Family & Relationships - 15 August 2007

This might be a silly question. I have been married for a year & 4 months and have always worn my rings the same. I put on my engagement ring first becayuse I got that first then my wedding band on top. I was told the other day by my cousin that I was wearing my ring wrong! Is there a wrong or right way to wear your engagement ring and wedding band?

2007-08-15 08:13:01 · 16 answers · asked by Allycea's Mommy 3 in Weddings

My alcoholic ex-friend wants visitation with his 4 yr. old. His wife finally couldn't take his drinking & lying anymore. He drives drunk & wants to pick up his son for visitation. I babysit this precious child whilst Moms @ work & am really worried about Dad showing up. He's mad @ me because I'm helping & backing his wife in this case. He hides alcohol & we never know what he's going to do. Serious answers only please.
The little boy has a speech problem so won't be able to call or ask for help.

2007-08-15 08:07:22 · 10 answers · asked by Annie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I just turned 16 like two months ago but is it ok if I don't have a girlfriend?

2007-08-15 08:03:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

find most attractive about girls... and do u draw to girls who speak their mind

2007-08-15 08:03:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 y/o.I've been married for over a year now and we just recently had a child. Shortly after his birth I start think about my first love. We dated for two years. We started dating at 15 y/o. We sort of kept in contact after we split until we were 19. Then we had a big falling out & we went our seperate ways and move to diff. states. Anyway like I said, I've been thinking about him a lot lately. Remember how we were and how in love we were and what might have been. We were eachothers first loves.
Our families live in the same town so they sometimes bump into eachother and talk about the both of us to eachother. Well my mom found out that he recently got married and is expecting his first child. This just made it even worse. I'm thinking about him even more now. I want to write and congratulate him but I don't think he would respond b/c of our big falling out and b/c I'm afraid of my feelings.
Is this normal if I'm married? I love my husband to death. What should I do?

2007-08-15 08:02:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i went speed dating and turned into a one night pillock, have you ever been and how did you find it.

2007-08-15 08:01:41 · 4 answers · asked by random mentalist. 3 in Singles & Dating

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2007-08-15 08:00:54 · 10 answers · asked by Mike R 2 in Friends

this guy likes me and i dont like him he's been emailing me and calling me 24-7. What should i do??? HELP!!!!!!!

2007-08-15 07:58:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i met this guy, and hes so cool. i really like him. i was just wondering if theres anything i can do or say to see if he likes me? we're both 14, so no disgusting comments please! thanks sooo much!! <33

2007-08-15 07:58:42 · 6 answers · asked by xojessox 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 07:58:41 · 18 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Marriage & Divorce

She does not follow my lead as the head of the household. I'm sick of her disrespectful behaviour towards me, why does she feel the need to argue and talk back to me? A good woman knows her husband's words are final. We are looking at trying out domestic discipline. Any suggestions appreciated.

2007-08-15 07:55:11 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I will be wearing a button-down shirt and either dockers or slacks to a casual wedding. Does it matter what color they are? It will be mostly outdoors too.

2007-08-15 07:54:59 · 6 answers · asked by introversive_guy 3 in Weddings

My ex says he's not in love with me anymore. But he still wants to have sex with me. I told him why would I sleep with him if he didn't love me anymore. He says if I love him I would give in. Is he just a pig and a jerk or do you think he holds some feelings or me?

2007-08-15 07:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by Hot asain mama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I ordered Hurricane lamps from them that they advertise as "glass" but they are plastic. In addition to this, they first canceled my order without telling me and I had to reorder. When I called to complain and ask them to rerun the order the representative hung up on me. Now, when I called to complain about the hurricanes being plastic and not glass as advertised the woman was less than friendly and offered me no assistance. My options are to return or not. I am going to keep them because I probably would have bought them even if they were plexi-glass, but the point is they should advertise as such. Thank you for letting me vent and share some insight with other brides out there. Happy planning!

2007-08-15 07:54:32 · 15 answers · asked by lenaacting 1 in Weddings

I find that I am tired of dating. I have met people on my own and had some setups from friends. I go into every situation thinking that I will make a new friend or just meet a new person, but I also never rule anything else out. I have gone out with guys that are complete opposites of what I would usually date and guys that I am not physically attracted to. Nothing ever works out as more than a friend. There is just no chemistry or common interests there or something. I would like to find someone special one of these days but at this point I just give up.

2007-08-15 07:51:22 · 6 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

who would like to date a caremel color guy that has dark brown hair (almost black) 5'6 and that wears glasses

2007-08-15 07:49:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ladies? Ladies?

2007-08-15 07:48:22 · 5 answers · asked by Joe 4 in Singles & Dating

Our 1st trip was to a B&B - in town there was a lit up gazebo where he pulled over and got me to dance - cars were beeping & all - it was a trip we said we'd always do over & over. Well it's our 1yr & he insists on paying at least 1/2 for whatever we do - he's so onboard to repeat the trip but is worried about cost - financially things have changed for him. I can afford to pay for more than 1/2 & this trip would be like recreating when we first started & we ceratinly NEED that right now. SO do I "fudge" the actual cost & allow him to give me "less then 1/2" without telling him or should I be completely honest & possibly risk him not wanting to go because of price? I would NEVER out & out lie to him - but I know that this trip would be without a doubt PERFECT! Same restaraunt, massages, B&B, romance package to the hilt! I know that we would again dance under "our" gazebo making another major memory of how much we are in love! What would you do? Were not married yet - someday we will

2007-08-15 07:46:57 · 13 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys what is the best thing your girlfriend, female friend etc. could give or say to you? Please answer!

2007-08-15 07:44:58 · 24 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Guys don't make passes at girls who wear glasses.

2007-08-15 07:44:05 · 14 answers · asked by country girl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 07:41:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After many wonderful years, I think I have fallen out love. For the past six months, I have been distant and do not wish to cuddle, make out, etc. When I am alone, I miss our time together and all the fun we have, and feel guilty that I do not feel the love anymore. When there is an outreach of affection, such as an attempt to kiss me and more, I pull away. I pull away from any form of intimacy. I feel like such a cruel person and it hurts to feel this way toward someone so amazing! I wish I could know how or when the love left, but it doesn't seem like its going to come back. And it really saddens me because we have been together for many years and made so many great plans for our future together! I care very much, but the love - that feeling of longing and persisting is no longer there. Is it time to let go?

2007-08-15 07:40:52 · 12 answers · asked by roriray 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My X girlfriend told me that i was just wandering if it was true

2007-08-15 07:40:34 · 14 answers · asked by chad s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love the way tan pantyhose looks on a nice pair of silky smooth legs. French tip toenails showing through really gets me going too! Ever since I was a young teen, I have always been thinking about it. From older woman to woman my own age, as long as they are in pantyhose? I am ready. Anyone else feel this way?

2007-08-15 07:40:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A week ago my boyfriend broke up with me suddenly, and he did it over the phone, even though I begged him to come say it to my face and allow me to say goodbye to him (closure). Then I mentioned he still had one of my navel rings in his possession, and I still had a book of his. He said he'd drop the ring off Sunday, but did not. I would like it back, but don't know how to go about contacting him...I'm pretty sure he won't answer his phone. Should I send him a text? Forget it? Write him a letter? Ask his best friend, who I still have contact with? My big question is, should I give it more time before attempting to contact him at all....? Advice appreciated.

2007-08-15 07:40:09 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister-in-law is due to be married this year (technically) but they are having a formal ceremony next year (on the wedding anniversary) so, She asked her sister (my other sister-in-law) to be her Maid of Honor, but then today called me and asked if
I could plan the bridal Shower???
I always thought it was the MOH's responsibility...am I wrong??

Last year when me and my hubby got married we didn't have an "official wedding shower" but we had a small get together an my maid of honor planned it.

I don't even know where to BEGIN!!!! BTW It's next August

2007-08-15 07:37:57 · 21 answers · asked by CJ&Drewsmomma 4 in Weddings

they all become gay!

2007-08-15 07:36:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 07:35:50 · 14 answers · asked by jaquiandjoshbeasley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend has been dating this girl for awhile now and all of us (all of his friends) think she is great. He really likes her too, but says it's not the right time for what he wants to give her and for what she deserves. He still wants to stay with her, but she told me she was ready to leave because he's been so aloof lately. I know he really likes her and has been looking for a good gorl for a long time. I told him to try to work with her o n this, because I know she loves him and wants to work with him, but he refuses to discuss it with her ... but I think he's making a mistake. He says "If she loves me - she'll wait this out"... He's mad because I told him he was being selfish. He said he's not being selfish - he's "distant" because he is just looking out for her. Thoughts? She's a smart girl & a good catch - he admits it. But at that, I don't think it's fair to expect someone to wait for you if you can't talk to them about it. (he's not so good with expressing himself.

2007-08-15 07:34:03 · 5 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

The woman was waiting with her kids in the seating area. Her 4 year old son crawled into her lap, pulled out her breast and started nursing. Her breast was openly exposed. She didn't seem the least bit phased by it.

Was it wrong because the son is so old or is it wrong b/c she didn't cover up her breast?

2007-08-15 07:33:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family