She does not follow my lead as the head of the household. I'm sick of her disrespectful behaviour towards me, why does she feel the need to argue and talk back to me? A good woman knows her husband's words are final. We are looking at trying out domestic discipline. Any suggestions appreciated.
2007-08-15 07:55:11 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Geez, maybe she doesn't follow your lead because your a dumb ***. As far as who has the final word, if I were married to you I'd have a couple of choice final words for you.
2007-08-15 08:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, since it seems like everyone else is just writing in to insult you, even though i don't agree with your terminology........It is important for you both to back each other in any situation but, she has the right to her own opinion. If she is going to shoot everything you have to say down maybe you should point it out to her and tell her to manage the problem on her own than. If she isn't going to be there to support you in your decisions then just cut her out of the equation completely. Don't go behind her back just go over her head. Being the head of the household doesn't mean your the king. It means your responsible for everyone in that house and their well being. If she gets mad and talks back to you for that put the shoe on the other foot and throw her out for a night or two establish your authority. Enough talk act.
2007-08-15 08:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by skipmastaflash 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You and your wife seem to have different beliefs about who is in charge. If she wants to submit to your authority she will do it willingly. There is a line of distinction between spiritual leadership and self-serving domination. Perhaps your brand of authority is not God-centered and benevolent, and that is why you are experiencing resistance.
You cannot force her to share your beliefs. Domestic discipline is a strange and dangerous cult, IMO.
2007-08-15 08:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by not yet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who in the h.....do you think you are. follow your lead what a joke you better wake up from your dream there is only one person she has to answer to and that,s god him self .and for being disrespectful and argue with you and talking back i would say to her good for her and and ask her why is she putting up with your DUMB ***. domestic discipline you say well put one hand on her and you be seeing your self be hind BARS were you BELONG . you are just a big joke a disgrace to all men and you men wonder why women are bitches were do you get off thinking husband has the final word what a laugh you better go back to that other planet you came from
2007-08-15 13:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get a grip she is your wife not your child. My husband is the head of our house but he respects my thoughts and opinions and we work as a team. No woman should have to bow down to a man and submit to him. Plus if she did this are you ready to treat her as the queen of the house as it should be and let her run her house as she should? Or r u the type that just wants to control all aspects of married life???? Before you say what a good wife should do make sure you are a good husband to her.
2007-08-15 08:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by chris d 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You better hold on to your wife because you wouldn't be able to walk, talk or type after a real woman got ahold of you! Most women would not even think twice before kicking the a## of someone who expected them to OBEY...but it would seem like your wife is into this silly little ego trip of yours (I would guess that she hasn't been with anyone but you since she apparently doesn't realize what a weenie you really are..either that or she prefers small penises). Hope the domestic discipline works for ya.
2007-08-15 08:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by lilprincess029 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you are going about it the wrong way. The Bible says the wife should submit to the husband...but that the husband should love the wife as he loves himself...therefore he would not be demanding and controlling over her....sounds like that is what you are trying to do...no wonder she objects.
jeese....
2007-08-15 08:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Who do hell do think you are? Saying that your wife doesn't submit to your authority like it's not enough that she married your *** (I feel real sorry for her to end up with a little *****), you know what your wife is like me and every other strong woman that's responding to your question...we don't submit to men that think they have the authority. You need to open up your eyes because your wife is her own person and she doesn't take orders. She doesn't need someone to tell her where and where not to go, when and when not to sleep, what time she should be home....I guess what I'm trying to say is that your doesn't need you! GROW THE **** UP YOU LITTLE ***** !!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-15 08:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by charm816 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What century do you live in!?!?!?
Authority!?!? I've got news for you pal...you don't have any!!
Keep going like this and find out just how much "authority" you have in divorce court when she takes you to the cleaners for your attitude!
What's wrong with having a "partner"...not a "servant"!!??
Have someone to SHARE the decisions, the work, the ups and downs of a relationship...not someone to cater to you.
What you're seeing is "talking back"...is called "Voicing her opinion"...and she's entitled to one!
Try "domestic discipline"....and when the cops show up because of a "Domestic dispute"...she can show the paperwork to the judge at your divorce hearing...that'll cost you half of everything you've ever owned...after you've been slapped with a restraining order!
Yeah...Good Luck with that...Let me know how this works out for you!
2007-08-15 08:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by MACHNGUN 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If she is unwilling to submit, then she doesn't have to.
Most people don't live that way. She knows she has choices. If this is not the kind of marriage she wants, you'll either need to come to a new agreement on how your relationship will work, or end the marriage.
2007-08-15 08:06:12 · answer #10 · answered by christnp 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all it is 2007, and the fact that your wife has her own opinion you should feel proud that she will stand up for what she thinks is right. I hate you tell you this but the CAVE MAN days are OVER!
2007-08-15 08:20:05 · answer #11 · answered by stefanibrown74 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋