Okay this is really serious and I need help. There is this guy I like. I have known him since high school, we graduated this year and well there are times where he calls me and talks to me and then there are times when I call him and talk to him. Are conversations dont last very long, the longest we have ever talked is about 10mins on the phone. I have told some of my friends about me liking him and they say that I am to good for him that he isnt good enough and that I can do better. Well I have known him for a year and a 1/2 and I feel that I know him pretty well. He has no Idea that I like him and I want to tell him but I dont know how. I dont want to be straight up and tell him "I like you" I want to kind of give him hints rather than just tell him. What kind of hints would you give a guy/girl.
P.S. he is a class clown and he might not take it seriously I want him to take it seriously though.
The reason my friends say that im to good for him is cuz of looks and how he is a clown
2007-08-15 05:55:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, a couple things
#1-Don't listen to your friends unless there is something A LOT more serious going on - being a clown just shows he has a sense of humor :-)
#2-Guys HATE playing games... you'll have more success in making this a relationship (sounds like that's what you want) if you just be straight and honest with him - "I'm interested in you, would you like to go out some time?"
2007-08-15 05:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by AriesJWR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all thats how people make mistakes and let a great guy or girl get away. LISTENING TO FRIENDS!!!!!! You like him so what does it matter what they think? Are you not independent? Do you not make your own decisions about who you want to date? You don't need our help for this you already know the answer. You like this guy and he must like you because i can't see you or him wasting each other's time on the phone otherwise. Apparently looks aren't an issue for you because you like him regardless of how he looks. Stop letting your friends try to tell you who to date and whats best for you. No one knows whats best for you but you and if you allow your friends to control who you date and why you date them then you may never be happy but it seems like you are happy with this guy. You should just be honest with him and tell him that you like him there is no shame in that. Don't play games with him cause most guys don't like that and you shouldn't want to play games with him if you don't want the same for yourself. Just be honest, take it slow, and enjoy how you feel when you are with him or see him. God Bless
2007-08-15 06:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds insecure and hiding it. Maybe you are too. Self esteem is handled pretty well on the net free such as self-confidence. co. uk/ missing.html It's a live long solution in a few hours. We always have to keep our spirits up daily to be attractive to others and happy. Usually you have two needy persons leaning on and draining each other. When you are full emotionally, it's like full spiritually, very attractive, fight them off their coming in the windows. nuff said. It's the only way a relationship will work long term anyway.
2007-08-15 06:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget your friends there probally jelous you'll find that that is why we call you bi+ches. cause that is what girls are. they will be your best friends but be unhappy that you have something better than them. so if you like him ask him out, and if he is a asss then dump him.
2007-08-15 06:01:53 · answer #4 · answered by brent0331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and make your conversations last longer than 10 mins...if you see him alot..tease him with your eyes and give him cute smiles..start to be a little more touchy when you flirt
2007-08-15 06:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
didnt you already ask this?
2007-08-15 06:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋