Ok So Ive Got a Boyfriend But i Really Like This Other Guy. He Really Sweet And I Cant Stop Thinking About Him This Guy Likes Me Too I Havnt Told Him I Like Him Because I Have a Boyfriend. My Boyfriend I Really Nice Too But i Like This Other Guy More! My Boyfriend Like Really Likes Me (Not In a Big Headed Way) And I Dont Want To Dump Him But I Want To Be Single! What Shall I Do Please Help Me! =( Thanks x
2007-08-15 09:08:57 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
these guys should realize that you are not worth it...you have a boyfriend yet your thinking of another guy??? you should tell your boyfriend what is going on and he should dump you and the other guy will see that you aint worth it
2007-08-15 09:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by kauaichic420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, you want to be single so you can go with the other guy? Well, that wouldn't make you single would it? You like this other guy, but could be just a physical attraction or lust. Ask yourself if you REALLY know this other guy and if you are willing to compromise the good relationship with the guy you're with right now. I'm assuming that it is good.
Furthermore, you shouldn't be with a guy if you WANT to be single. So for your sake, dump him. Otherwise you'll grow bored and resentful. You may start treating him bad just because you're looking for a way out. If you truly want to be single, you should dump him soon, and be honest about it, and you can split on better terms than if you wait to let it turn into a nasty dramatic breakup. Unless you like drama...
2007-08-15 09:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know the truth? If you can't stay committed to your boyfriend, then you are probably not mature enough to be with ANY guy. Time to dump your guy. You'll be doing HIM a favor, because he will not be saddled with a woman who is not mature enough for a committed relationship, and then he will be free to seek someone out who is ready. Meanwhile, you can be single, enjoy yourself, and not have to worry about who you are attached to. I don't mean that as an insult to you or anything. We all mature at different rates, and everyone goes through a period where they are not ready for a relationship! Just have some fun, be single, and hook up when you are ready to, that is all. Good luck!
2007-08-15 09:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you don't want to dump him, but yet you want to be single./ Be free to date others. You can't have both. Just decide. Tell your boyfriend you don't want to see him anymore. If he insist tell him the truth. There is another guy you like more than him. Don't bother suggesting both of you see others and still be boyfriend and girlfriend. That will cause so many problems. Next thing you know your on the Maury show, having guys tested to see who's the father.
2007-08-15 09:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by Red Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are too young to be in a commited relationship. You should explain that you want to meet more people so you can better understand relationships and your feelings. When you are young things should be light and casual and you should meet as many people as possible so you get an idea of what's out there and what you want. You aren't doing yourself or anyone else any favors by closing yourself off from the world because you will eventually be curious. Better to meet people when you are young and commit later than commit now and look around later.
2007-08-15 09:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here's the thing:
1. You should want to be with your BF because you think he's the guy for you. If you don't think so, then he shouldn't be your BF. Dump him.
2. See Rule 1 above. If your BF doesn't qualify, dump him for that reason...not just because you want to trade up.
3. Honey...every last word doesn't need to be capitalized. Pay attention in school.
2007-08-15 09:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by Bill 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break it off with your boyfriend now cause the more u wait the more you will hurt him in the end... thats if u care about the guy's feeling unlike most females on the planet that just use men for there money and to take them out to dinner to stuff there faces so they can gain 30-50 pounds like usual after they get outta high school
2007-08-15 09:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long you have been with the other guy, do you think it is going to be a long term thing? If not, go with the other one. Do you think the one you like would be a longer term relationship? Or is he the unstable kind fo guy? - just chucking some questions out there, generally follow your heart, it is not like you are married to the guy you are with - all I would say is faithfullness is a really good quality!
2007-08-15 09:15:37 · answer #8 · answered by simon b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to be straight out with ur boyfriend. The longer you wait to tell him the worst the situation will get. Just tell him that u want to be single and do not want to be tied down right now....It is better you tell him than end up cheating on him...
2007-08-15 09:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by puertolinda2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your boyfriend the truth. You like him but you want to try to date around. Tell him you dont want to cheat on him so that's why you're telling him how you feel. It's not easy but something's got to give. That way he'll feel bad but at least he knows you're honest and you can go your way. Maybe if the next relationship doesnt work, maybe your ex might still like you.
2007-08-15 09:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋