but i cant because shes been adopted at 6mnth and ive always wanted to hav a little sister but my mum had her and shes on drugs living at dealers houses so social services took her into care I want to get in touch, see her or at least get a pic of her someone told me i cant see her until shes 18 but by then she will be a completely differnt person and i will be 31 and she may not even want anything to do we me what can i do!!!!? it has been making me really depressed latley i want to grow up with her! :'(
2007-08-15 08:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by Charlotte Rosiep 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do you have a social worker that you could talk to? Have you told the adults you live with? It may be that you won't be able to, and she'll have to look for you when she's 18. But you can't do this yourself...
2007-08-15 08:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get in touch with Social Services and explain how you feel and see if they can do something about it. Failing that I would make an appointment with the Citizens Advice Bureau, address and phone number in Yellow Pages (or Soc. Ser. should know it) ring them make an appointment and ask what your legal rights are to seeing your sister. Good luck and don't give up. xxx
2007-08-15 08:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by lottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well chalot if you really want to see your sister use apolite method ,go to social service and ask permission becouse they do child care and dear you have the right to see your sister ,remeber its your mom who screwed up not you,you never know you could be given regular hours so by the court to be in toutch mainly becouse your true family to the littel gal and never wait for her to grow old coz even then she will be lost in this world looking for her real identity and askin why they abandoned her,you should also not be depressed,be strong atleast you get to know how she is many are split and lost in the world so just take it as a God given chance to one day be to gether dont loose hope.Good luck love be strong
2007-08-15 09:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by Hass r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow im really sorry to hear that. Maybe you can find out where she lives and who her adoptive parents are and maybe they are nice people and would probably love to have you see your sister.Good Luck.
2007-08-15 08:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,have you asked social services.What about asking who you live with.You need to talk to some one its obvious you miss your sister.Maybe you also miss your mam.I know she is living a bad life however it will not stop how you feel.Good Luck
2007-08-15 08:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it feels hard for me to tell you this but i know that life is like a random game sometimes you may think you lost everything and that is when you you will enjoy or your dreams are coming true. therefore, i think that now in the situation that you are you need to pray more and you will enjoy life in the fullest.....
Ralph Michel
2007-08-15 09:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life sucks when you have irresponsible parents. Grow up, live your life, and don't be like them. You have to wait.
2007-08-15 08:51:57 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry your in this subject. My mum and dad divorced after 17 years of marriage. i found my mom cheating on my Dad on line. i grow to be torn. i grow to be extra related with my mom yet after this adventure i had to be with my Dad. We went to court docket. i had to stay with my Dad so I did.. choose for what you sense good interior the midsection....
2016-10-10 07:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by rask 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u try out going to social servuces and askin them about what u can do to find her
2007-08-15 08:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by *S!LL!3G00B3R*TTC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋