ive been going out with this guy for about a year, and i love alot and we both lost our virginity to each other, but it seems like he hates wereing condoms, once when we were going to have sex he didnt put one on but thankfully i said somethin before we had sex, but when i said somthin he just said "O, ya.....cant blame me for tryin", but then after, he said he was really sorry for doin that and it wouldnt happen again (and it hasnt) but i still think he doesnt like werein a condom
so guys, does it feel better not wereing a condom, or does it interupt the mood, or what
and i heard not havein the condom on makes the sex go faster
2007-08-15 12:01:40 · 26 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it doesn't feel as good. it feels better for both of you to not wear a condom. you'll be surprised the first time you do it. if you are certain this guy will be faithful to you and you have no worries for stds and all that super awesome fun stuff, try going on birth control and shedding the man sock. i think you'll like it.
2007-08-15 12:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well the sensation with and without the condom is different, You just have to tell him its important you do, there are condoms out there that gives a great feeling almost like its not there, have fun with each other explore each others passions and you will see how much it doesn't even matter
2007-08-15 12:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by Richard J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A comedian once said that sex with a condom is like eating a choice steak with a balloon over your tongue....
you can feel it, but you can't "taste" it.
There's something to that... you can perhaps feel the warmth and texture of sex, but you're not feeling flesh on flesh, skin on skin contact.
But good for you for insisting! (although if he actually tried to get away with it, I'd be suspicious that he's not really looking out for your best interest). Condom sex is better than none at all.
2007-08-15 12:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by Perdendosi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms are like the three layers of bread on the Big Mac, its goot to have it but it is slowing me down from getting to the meat. Guys want to feel US. All of us. But u go girl for being safe than sorry. Perhaps if you bot htrust eachother enough perhaps u can go on a birth control other than condoms. But before going there experiment with different ones like lubricated, flavored ones, and I think they have glow in the dark ones too hmm, anywho ask him what he doesnt like about it and if he's up for experimenting. Go for it! :)
2007-08-15 12:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by mistista07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy. It feels much better without a condom. It's weird though, most girls are the ones that don't want the condom on.lol He's gonna learn to wear a condom when you get pregnant and he suddenly has to be a father. Don't let him get away with not wearing one.
2007-08-15 12:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by footblljunkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG ok.. first of all planned Parenthood discover one. get on the pill. in the present day! 2nd... as long as neither of you have ever, ever had the different style of sexual touch you are going to be high-quality. that incorporates oral and anal with every person else. yet whether it is so.. if he hasn't wrapped it up then you certainly could desire to get in and get screened for STDs asap. why? because of the fact whilst he will possibly no longer think of getting a b.j. is intercourse.. it relatively is and he can get some nasty stuff and supply it to you and you may on no account additionally be responsive to it. third. i'm sorry.. yet this guy is attempting to no longer use risk-free practices.. you the two DO be responsive to the way little ones are made.. good? why he could attempt to no longer avert it is previous me and tells me he won't be mature adequate to have as a sexual companion. i be responsive to (and have) dropped adult men (kicked them away from mattress and the room) who've tried to tug a stunt like that.
2016-10-10 07:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are close enough and comfortable to have sex with ur guy then u should be comfortable enough to ask him. Maybe he did just forget then tried to make it into a joke. Maybe all the condoms he have are the wrong size so he isn't comfortable wearing them.
2007-08-15 12:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make him wear a condom everytime. You would rather do that then end up with a problem later on down the road.
2007-08-15 12:07:10 · answer #8 · answered by amy00 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
About it going much faster without that is true. They are more sensitive without one on. I'm married and prefer to use condoms. My husband would rather not. I can't get pregnant because I'm fixed. But you can. Don't take chances.
2007-08-15 12:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh not having a condom sometimes makes it faster bt remember sti's and also the possibilty of getting pregnant. you don't want to end up like me going to a clinic because your boyfriend didn't wear a condom and so you had to take a pill and now hope you're not pregnant =[. Trust me just get him to try a different kind of condom theres loads.
2007-08-15 12:07:30 · answer #10 · answered by immiemiami 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋