2007-08-15 05:34:20 · 24 answers · asked by Me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one single rule or answer, but a few good tips
* Confidence - be comfortable in your own skin
* Have something clever to say - but DON'T be a smarty pants
* Acknowledge you are a girl and have `girly` moments
* Don't be surprised if you have some failings
* Don't be surprised if HE has some failings
* Understand how BOTH sides work (girls & boys), they are wired up different in some ways, the same in other ways.
* Don't dress up like a cheap sl@pper - what a MAN thinks a looks good on a woman and what DOES look good on a woman are two different things (read that one a few times - it does make sense)
Oh, this only applies to MEN - you can't get the respect of boys - thats WHY they are boys.
Good luck.
2007-08-15 08:13:13 · answer #1 · answered by brad m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By Being themselves. There is no wrong or right way in a relationship. If you want to gain his respect you have to respect him. See what makes him happy and what doesnt. A Man likes it when his wife cares for him. and Makes him feel good. Be yourself and be smart!! dont hold back if you like a guy and he likes you, you must show what and who you really are that way he would love everything about you. dont lie to him even if its a little white lie because i sure darn know when a guy gives us women a little white lie we dont like it. And Satisfiy his needs. if he wants to hang out with his buds let him. guys hate it when we say no and we choke them . Trust him and he'll trust you and respect you
2007-08-15 05:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gain the respect of a man by not allowing him to treat you like a whore.
2007-08-15 05:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he gains respect for you, then you gain respect for him. QUite simple really
2007-08-15 05:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The same way as men get it from a woman
2007-08-15 05:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Roger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the quote? "Act like a hoe, get treated like one"
If you have respect for yourself men will respect you.
:)
2007-08-15 16:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being an independent woman BUT always treating him like a MAN.
2007-08-15 05:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by jacquie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a mentor for him, be faithful, and be wiser than him. Woman knows his heart and be there for him. I would fall in love with that kind of woman.............Of course this does not mean man is going to be selfish self centered immature kid. It must come from both ways, faithfulness is a MUST. in relationship......
2007-08-15 05:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we are not afraid to show our intelligence and strength – I know many women who use their so-called "femininity" to pretend they're weak and vulnerable, and so think they get some sort of an advantage!
2007-08-15 05:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by rockwife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have respect for yourself first. Don't dress trashy, don't use foul language. Be a lady.
2007-08-15 05:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by sudsbud9er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋