I was living with my baby's father but i moved out with my child. I have been seeing someone ever since. I feel like i love him at times. But when i am with my baby's father i feel butterflys in my tummy. But my "Buddy" is married had a baby. He still lives with his wife. i am not shure if he truly love me or not he says it but does he mean it. I can't make up my mind. I want both but I cant. I must decide on wich one to choose. But so far no luck. My baby also get extreamly angry when he's around me.
2007-08-15 04:48:49 · 17 answers · asked by cindyrelachick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it isn't love. Where's the respect that is neccessary for mature love? You aren't respecting either one of them. It's all about you. You are like a selfish child with little empathy.
2007-08-15 05:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why think of what to decide when you have no other option except stick with the father of your baby or go find another man. Your buddy is married - so are you entertaining the possibility of being the other woman? Your buddy has a kid - would you like the father of your kid do the same thing to you? Fate has decided for you, girl. And i think what fate has at this instance is the better option you have.
2007-08-15 05:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by noseygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that it is possible to love two people, but it is such a destructive force! A long time ago, maybe six years or so after I married my wife, I fell in love with a co-worker. Being in love with her was agonizing for me, and also for my wife when she realized it. I never did anything physical with this woman, and I am not sure she ever even felt the same way toward me as I felt about her. She was also married, but we were very close friends. Being in love with her put me through an emotional wringer. It hurt horribly when she moved away to go to medical school, but after I had time to get over her, my life became a lot calmer.
2007-08-15 05:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is possible for a person to love two people at the same time. I'm sure you will always have love for your child's father,just him being your babys father. I would say this,you need to think of what's in the best interest for you and your child,regardless of who you are in love with. You need to make some choices that are healthy for you and baby.
2007-08-15 04:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by lostgrandma1967 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good grief!!!! Focus on raising your kids and not on your sex life!!!!
Stop living with your 'baby's daddy' and either get married to him or move in with your parents. Stop messing around with other men, especially married men!! What kind of low life are you???
I'll make up your mind for you...you are a parent now and should put your child's life first.
2007-08-15 04:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by philosophy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make your babies happiness a priority. You also need to stop seeing a married man. If your boyfriend had been seeing a women while he wasl iving with you, you would have had a fit. Yes, you can love two people at once but you need to focus on someone who is single.
2007-08-15 05:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So when you were living with your baby's father would you have liked him to be seeing another woman...I don't think so, so why do you this to another woman. I don't care what his excuses are about his wife, he is married and you're playing on her territory.
2007-08-15 04:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
distance yourself from the cheater. look closely at the relationship w/you babys father and decide if you still want to be romanticly involved. or you could always try being single for a while.
2007-08-15 04:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. I am married and am in love with my wife. A couple of years ago I met someone else. I totally fell in love with her too. We had an 8 month affair. I didn't want to break it off with her but she wanted me to leave my wife. I couldn't do that because I was also in love with my wife. She broke it off with me and I am still not over her. I am still with my wife who I love very much.
2007-08-15 04:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by Handsome Stranger 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, for different reasons. You need to really decide who you want to be with. Cause your baby needs to be in a stable house hold. Your baby is getting angry for a reason....
2007-08-15 04:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋