A guy who was inexperienced in bed asked what he could do to have better sex with his experienced girlfriend.?

Question

I told him to go to a brothel and pay prostitutes to teach him how to have sex. I swear I was dead serious! I honestly think it's a great way to learn to have sex. What better 'teachers' could there be than prostitutes? They're experienced, he'll never see them again, he doesn't need to know them or trust them, their consent is given, and he can do it as many times as he wants. In minutes I got quite a few thumbs downs, why? Lol.

Disgruntled, that's a good idea. He'll have to be self-taught though.

Answer 1

Not good advice. He could have asked the woman he was with to tell him how he could improve. This way is free.

Answer 2

Brothel is a bad idea. That can complicate's one sexual views and self-esteem tremendously. Plus he would be cheating on his girlfriend.

Tell him to research foreplay on the internet. Young men (and some older) often overlook this important aspect of a sexual relationship. Some men may not be good at actual intercourse but almost everyone can find a niche in foreplay. Heavy petting, kissing, neck kissing, cunnilingus, oil massages....you get the picture. Great foreplay leads to even better sex.

I would also suggest that he ask his girlfriend what she wants and likes. Sex shouldn't be a mysterious subject that couples dont talk about. Communication is an important part of a healthy sexual relationship.

Answer 3

if i answered that first question, i would definitely go with the first option but after reading what you put following, i'd have to say your boyfriend probably prefers the second. every guy is different, you can't assume every guy out there is a pig and will always prefer having meaningless sex ESPECIALLY after being with you for 2 years. you know your boyfriend better than i do, i'm sure that you know he's a good guy. you can't be paranoid about him and his past. it's in his past, leave it there you might either be 1) silly for thinking you're not as "wild" or "good" in bed. i bet you anything that he thinks otherwise or 2) you might really not be the best in bed, but does it look like he minds? besides, if you really think you're that bad you can always get better. one way to start is to show confidence in bed, there's nothing sexier than a girl with confidence. maybe look up on trying new things? you know what he likes :P you're scared he'll get bored with you? it's been 2 years and he still hasn't and i'm sure sex isn't the only aspect of your relationship. get over this silly fear and paranoia, i'm sure he loves making love to you and i bet you anything he prefers making love with a loving girlfriend over meaningless sex with a hot girl any day. you're fine dear hope i helped

Answer 4

This is a terrible suggestion because prostitutes are paid to pleasure a man. Prostitutes don't really enjoy the sex they give. they do this for money as a job...NOT for PLEASURE If anyone thinks prostitutes like it they are wrong. They are simply actresses! They are experts at pleasing men. They don't teach men anything except how to get pleasured which makes them selfish, you see! All you would be doing is leading him down the road to hopelessness of ever having an equal sexual relationship.

Answer 5

There are too many diseases out there to be with a prostitute....even if they have to have health cards once a week or month, they can still sleep with one after getting checked out and then move on to the next and pass the disease on to them. Also it takes about 6 months for the HIV virus to be detected. So no, if you want your friend safe, do NOT recommend prostitutes!!!! That is absured. He can watch porn or read magazines....Cosmo has lots of good tips in it! They have a man's section in it as well, so it is not only a woman's magazine.

Answer 6

Because considering its a high-risk activity. So they'll go to a brothel and gain experience or so you think. But you'll come out with a STD/HIV right along with it. Is it worth it? NO. Why couldn't he just ask her to teach him. More simple let his insecurities go, cause a experienced woman would notice and that's such a turn off. Its all about experimenting with each other. And who else can be a better candidate that someone you actually would love and trust. But that's just my humble opinion.

Answer 7

Prostiutes = STDs

And WHY?
You got thumbs down because you didn't give a realistic answer. No guy is going to pick up a filthy whore just to get better experience in bed. And that's sad that you were dead serious. Would you do the same in that situation? And if you would then that's pathetic. Grow up! Nobody wants crap answers that aren't helpful.

Answer 8

Well because it's not really a good idea. Those women sleep with all kinds of people and condoms are NOT 100% effective against STD's. You just learn by trial and error. Have him talk to his friends both male and female in a fun way and see what they do. You'd be surprised if he just brought up one thing say in a really casual setting, everyone usually starts revealing what they like.

Answer 9

thats an aweful answer!!

um.... his experienced girlfriend should help him out.
Sex is a very special thing between two people, and what could possibly be more fun than teaching eachother and having a lot of sex? Makes for happy customers...

dont send him to a brothel... unless the girl wants to sleep with an STD infested rookie who f*c*s like a manwhore. good luck makin love to that

Answer 10

oh yeah thats just dirty, prostitutes, sure why not, and have the chance of him coming back with diseases and spending money to benefit your needs. Dude, seriously, if you like this guy at all, you wouldnt ask him such a disrespectful question as to go to the brothel. but if you want to catch some disease just for sex. then go ahead. but, my advice to you, is to teach him yourself, tell him what you would like him to do differently.
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Answer 11

I dont think its a super bad i dea, but im pretty sure prostitution is illegal, not to mention he better strap up double on the protection cause who knows what he'll get as far as STD's. but if you dont care about that stuff, u just wana be good in bed, thats a good, quick way to become a pro.