Family & Relationships - 15 August 2007

WHAT do you think about a girl when you see her with a tongue piercing? just wondering because i have one and i want to kno what do you think about that.
PLEASE be honest. i dont get my feelings hurt easily.

thanks in advance.

2007-08-15 09:17:53 · 8 answers · asked by Angie 2 in Singles & Dating

I`ve never agreed with children not seeing their dads but now I find I am one of those people in the situation where I know my daughter is going to get hurt.. her dad and I split before I found out I was pregnant as I had enough of the mental and phicical abuse. He is a well known drug taker and many people have said he sells them again as he stopped when I met him. She was born 10wks early and he said he was too tired to see her as he`d been out down the pub the night before, even though she was in a bad way. He harrasses me, phones my family at all hours and when I have given him the chance to see her many times her he hasn`t turned up so i have given up with it but now I am made to be the ***** by his family. Pls help on this one.

2007-08-15 09:15:10 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i started noticing him looking at other women, then even complimenting them... we had fights over it and now he doesnt say anything,but still looks and even turns his head over sometimes.. i dont wanna bring it up anymore cause we'll just fight again..he says i have nothing to worry about,that he loves only me.. and then at some point he started talking about threesome (FFM) all the time...until we had a huge fight over it...he doesnt anymore.. we've been together 2yrs now,everything is great,but i think i've become a paranoid bi*tch. i cant stop thinking about all this and feel like its gonna ruin our great relationship. he really loves and says he wants to be with me forever and he treats me amazing other than that. im so tired of hiding my feeling about this but afraid to tell him and to fight over it again.. i just want someone who will really appreciate what i have to offer and not desire something else....

2007-08-15 09:13:43 · 11 answers · asked by Woman 2 in Singles & Dating

Our wedding ceremony will be outside March 8th. We are on a lake (the main reason we picked the location) however, the trees that are planted in the concrete of the facility are going to be leave-less since spring hasn't quite come about yet.

The ceremony is at 2pm, so lights will just look tacky.

I was thinking tulle? But have no clue what to do with it or how to wrap the dead looking trees with it.

Ideas?

2007-08-15 09:11:17 · 13 answers · asked by Lou 2 in Weddings

Im getting married in Oct 2008. any good color themes?
Im having 5 girls in my wedding, and 5 guys...
more specific will be sooo helpful!! thanks so much

2007-08-15 09:10:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Im getting married Oct 17th 2008, so i am just starting too plan everything right now. where can i go for invitations? nice ones..cheap..not very cheap, but nice, you know what I mean. I live In masss.

2007-08-15 09:09:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok So Ive Got a Boyfriend But i Really Like This Other Guy. He Really Sweet And I Cant Stop Thinking About Him This Guy Likes Me Too I Havnt Told Him I Like Him Because I Have a Boyfriend. My Boyfriend I Really Nice Too But i Like This Other Guy More! My Boyfriend Like Really Likes Me (Not In a Big Headed Way) And I Dont Want To Dump Him But I Want To Be Single! What Shall I Do Please Help Me! =( Thanks x

2007-08-15 09:08:57 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Many women I know complain that society and men dont reat them like equals. They get mad when they or their friends are called whores when they sleep around and men are called players. They get mad when they are married to a man who believes that his decision overrules hers. They consider all these roles and stereotypes to be unequal. Yet I know very few women, including the beautiful ones who would decide to ask a guy out and pay for the whole date or pay for drinks for a guy at a club.

2007-08-15 09:06:52 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were together for 4 yrs and have a 2yr old son, nothing illegal please!! guys- wat hurts you ??

2007-08-15 09:00:44 · 44 answers · asked by jodie c 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, note smart in quotation marks. I'm talking about book smarts and grades.
There was a study done a while ago saying kids at "elite" schools such as MIT/Harvard/Wellesley/Princeton date a LOT less than other 18-24 yr olds who aren't in college or go to less known schools. And a good portion of them (40-60%) are still virgins by the time they graduate from school (not that its anything to be ashamed of, but it is significantly higher than the national avg)
I've kinda noticed the same thing at my school...it isn't in the US, but everyone here came from the top of their respective high schools...and thus over 80-90% of people i know are single, including me. Everyone just seems...pickier...including me.
Seems like you can never have everything. Sure, school's important, but being "lonely" isn't all that fun either.

2007-08-15 09:00:26 · 4 answers · asked by etudiant87 1 in Singles & Dating

His dad is supposed to move him into a college dorm this weekend. I went out and bought a clothes basket and filled it with some items I thought me may need. Is this a stupid idea? If you were a college kid, would you appreciate it?

2007-08-15 09:00:20 · 2 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Friends

Do you know any depression websites? My mother is leaving, my dad just lost one of his jobs (so now all we have is 28,000 dollars a year), and we can't afford the rent, so we are moving into a cheaper place. To knock it all off, our car isn't working that well lately (it is old). Also, I'm not that popular at school, and I get teased a lot. We barely have enough money to pay for everything, and pretty much can never afford other stuff (clothing). This computer is our most prized possession, and even this is old (8 years). Thanks.

2007-08-15 08:59:30 · 17 answers · asked by Jane 2 in Family

I can not make a firm decision and stick to it for next steps for myself and my daughter. She is 15 and up until now her Dad had sole physical and legal custody of her. He has now moved due to job reasons to another state.

One day, I feel like I should keep her with me and move into my own place.

Then, the next day, I feel like I should get back together with my ex-husband because she will have good family life like her friends, etc.

I feel sad when I see my child's face and see her crying to her grandmother about how she feels that she is a burden and both of her parents don't want her.

Then, I wonder if I can function with my ex-husband again. He was controlling and verbally abusive.

I wish life had some easy answers. I don't want to ruin her life.

My ex-husband keeps saying that I should be working on the move/ transition to show that I am committed to him and want to be with him with all of my heart.

I am stuck and can not move in either direction.

2007-08-15 08:59:06 · 9 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

when it comes to dating or relationships?

2007-08-15 08:58:54 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

no corny, marrage is for love answers please..

2007-08-15 08:58:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

For the past year, my fiance and I have been struggling to make ends meet. What with a mortage, 2 car payments and daycare costs, money has been really tight.
We both have 8-5, Mon.-Fri. type jobs. He has tried applying at other jobs to no avail.
One of his co-workers offered him to work with him at his night job, which is a dance club. And at this dance club, my fiance's ex is a go-go dancer (pretty, nice body, dancing on stage half naked). I know I'm being immature about this, but I really need someone to shed some light on this for me.

2007-08-15 08:57:58 · 21 answers · asked by JMC 3 in Marriage & Divorce

she wants to do it but just is scared of screwing it up

2007-08-15 08:57:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as many answers a possible! =]

2007-08-15 08:54:28 · 3 answers · asked by allstarcheerleadingbby13 1 in Singles & Dating

This is serious and is not meant to offend any one.

Ladies when you are giving "h e a d" to a guy, do you mind if he places his hands on your h e a d and gently strokes your hair? Does this make you uncomfortable?

2007-08-15 08:54:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 08:53:15 · 20 answers · asked by Mr.NoOne 2 in Singles & Dating

I was 16

2007-08-15 08:53:11 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please give comments and personal experiances

2007-08-15 08:52:54 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer N 1 in Family

"Do you choose your glasses, or does the optician choose them?" What do you think - good or bad?

2007-08-15 08:50:54 · 14 answers · asked by entertainment fan 7 in Singles & Dating

Think about that, so which one hurts the most do you think?...

2007-08-15 08:49:54 · 14 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean really, why buy this stuff if your man loves you they say love is blind, so there really not seeing all this fancy stuff , my man could care less about lingerie, it's gonna come off anywya.....

2007-08-15 08:48:33 · 37 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-15 08:47:25 · 9 answers · asked by Cade M 2 in Singles & Dating

but i cant because shes been adopted at 6mnth and ive always wanted to hav a little sister but my mum had her and shes on drugs living at dealers houses so social services took her into care I want to get in touch, see her or at least get a pic of her someone told me i cant see her until shes 18 but by then she will be a completely differnt person and i will be 31 and she may not even want anything to do we me what can i do!!!!? it has been making me really depressed latley i want to grow up with her! :'(

2007-08-15 08:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by Charlotte Rosiep 2 in Family

An outfit that will make my man want me more than anything?

2007-08-15 08:46:25 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 08:46:21 · 5 answers · asked by fuzziepeaches95 1 in Weddings

Doesn't true love last forever...........ya know........lol

2007-08-15 08:45:12 · 6 answers · asked by Nita and Michael 7 in Marriage & Divorce