I know I am askin this again but I forgot to add the details.I am tryin to get my crush 2 ask me out but I am way too scared to talk to him and there is no chance that I am gonna ask him out!!
2007-08-15 04:25:34 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him out instead. I know if I was asked out by a lady, I'd be flattered. It would show him you're direct and fearless too. Those are two big turn-ons.
If that doesn't work, show a little cleavage and some leg. THAT will get his attention.
Good luck!
2007-08-15 04:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Semi-Evil 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This may be a little long winded, but worth the read.
Most of the time guys really like a girl but don't ask her out for a few reasons:
1. They are not sure that she really likes them.
2. They had a bad past experience.
3. They are afraid of rejection (goes along with #1).
4. They don't like you that way.
(Most of the time it's not number 4.)
Whatever the reason, make sure it is clear that you like him and then you just have to wait it out. You don't want to force it, that will only end bad.
I don't agree with the girl asking the guy out. Besides the fact that you are really nervous. If he can't get the guts up to ask you, how do you know he will have the guts to take care of you down the road. Call me old fashion, but i think the guy should have the balls, not the girl.
Good luck and God bless
2007-08-15 04:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sigh.
You didn't add age specfics, but I am guessing your around the age of 12-15?
I am 13, (and male) so I will try as best I can.
Look nice around him, hang out with him, attempt to figure out who he likes and do what they do.
Talk with him. Alot.
Let him know that you like him, through hints in converstation.
Don't just tell him (or worse, have a friend tell him)
You have to be talking with him (in life) and as said above, give hints. That, and some bodyily contact. (Mainly cause girls are allowed to, and boys aren't.....)
He will either:
A. Fall for you (Not too too likely)
B. Get the hint and ask you out
C. Get the hint and (unfortunatly) ignore it
D. Have no idea what is going on.
E. Get the hint, and turn you down.
F. Do something rude/mean/hurtful
Hopefully F doesn't happen. But its really the worst that could happen, and is less likely then A.
Oh, BTW, don't come off as annoying/obsessive.
Its bad.
Good Luck!
2007-08-15 04:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by Ace Of Spades 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this is probably the most commonly asked question on yahoo answers singles and dating and I will answer it the same way i do everyone else, nothing can make him like you or ask you out. You have to go for things yourself. If you wait for him to make a move, there's a chance he won't and you'll never know. Don't just assume if he likes you, he'd have asked you out by now, he could be just as shy and scared too! If both ppl are too shy, nothing will happen.
2007-08-15 04:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by kyryliw 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know it will be difficult, but if you like him, then you should try taking a few risks. Bolster your courage by talking to your friends, practice asking him out, and tell yourself that it is perfectly normal and healthy for a girl to make the first move.
Imagine- your third date- holding hands and chatting about how sweet it was that you took such a huge risk to ask him out!
Visualize it. Practice it. Own it.
Good luck!!
2007-08-15 04:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You could do what I did. . .have someone ask him out for you. I have little knowledge of what goes on in the male mind. If he says no, take the experience from the situation, be sad, and then move on. That's the way love is.
Good luck.
2007-08-15 04:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by ChaiTea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's not already asking you out, he's probably not interested. We all have crushes and that's all they ever amount to. If you don't have the guts/nerves to ask him out...which is a bad idea anyway...just learn to deal with that.
2007-08-15 04:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a good friend to approach him and tell him that you think he's cute. That way, he will start noticing you! Make sure that you start dressing better (a little make-up, fix your hair).
Or leave an anonymous note in his locker telling him to meet you somewhere after school. =)
2007-08-15 04:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by theewokprincess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Drop him a hint, showing you're interested is probably all the encouragement he needs to ask you out.
2007-08-15 04:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by Adam Mac 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well u have to over come that fear of not talking to him then when u do talk to him show how u feel. flirt w/ him and try to let him open up to u, show him that u are easy to talk too, guys like it when girls show that they are atracted but wait for him to ask u out.kk...good luck
2007-08-15 04:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋