So my companion found my myspace page and he's upset right now of the content on it. He read somethings that I wrote last year when we were having problems and I said some pretty mean things. I tried to explain to him the reasoning behind it and now he thinks that I dont want to be with him, which I said on the blog but that was when I really didnt want to be with him last year. What else can I do?
I told him that I did want to be with him and I admit that was immature and I told him that if he wanted to break up then it was fine. Im not going to spend my time going back and forth because that was the past. He's already going through some rough things in the family. I dont want to add fuel to the fire.
2007-08-15 04:25:50 · 7 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's the problem with posting personal problems on a public website. Delete the blogs, apologize to him, and think about why you need to air your dirty laundry where everybody can see.
I understand that writing can be therapeutic, and if that is why you write blogs, buy a journal where you can keep your thoughts private. Putting thoughts like that up on a website that people who know you can access causes all sorts of problems. He's probably not as upset that you felt that way back then, but that so many people that know you and him knew about it before he did.
2007-08-15 04:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by Frenzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing with my ex-boyfriend. He found myspace blog, read it and got upset. The thing you need to realise about myspace is that it is not an online journal and everyone is on there. So if your boyfriend doesn't read it, someone else will and more than likely they will tell him about it. Of course he is hurt....wouldn't you be?
In the future, blog in a very vague way......"I went out last night and had such a fun time!" No names...no details...or if you are upset with your relationship "I am kind of upset right now...personal things going on." Or don't blog at all.
Talk to him and let him know again that you are sorry and that you love him. Plan a special outing that you know he would like. If he loves golf, take him golfing.........if he likes pool, take him out to shoot some pool. Show him how much you care and things will smooth out.
By the way, my ex and I did not break up over the myspace thing.
2007-08-15 11:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by Red 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take that stuff off the myspace page and try to tell him you were upset with him when you wrote it but that was in the pass, if he doesn't understand then maybe he isn't worth your time.
2007-08-15 11:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by Greg 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him and want to be with him talk to him make him believe that you want to be with him. Everybody makes mistakes and to love someone your going to learn how to forgive them.If he wants to leave give him time to think about things and if he realizes what he's losing he'll come back but if he doesn't move on with your life. Don't wait too long for him.
2007-08-15 11:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know u can block him on my space. Or create a new page, change your name around or email. like ie...sarah (sarha). Be creative. Good luck.
2007-08-15 11:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by sarah s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont coddle him, but maybe you should delete those blogs....
2007-08-15 11:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by ???? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah just move on
2007-08-15 11:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋