medical reports are adverse against wife.
2007-08-15 02:45:25 · 14 answers · asked by ramesh_dewani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
be supportive of your wife. infertility of any form is traumatic to someone who really wants children. dont call them adverse against your wife, its not her fault, im sure she didnt choose to have these problems, and the worst thing you can do is be insulting and rude to her. you need to be supportive and as a couple decide what you next action will be there are many choices, adoption, treatments, etc...
2007-08-15 02:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cebsme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is sort of vague...can she not have kids biologically? If that is the case help her through this the best you can. It is hard to know you can't have children naturally. Or is the medical reports going to hold you back from adoption too? If you can adopt look into that..there are alot of little babies that need good homes. Just because you don't carry a baby for 9 months does not make it any less yours. Also why not look into surrogacy? I know that is a tough road but it may be well worth it. Maybe a friend or family member would be willing to carry it. My stepsister was going to do that for her sister. There are a lot of other options out there and right now you may not see them. dont close the door on children just give it time for the fog of disappointment to lift and look at all your options out there.
2007-08-15 10:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by chris d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Visit a fertility good fertility clinic and check whether your wife can be treated for infertility. If not, enquire whether modern methods like IVF can be applied on your wife to help her concieve. Lots of women with fertility problems have given birth to children using such modern techniques. A very renowned facility for infertility treatment run by Dr. Baidyanath Chakraborty is the Institute of Reproductive Medicine, DD/18/5/1, Sector-1, Salt Lake, Kolkata-700064. Phone No. (033)334-1547/7371. If there is no possiblity of her conceiving by those methods, you have to choose between adopting a child or staying childless, unless you don't have anything else on your mind. But while you make all efforts, be mentally and physically supportive to your wife so that she doesn't suffer from despondency.
2007-08-15 13:50:25 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you beleive in Fate, well thats you fate. And because medical reports are adverse against your wife you cant ditch her. Its not her fault.
Now go to the many aashrams in your area and adopt a baby.
Now You will also not be childless and this baby will also get very loving parents.
All the best. God bless all the three of you.
2007-08-18 10:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by BOND_BOND2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the couple discusses it thoroughly and wants a child, the easiest way is to adopt.
There are surrogates who carry a baby for people, but this can be expensive and risky.
If neither of those are viable options for the couple, they can do something special for children, like offer art classes on Saturdays or something that benefits children and allows them interaction where they can show love and support for children.
2007-08-15 10:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by Nedra E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I went through this. This is really tough on the wife. My wife and I decided to adopt. It was a good decision for us. It will have to be something that you both want though. Good luck, and keep being supportive.
2007-08-15 11:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by Qyllix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree - be super supportive - I have two friends going through similar situations and they are getting to the point of in-vitro (the most expensive and painful of procedures) to try and conceive. Don't give up hope - make your wife feel beautiful and special every day, and be extra sensitive to her feelings as she can become very depressed over time.
Good luck!
2007-08-15 10:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by cbagc2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is one of the most crucial time for you and your wife. She needs you to support her. Sometime you never know, Love does heal the pain. I am always in favor of adopting.
2007-08-15 09:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by Miami_Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then something wrong with you don't blame the women, go to a sexologist tell about your health . you are in mess
really sit in corner of your house think about it sex full 24 hrs .
see next day there will be achange in you it is all mental thinking sex so relax
2007-08-15 10:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by venkatraman s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adoption is one of the options.
2007-08-18 14:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by feysunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋