[im making up names accept for my ex] logan, he likes a girl named B and a girl named K and a girl named A. all of those girls are pretty. and im a ugly blonde. and the point is he likes golfing with B. Im not too good at golfing and I need to know a little more about the sport. I wanna prove to him that i can do whatever i want if i set my mind 2 it.
2007-08-15 02:42:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like Logan is one lucky fellow.
2007-08-15 02:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why exactly is he your EX boyfriend? If you broke up with him, you have to let him go. You lost the right to be with him the second you ended things. If it was mutual, or he broke up with you, then you have to think about the reasons that he ended it. First of all, NEVER call yourself ugly!!! That kind of statement points to low self esteem which should be treated by a therapist. If HE called you ugly (especially if that's the reason he used to break up with you) that asshole is NOT worth your time.
If it was a friendly break up and you feel that he's a good guy and you really want him back, try to find something ELSE in common with him. You obviously have had no interest in the sport, before, and creating a phony version of yourself will always backfire. If you care about Logan, you want to be honest with him...don't turn yourself into something you're not just to please a guy. That's losing your sense of self, lying to him, and causing you to continue doing something that you don't want to do. Once the truth comes out, he'll be angry that you lied to him AND you'll pretty much have to start all over again, and he'll have to get to re-know you and your interests.
2007-08-15 09:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by Diet Peach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off don't ever call yourself ugly if Logan can't see what type of penitential you have and doesn't like you for who you are you better find someone else that will recognize. Plus that is to many girl to be liking on anyway. " A man's ex is an another man's treasure" remember that. You ain't got to prove yourself to nobody!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-15 10:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex and he doesn't own you so quit trying to prove anything to anyone.
Just be yourself.....if you want to achieve something do it because you want it not because you need to show somebody else you are capable of it.
If he can't take you the way you are......quit trying to change yourself and move on.
You need to work on your self confidence....get out....join some fun courses.....make some new friends and forget trying to impress people.
P.S. No one is ugly.....its just a different perception of beauty.
Do something nice for yourself.....get a new hairstyle....pamper yourself with a massage and it'll help you feel better.
2007-08-15 09:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by Serena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, stop calling yourself "ugly" and beating yourself up...
i'm sure you look just as nice as the next girl. be proud of who you are... you might do a websearch on Teen Self-Esteem. there is a lot of self-help information out there.
if you want to golf and you're interested in the sport, then i'm sure you can learn !
take care.
2007-08-15 09:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you take golf lessons so that he'll be playing golf with you instead of B. but seriously, you need to have confidence girl. stop thinking that you are ugly because you are not.
2007-08-15 09:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by mayo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes 3 girls, i wouldn't bother getting involved because guys like that only lead you to heartache, and you do not have to know about golf to win this guy over.. who cares if you dont know about golf, im sure you have other things going for you,and you can make him notice you that way.
2007-08-15 09:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by mommy2408 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋