My sec. cousin loves me more than my parents...i think. and why?

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My sec. cousin loves me more than my parents...i think. and why?
Is
n't it sad that my second cousin shows me more love than my parents?

My dad is often away and when I seem down he dismiss's it. My mother was raised by her grandma because she never recieved the attention/love she got from her own mom. Her mom pretty much abadoned her and my grandma was left to take care of her. Now my mom is taking it out on me. Were not suppose to show our feelings-as in being sad or else she'll scream at me and saying im acting like a grannie.

than how come my cousin is the only one who was very nice to me and was trying to cheer me up while no else cared? not even my other cousins at the party? he is my sec. cousin. even though my other cousins are nice he was being esp, nice to me. hes 21. im 14.


BTW AT THE PARTY I WAS MOODY NOT SAD!
and he dosnt know the situation at home

Answer 1

Because he is ether a geniunely nice guy, or a pervert, let your instincts tell you one way or another. Of course being raised in that environment your probly going to have alot of issues with showing your emotions so this is going to be tuff. But don't dismis a person showing you some love.

Answer 2

I’ve seen this question numerous times, and under different names too (ie: you also posted this as "Inne"). It always makes me a bit suspicious when people constantly post the same question *under different names*. How many times do you intend to ask it?

Work on your relationship with your parents. This guy was nice to you and tried to cheer you up with you were feeling down, but that does NOT mean that he loves you more than your parents.

And, I wonder if maybe you don't have a bit of a crush on him. IF so, get over it. He's an adult, and (assuming he's a normal adult) I can assure you that he views you as a kid--maybe a kid that he is fond of (in a healthy way), but still just a kid.