Family & Relationships - 15 August 2007

My boyfriend said he use to treat his previous girlfriends bad. Now that he's with me he has been saying that I have been treating him bad. I said it might be karma he said no everybody got a choice to make and I choose to treat him bad. I don't see how I treat him bad I really and truly don't try to if I do. I'm a playful person he takes everything the wrong way. One day we were talking he said he use to play with his previous girlfriends heads. I think its karma.What does it sound like to you? We are only 15 years old. Thanks for the help.

2007-08-15 12:26:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting ready to get married and I don't want to come across as though I'm nagging, but I need a poem to write to my fiancee letting him know that we both share daily chores, I need romance, and he needs to spend family time with me and our 1year old daughter, but I truely want him to know that I really love him

2007-08-15 12:22:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hello, My story is a little complex and I would like some advice on what you guys out there would do...

My dad has been running a successful business abroad whilst my mother and I having been living in the US. I used to see my dad every couple of months when he used to come over for a visit then he used to return to continue running it. ( they're not separated)

Just before I was born my mum came back to the US so I get a good education/health and we would return back. The thing is we didnt go back, we stayed and I lived pretty much all my life here (Im 20 now) and my dad was out there. Now, for the past year, my parents have asked me to make a decision on what I would like to do, should we sell the business (doing really well) or make a living here?

Now the thing is my social life is here (friends etc) and I havnt lived abroad at all. I dont really know many people out there apart from family. There are so many factors; facilites/services, my future (done bsc), social life?

2007-08-15 12:17:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-15 12:15:55 · 29 answers · asked by vanillaspice 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 5'9" 34 yrs old

2007-08-15 12:15:20 · 35 answers · asked by Daniel R 2 in Friends

Ok, my brother is leaving for college next week and he's going to be living at college. So I share a room with my sister and I've never had my own room and I want my own so badly. While he's gone there's going to be a vacant room, but the problem is my mom and my brother are too selfish and stubborn to let me take the room while he's gone. We'll they'll let me sleep in it, but that's it. But also my sister is younger and doesn't care about sleeping somewhere else but even if i had my room to myself, there would still be an extra bed taking up space. My room is very small and cluttered. I've made proposals to move to the basement and set up my own room down there or have a fouton in my room instead of an extra bed, so that way it's like having a couch in your room. BUT my mom won't let me do any of that. Does anyone have any ideas of how i can get my mom to let me have my own space or how to make sharing a room more tolerable?

2007-08-15 12:14:04 · 6 answers · asked by Shanny 2 in Family

Assuming there's no harm issues!

2007-08-15 12:11:56 · 32 answers · asked by BLUE MOON 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i made the girl that i like cry,heres how it goes they were calling me and i didn't go becuse i was embaressed so all of my friends were looking at me and pushing me so i was i was in a lot of pressure and she started to cry what do i do

2007-08-15 12:08:36 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 12:07:15 · 27 answers · asked by Leona 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm heading off to college soon and I want to remain abstinent. I don't want to be made fun of by people saying I'm pathetic or something. I want people to respect my decision, but I don't know if that's going to happen. What can I do to avoid people asking me to have sex? I live in tight living conditions and there are always people paryting. I go to UMASS. What can I say and not look stupid? Just "no, thanks?"

2007-08-15 12:02:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been going out with this guy for about a year, and i love alot and we both lost our virginity to each other, but it seems like he hates wereing condoms, once when we were going to have sex he didnt put one on but thankfully i said somethin before we had sex, but when i said somthin he just said "O, ya.....cant blame me for tryin", but then after, he said he was really sorry for doin that and it wouldnt happen again (and it hasnt) but i still think he doesnt like werein a condom
so guys, does it feel better not wereing a condom, or does it interupt the mood, or what
and i heard not havein the condom on makes the sex go faster

2007-08-15 12:01:40 · 26 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 12:00:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-15 12:00:31 · 13 answers · asked by enties-rider 2 in Singles & Dating

my friends say its sick but we havent even kissed so how is that sick, we just like being near each other, we really like each other. but i am worried.

2007-08-15 12:00:28 · 10 answers · asked by kate 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a wedding I have to go to in September and I want to look FABULOUS! I want to lose a few pounds but I have no will power. Everytime I start a diet I fail! HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-08-15 11:58:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 11:57:09 · 7 answers · asked by BluSigma 1 in Weddings

what did he do!!!

2007-08-15 11:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

thx

2007-08-15 11:51:27 · 1 answers · asked by willow 3 in Singles & Dating

in my entire life of living i have anly found 1 guy that never forced me 4 sex. the others are just so desperate and when i say i am a vergin i am liing what do i have 2 lie about WHY CANT GUYES JUST BELIEVE AND ACCEPT. Guyes i need 2 Know and Fast

2007-08-15 11:50:47 · 26 answers · asked by Chocolate 1 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know if I'm being too untrustful or not. My hubby works an hour and a half away for a company that's based 4 hours away. There is a secretary at the base who does his expence reports and the like. I know they chit-chat and he says it's "completely professional", but I have my doubts. Why? Because we met up with the "base people" and had a closing dinner. She was the only one he didn't introduce me to. I had to ask him to introduce us. And she avoided him all night. That's fine, but when she did talk to us, she only looked at him. Then today I see that he deleted some "sent" emails to her. I'm just wondering, If this guy is saying he has nothing to hide and gets so upset when I bring it up, then why is he deleting his emails? Is something up or am I just blowing this way out porportion?

I would prefer a guy's point of view, but I welcome any help!

2007-08-15 11:50:28 · 23 answers · asked by boogers 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-15 11:45:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So this is really personal but I've got to know what to do....so I really hope no one thinks I'm weird even tho i'm not the only person asking this type of question....Anways, last night I had sex for the first time...well not even that really. I'm 19 and I know that I'm ready for it and well my boyfriend only got halfway in and we had to stop because it hurt so bad I couldn't bear it. He didn't want to continue because he didn't like the thought of hurting me that bad and to be honest it was quite all right with me. It's not like I wasn't aroused enough...from reading other questions I know some of you are going to say maybe that was it....Trust me, that wasn't it lol. Could it just be that I'm extremely tight or something? It hurt so bad that the thought of doing it again terrifies me but I really want to be with him in that way...What should I do? Has anyone else had an experience like this??? Do I need to just deal with it and get over the pain or what? Thanks in advance..

2007-08-15 11:42:30 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-15 11:42:20 · 2 answers · asked by Seamus 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't think the man I'm with is attractive at all. We are really good friends, and we have a child together, but it really grosses me out to have sex with him. Sometimes it hurts, and sometimes it makes me want to gag. His penis is really small and strange looking. Should I just suck it up since he is supporting me and our son, or can I tell him to stop?

2007-08-15 11:31:08 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know most girls point of veiws,so how was it for u?

2007-08-15 11:24:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

go on a date with me if so what would you wear ?

2007-08-15 11:21:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think?

(a) Must be cirumcised
(b) Uncurcimcised is the way to go
(c) I don't care as long as he keeps himself clean

2007-08-15 11:20:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just moved to live with my dad, stepmom, and little brother. i have lived with my mom for 14 years and really wanted to live with my dad. my mom had bought me a new laptop so that i could take it with me for school and to keep intouch with friends. the day before i moved, she made me give it back to her. 2 weeks after i moved, i talked her into mailing me the computer (thats how im posting this). now my dad got a call from his lawier saying that my mom sais that my dad must pay for the computer, or i have to send it back. why would a mother give her son a gift for the sole intentions of school and friends and then threaten to take it back if the father didnt pay for it? and what should i do? should i call her and talk to her about it or should i keep quiet?

2007-08-15 11:18:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I used to think my relationship wit my boyfriend coud neva go wrong even though we did av some ups and downs but they were always settled. however, lately things av started becomin a bit weird and unusual. like weird txt msgs and missin condoms. the thing is he is so smart and clever dat he always has answers to everything, but i always know in my heart he is lying. i know he loves me cos he shows me and tells me everytime. he has even gone to the extent of stayin at home more wit me just to make me happy. but the thing is i want to know the best way to confront him to get the truth from him. i just wanna know the truth; then we can work our way from there.

2007-08-15 11:18:19 · 1 answers · asked by dee 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf that has been their for my does not want my baby to not have a fater on the birth ceritficate, he is not the bio. fater but wants all the responsability. can i put him as the father and what would happen if we got married before the baby is born? someone please help me sraight out my thought in my haed..

2007-08-15 11:16:45 · 7 answers · asked by happymommy2b 1 in Weddings