My ex says he's not in love with me anymore. But he still wants to have sex with me. I told him why would I sleep with him if he didn't love me anymore. He says if I love him I would give in. Is he just a pig and a jerk or do you think he holds some feelings or me?
2007-08-15 07:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by Hot asain mama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's a pig and a jerk. Why would you want to have sex with someone who admits he doesn't love you? Ick.
2007-08-15 08:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by KD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He meant what he said and you are second guessing him. Definitely do NOT have sex with him or entertain the thought of consoling him!!! Did he stutter when he told you he doesn't love you? Is this your ex-husband? If he is, you got a divorce for a reason and remember that fact. Considering his "If I love him I would give in" means that he thinks you are weak. Do not give in to him. Find yourself a good spiritual leader to talk to, your parents, someone who will guide you. You are placing yourself in a low self esteem position especially since he has told you that he doesn't love you. Wake up. Stay strong and do not give in to him. Because you love yourself, you must take care of yourself by not engaging in risky behavior. Love yourself first and realize that he is a no feeling-pig-jerk.
You are running the risk of contracting a disease that could kill you. You are not the only woman that he is "talking to". He's running the same line on other women too.
2007-08-15 15:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by W M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to manipulate you into having sex with him. He says that if you love HIM that you'll have sex. With him saying this, it does not mean that he loves you. It doesn't mean that he wants to have a relationship with you. He is using your feelings for him so that he can get what he wants.
The next time he makes a booty call, tell the jerk to screw off and to never call you again. If he continues to call, block his phone number.
2007-08-15 15:13:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk and a pig and just wants to use you for sex in between others he is having sex with or through dry spells.
Stand your ground and say no...get out of my life!
No he does not have feelings for you!!!
jeese...
2007-08-15 15:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a pig and a jerk! He wants to use you. Leave him alone.
2007-08-15 15:06:51 · answer #5 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man is selfess okay and you shouldnt have sex with him.He just wants to use you for sex just because he probably cant get it any where else.
Be happy and move on cut him off completely.
2007-08-15 15:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u deserve more than let an asshole like that use ur precious body to dump his filthy sperm. he's a jerk and you should never speak to him again
2007-08-15 15:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by Shrimpboat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...I heard this in the past before...=(...no, he does not love you, and is taking advantage of the feelings you do have for him... forget about this jerk...!!!
2007-08-15 15:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be worried just because you felt the need to ask this question.
2007-08-15 15:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by The Lorax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Hope floats, but don't let it smack you in the head when you come up for air.
2007-08-15 15:06:29 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋