One in real time and another online. You would very much like to be with just one but you can't . The online man is more suitable age-wise, personality and long-term potential. The real time man who was there first is a bit immature but loyal, and great chemistry; no future maybe the case here because of big age difference.
Would you go for sex or for long-term-( although not guaranteed)-potential relationship. The woman involved is divorced and beyond child-bearing years.
How do you explain to the one to be dumped that it's over without revealing or sounding like a cheat and without hurting his pride? Each of these thinks he's the only one in her life.
2007-08-15 00:46:21 · 2 answers · asked by Blue lagoon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The real time man helps her financially although he's not rich. Thus you can say that neither man is particularly well off. When she started her online 'affair' she wanted out of the previous relationship immediately but eventually it took longer than she expected. The online man may not be yet ready to meet in real time. The real time man had stood by her through thick and thin during the time they were together, but won't move to the next level. Thus the dilemma. . .
2007-08-15 01:22:00 · update #1
thats so wrong in what you are doing to the guys your useing them you cant love 2 guys at once.......i think you should just tell them both the truth and see what happends........i think you need to grow up and see what you are doing........
2007-08-15 00:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol who cares about his pride?hit it with a jack hammer stomp on it and tear it into little tiny bite sized peices if hes an ego maniac who thinks hes a player it should be shredded
2007-08-15 00:54:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy Beast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋