I'm the kind of girl who is decent and came from a very respected family yet I'm the kind of person who has her own mind and I don't really care what other people will think about me. I really have a molded personality. I wear make-up and dresses fashionably. I always speak what I think is right and I'm really opinionated. I noticed that some men are really interested in me but I can kinda tell that they only want me sexually so I tend to tell them that I'm not the kind of girl they can play with but when I show interest back afterwards, they tend not to make a move. What's the meaning of that?
2007-08-15 02:48:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You thought they were only after sex, so you gave them the cold shoulder. Then you "show interest back afterwards"... It's too late. They're already under the impression that you don't want them. That's why you need to be sure of their intentions before you automatically assume that a guy is after you for just your body. It's hard to overcome a bad first impression, especially if it's a cold one...
2007-08-15 02:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would seem that you are running into mostly immature men who either only want a girl they can mess around with or want someone they can have more control over. You don't sound like you fit either of those descriptions.
2007-08-15 09:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by Cubs39 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋