Family & Relationships - 15 August 2007

my boyfriends aunt asked how long we've been together and he said three weeks and his aunt said this:
"only a couple years, the heat starts flying" what does it mean?

2007-08-15 03:04:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..they became paraplegic. Would you go through with the marriage or back out of it?

2007-08-15 03:04:07 · 17 answers · asked by AJPierzynskis' 4 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i tell my "kuya" that he must lear how to adjust, maybe he could decrease his selfishness and being too authoritative?

2007-08-15 03:04:06 · 4 answers · asked by poppy 1 in Family

My common-law husband and I have a son together that is 2yrs old and we sign our rights away to a lady from the church. The agreement(unwritten) was we would still have visitation and pay no child support. Well, we signed the papers a yr ago and the judge finally signed them to make it completely legal a few months ago. the only problem is, in our papers, it talks about our visitaion, but there is no set time or place. We are suppose to go back to court soon, she says, as she is the only one who has a lawyer. This is suppose to be completely "friendly" and between us. The main problem is, everytime we call to make plans to see him, she says yes and then something always comes up. This has been going on for about a month or so now. They also recently moved and she hasn't told me precisely where to. There has got to be something we can do to still see our son. Does anybody know of anything? I hate to think she is trying to screw us, considering she is a good christian and all.

2007-08-15 03:03:23 · 1 answers · asked by darling_daniels 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've met a couple.

My friend of mine thinks it's a myth.

2007-08-15 03:03:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not to be mean but I have noticed that if a man is overweight people think that he is cool, but if a woman is overweight she is called names and neglegted. Why? Also I know I am quoting Little Kim but why if a man sleeps with or is with two or more women he is looked up to but if a woman is with two or more man, she is considered a whore. Why? Can anyone answer this one

2007-08-15 03:01:42 · 3 answers · asked by enchantmentoftheseas 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

from what I gather anyway...

Some people prefer to date one person at a time without considering that person their boyfriend or girlfriend until they are ready so that they have the opportunity to get to know the person without the distraction of other people, but still have the opportunity to end it without the commitment.

Other people choose to date as many people as possible at one time in order to find out what they like and share no commitment with anyone until that one person sticks out from the rest.

How do YOU date? Which school are you from?

2007-08-15 03:01:25 · 4 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

My sister is like my best friend. It is my mom I hate. My sister believes everything single word that comes out of my moms mouth. How can I get my mom to stop saying those things?

2007-08-15 02:59:54 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you think if less people "believed" in divorce as even being an option, more marriages would last??

Why do people just "run for the hills" after a couple little stupid fights???

2007-08-15 02:59:45 · 36 answers · asked by who cares! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think someone should seek "counseling" before marrying again, if it's been more then 2 times???

2007-08-15 02:57:17 · 12 answers · asked by who cares! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i do??? i will have approx. 30-40 guests and i can only think of 2 women who are single and then there will be one 11 year old girl! how should i handle this? thanks for the help!

2007-08-15 02:56:58 · 22 answers · asked by nytengayle13 4 in Weddings

needy

2007-08-15 02:56:47 · 35 answers · asked by abhiram 1 in Friends

2007-08-15 02:53:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I remember that we used to play softball as a family.
My husband remembers that his parents would go to the mountains and have hot chocolate together when it was cold outside.

2007-08-15 02:53:50 · 7 answers · asked by MIRACLE GIRL 2 in Family

I was divorced out of the family at 1 1/2. I do not want a "reunion". It's been rough, and all anybody knows is my hard times, when my father's mouth opens up to them. He's not even all that close to his 12 !!!! siblings and their kids. And I don't know a thing about them anymore. But they invite me for his sake, because he always asks if I got one in the mail. Well, it makes me cry, but they're a clique-y bunch, and there's no point trying. If it were my fault I was never comfortable with them in the first place, I'd say I need to deal, but I was caught in the wave of mother's fierce insistence on loyalty. You know what? I just don't belong, and I'm crying. How can I get them to "leave me alone already", but without putting it that way?

2007-08-15 02:53:22 · 3 answers · asked by starryeyed 6 in Family

I have posted many times on here about my break up. Me and my ex partener broke up over 2 months ago, and it is getting worse for me. I keep getting upset over it and really struggling to get over it. I thought I had hit rock bottom but it is getting worse. I feel so depressed and last night I even had thoughts of killing myself. I wouldn't do it, but it scared me to death. I was under the impression that time would make it better not worse. God i am a complete mess...

2007-08-15 02:52:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am arabic .. my job is engineer .. i have 32 years old .. i feel lonly .. im single by the way .. i would be happy to know a good freind from anywhere country .. thanks

2007-08-15 02:52:23 · 1 answers · asked by Akram Iraqi 1 in Friends

my b/f doesnt have his license so he cant really see me alot so all we can do is talk on the phone and he hasnt called me in two weeks i cant call him b/c my parents will ground me b/c they say i shouldnt chase after him so what should i do?

2007-08-15 02:51:22 · 1 answers · asked by kassy albano 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi

I bought a flat with my boyfriends a year ago, and I want to split up with him, I dont know how this is possible though as I cant afford to move out and neither can he - infact he wouldnt leave anyway.

we nearly split about 4 months ago buy i went back as I had no option, We can't sell the flat yet, ( apparently u haver to wait a few years or something??) and even if I could sell the flat he wouldnt agree to it, he told me last time he wouldnt let me sell it and would make it hard for me

Do I have any options? or doI have to just stay in the relationship

2007-08-15 02:50:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Been in a relationship with my girlfriend going on 3 years. She has a son from a previous marriage, at age 16, divorced when she was 18 met me sometime after. We got together 6 months after. During the time we have been together, a lot of worries have come up. Such as the ex calling at odd hours of the night. About a year ago, I found out that she was talking about getting back together with him - for the sake of their son and that he can support them better than I can. I was told she considered it but would never really happen. I felt deceived as she did all this behind my back. I found out through his mother, calling my father and he told me what was happening. Another thing is when we have a fight - she calls him. For what? I think my question is, should I forget what has happened since she is still with me, or are feelings still lingering? Do you think she just likes the attention or maybe knows she has something to fall back on - how does that affect me?

2007-08-15 02:49:59 · 8 answers · asked by Me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm the kind of girl who is decent and came from a very respected family yet I'm the kind of person who has her own mind and I don't really care what other people will think about me. I really have a molded personality. I wear make-up and dresses fashionably. I always speak what I think is right and I'm really opinionated. I noticed that some men are really interested in me but I can kinda tell that they only want me sexually so I tend to tell them that I'm not the kind of girl they can play with but when I show interest back afterwards, they tend not to make a move. What's the meaning of that?

2007-08-15 02:48:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really want to have a plated dinner but my fiance thinks it will be too expensive so she would rather have a buffet. What is the average price for each?

2007-08-15 02:47:35 · 16 answers · asked by Steven V 2 in Weddings

and the seats directly beside her were taken , would you sit in the one in front of her or the one behind her so you could talk to her more, which one do you think would be a better chance to talk to her? i know its a stupid question but please be nice about it and answer lol

2007-08-15 02:46:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

medical reports are adverse against wife.

2007-08-15 02:45:25 · 14 answers · asked by ramesh_dewani 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know guys will but ladies would you

2007-08-15 02:43:15 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that this question has probably been asked before, but I'm curious as to what people really think.

So answer me this please: What are your views on abortion, and do you think it should be illegal?

2007-08-15 02:42:36 · 34 answers · asked by Pink_lemur 6 in Singles & Dating

[im making up names accept for my ex] logan, he likes a girl named B and a girl named K and a girl named A. all of those girls are pretty. and im a ugly blonde. and the point is he likes golfing with B. Im not too good at golfing and I need to know a little more about the sport. I wanna prove to him that i can do whatever i want if i set my mind 2 it.

2007-08-15 02:42:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my sister in law and brother are talking about a divorce ,my brother has a girlfriend and my sis is trying to work the marriage out and the kids are only 13 and 8 and if anyone nos of some book s that may help them , I wish to get that 4 them .thank you all 4 the help.

2007-08-15 02:41:37 · 8 answers · asked by MeccafromNJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when they call you for stupid reasons.

2007-08-15 02:40:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my ex and i were divorced and reconciled for 3 years. last jan. she left for another man got engaged and is now married. The problem is she won't let me be. i have worked very hard to get over the heartbreak, but she keeps in contact. The last four days she has been calling and asking for advice etc. We do have kids but her conversations always drift away from them.Yesterday she called and left a voicemail, then a few hours later called four times within eight minutes. When i asked her why she said her cell wasnt working and heard music on the line. Just being married for two weeks you would think i would be the furthest thing from her mind. She wanted me to promise to call her today about somthing,which i shall not do. i really do not want to be friends as i am still healing,but she seems to not let go. She made the comment last week that myself and her new hubby are very similar,very similar..except..and she did not elaborate and i didnt ask what the "except" was. What is going on?

2007-08-15 02:39:07 · 14 answers · asked by pheggie101 1 in Marriage & Divorce