The husband works full time and pays all the bills and buys all the food, clothes, etc. Wife doesn't work or have any income. She stays at home with the kids while he's at work. The kids trash the house. The dirty dishes are piled up in the kitchen and there's food all over the floor throughout the house. Husband comes home and cooks his own dinner and dinner for the kids. Wife refuses to wash any dishes or clean the house or cook dinner for husband. Ok, so the question is: Does husband just need to slap her around a little bit or is she a lost cause?
2007-08-15 05:28:03 · 18 answers · asked by ignernt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She thinks husband should wash all the dishes because he does all the cooking and he's the one who got them dirty. Is that a prime example of female logic or what?
2007-08-15 05:31:41 · update #1
No, she does absolutely nothing but lay in bed and watch tv all day and eat.
2007-08-15 05:39:11 · update #2
The slapping was a joke btw.
2007-08-15 05:42:55 · update #3
Go ahead and slap her around....Find yourself in jail!!! She needs to do her part in keeping house if she doesn't want too then she needs to get a job and pay for a housekeeper.......
2007-08-15 05:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the husband needs to stop being such a moron for starters. I'm a stay at home mom and my husband pays for things etc. One day years ago he just stopped getting up in the morning and going to work. Did I leave him or slap him around? No I assumed something was wrong and I talked to him Guess what he was severely depressed and had just given up on life. Why don't you try finding out what's wrong with your wife instead of being so horrible
2007-08-15 05:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has depression. Especially if the kids are young, she could have post-natal depression. If its not treated it can last for even years after the kids are born. Severe depression often stops even basic tasks from being done. And if the house is a mess, or the kids are badly behaved it can create a vicious cycle. I suggest trying to get councilling for her if she's willing.
Slapping her around a bit is just wrong. Hope thats a joke, Its not going to sort anything but would be a good court case for abuse!
2007-08-15 05:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be kidding me i hope what does she do all day watch tv eating cheetos or what lay the law down my wife works and so do i she comes home and keeps on working house is spottless clothes are wash supper is always on the table and she is a mother besides your woman has some very bad priorities how do you live like that damn if it was my wife to the curb you go i do understand kids involved but damn is she lazy tell her to go and get a job and you stay home sorry but that would bug the living crap out of me matter of a fact it does just by reading what you wrote man
2007-08-15 05:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweet Pea violence is never the answer. I think the Mr. needs to set standards in his house asap. A woman job is to make the mans workload alot easier. If the Mr. don't let her know this than the household will be broken forever. They need to communicate and he needs to just step up and let her know what he expects when he comes home. If he is working and providing she needs to give him the courtesy of a clean and sanitized home, cooked meal and tend to the kids better. Good luck!
2007-08-15 05:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by b n real 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, he doesn't have to slap her around a bit.
But he does need to tell her to get off her but and do something. I have a sister in law the same way. I think these women act like this because the men are too nice and let them get away with it.
2007-08-15 05:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds severly depressed to me. Why doesn't the husband try treating her better, and also suggest she see a doctor about how she's feeling. I'd be very depressed myself if my husband went to work all day while I was stuck at home with the kids, and my husband's only reaction was to ask a bunch of strangers whether he should assault me. You're a total loser.
2007-08-15 05:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who is dumb enough to work and pay the bills, so he can come home to a nasty house and no food cooked by his lazy wife, deserves whatever he gets. If she was my wife, she would either straighten herself out or get the hell out of my house, and I mean that sincerely!
2007-08-15 05:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs to talk to her about her behavior. I wonder is she was like this all along. If I was at home all day and my husband was bring home the bacon, his dinner would be ready, bath would be ran and house would be cleaned.
2007-08-15 05:34:16 · answer #9 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to communicate his feelings. She needs to get off her lazy butt and do some work. If she isnt' going to clean house and take care of kids, she can get a job outside of house to pay for nanny/house keeper.
He married a slob.
2007-08-15 05:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋