Am i being paranoid or wat?

Question

I used to think my relationship wit my boyfriend coud neva go wrong even though we did av some ups and downs but they were always settled. however, lately things av started becomin a bit weird and unusual. like weird txt msgs and missin condoms. the thing is he is so smart and clever dat he always has answers to everything, but i always know in my heart he is lying. i know he loves me cos he shows me and tells me everytime. he has even gone to the extent of stayin at home more wit me just to make me happy. but the thing is i want to know the best way to confront him to get the truth from him. i just wanna know the truth; then we can work our way from there.

Answer 1

Truth is that he doesn't know how to love you. The whole "to the extent of stayin at home moe wit me just to make me happy" Gives it away, thats not going to ANY extent, thats what he should need to do, so it would seem your just a backup girl or that girlfriend no one ever mets, who it doesn't seem to want to accept the truth. Thats your bad, love yourself more. A good start would be requinizing your to good for this situation, and that LOVE DOESN'T MATTER, reality isn't a disney movie or a romance noviel, love only matters to the extent of knowing what to do with it, and nether of you do. Sorry love isn't magic, what we can do with it is, and he apparently isn't doing anything with but manipulating what he can out of you, poor choice of male matteral....