we were together for 4 yrs and have a 2yr old son, nothing illegal please!! guys- wat hurts you ??
2007-08-15 09:00:44 · 44 answers · asked by jodie c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way is to move on with your life, show him how wonderful you are without him. Also I learned that completely 100% ignoring his calls, emails, etc. will tick him off more than anything. Don't resort to violence or revenge, it will only make the situation worse.
2007-08-15 09:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by Chelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vengeance is not the best answer. dont get mad cause i will be frank with you. you are not very wise. you have a 2 yrs old son being fathered by a low life cheatin DRUG USING ex? you should not even be in touch with someone like that until he gets his act together. You need to keep your child away from him so that he is not exposured to and influenced by such a lifestyle. I think the least of your worry should be vengeance, you need to focus on a better future for your son so that he does not end up miserable. GET YOUR PRIORITY STRAIGHT
2007-08-15 09:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Wale 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what would hurt him the most..
just be yourself and dont treat him with any annimosity... be fair up to a certain extent, i obviously dont know the details but if there is a kid involved then there is no good reason to have a lot of hate around either.
why not give yourself a makeover, not just pysically but doing things like, starting a course or finding a great new job that gives you and your some the kind of lifestyle you want.
i know a girl that did something similar and her ex could not handle the fact that she was better off without him
2007-08-15 09:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm telling you this works, move on with another man that makes you happy not just to get back but mainly for you. In the mean while take out child support, it'll not only help you but him as well. Nobody likes dodging thhe police. But a guy of that nature with drugs and all can't stand to see his ex being successful exspecially when he figured his habits would have brought her down as it did him. I was just in the same situation and now that he sees my life he wants back in, Itold him " Me and the kids are fine just keep the one you left me for payin that support ".
2007-08-15 09:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by brave_lady2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is...to be the bigger person and continue on with your life, get a new guy . He was as you say a low life scum sucking peice of garbage anyway so why care about hurting him, that just proves he got to you, carry on like you dont care and life has improved without him ....failing that kick him in the nuts HARD!!
2007-08-15 09:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will probably hurt you and then haunt you. Your son will come back to you and ask why you did that to daddy.... Don't stoop, life will be in charge of getting back to him the damage he has done. Just heal and move on with your child. Do you think he will also care for what you do? And to prove what? And after you have done it, what next? He will do something to you and the chain builds on? It is not a good example to set you your child either.
2007-08-15 09:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mary Laurita 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turn him into the cops when you know he's got drugs around. Do it after you've left him.
Then... move on with your life. You and your child deserve better.
When he sees you with a Great guy and you're happy, it will stab at him for the rest of his life.
Keep him accountable. Make sure he has to pay child support to support his child.
Make sure he doesn't get over night time with his child until he's off of the drugs!
2007-08-15 09:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rif Tahoe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's really an asshole,then be the better person and move on with your day without giving a flying **** about what he's doing. Go out,date a little(if you want),live life as if you no longer need,which it sounds like you don't. Seeing you happy without him and his BS will probably piss him off the most...but if you're really in Revenge mode,key his car.
2007-08-15 09:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by lastkid11@verizon.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Live a good life. Success is the best revenge. When he sees what he could have had, it will eat him alive. Just go forward and be happy. Take care of that kid and raise him right. That is the best revenge.
2007-08-15 09:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by magix151 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life and don't judge all men by this creep the best way to get back at him is to make a success of your new life, i know you must be hurting, but for the sake of your sanity and your son pick yourself up and start again.
"That which don't kill me makes me stronger". : )
Take care Hun xx : )
2007-08-15 09:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by Dj' s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋