absolutely no interest in her in any other way. We've known each other for 2 years.

She looks me over when we talk, but seems unaware she's doing it. In my experience at the office, It seems a little unusual. What is going on with her?

2007-08-15 04:15:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please, i dont know what to do. dont tell me to date other people, because i dont want to be with anyone but him. i havent slept all night, ive just been up crying. my heart feels like it was ripped in two. he broke up with me on our anniversary.

2007-08-15 04:15:49 · 30 answers · asked by mingosaysss 2 in Singles & Dating

i know everyone has different opinions on what is sexy, so just tell me what you think

2007-08-15 04:11:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating