i really didnt mean to do it, that happens with me alot. Probably because of the way i play around with ppl. but i dont like the other guy. Do yout hink he'll get mad?
2007-08-15 05:05:46 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The rule I heard is, you suffer, don't make him suffer also, unless you have a disease, it's going to mean a break up or something to harm him. That's love, not harming. Think big and keep it simple. He'll never trust you. And if you keep that type of behavior, he'll find out eventually. It's an unmet emotional need looking for the love that is inside you and can only be found there. If you don't find it inside, you will never find it outside. Go within, or go without. He needs to learn that too. There's plenty on the internet about the latest findings on emotions. Running around and not telling does the most harm. Flirting and telling does the most harm. Are you sure it isn't revenge?
2007-08-15 05:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by hb12 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, don't tell him. Do you have to tell him every time a guy smiles at you or holds a door? Flirting is no big deal. If you were trying really hard to get another guy's attention, you need to think about your current relationship. Otherwise, would YOU want to hear about HIM flirting with a girl, but not really meaning it?
I wouldn't say anything, only because it's not a threat to the relationship.
2007-08-15 05:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it bothers you enough to wonder if you should tell him or not obviously you feel guilty, which is good. However, if you find yourself flirting subconciously all the time than I'm sure your boyfriend has noticed it. If you point out a particular incident than yes he will get mad, so I don't think telling him about it is a good idea. Subconciously or not flirting while your in a relationship is not healthy.
2007-08-15 05:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by skipmastaflash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No leave it alone. If you tell your boyfriend you flirted with a guy with out meaning to hes not going to have any trust in you any more. There are some things that you just dont tell your boy friend. Thats somthing you dont tell.
2007-08-15 05:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirted? Honey, as long as neither you nor the other guy touched parts you shouldnt have, you don't need to tell him about harmless flirting.
2007-08-15 05:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Expat Mike 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as that's as far as you went there is no reason to tell him, it will only make him curious as to what else you might be doing, but if you fell that it was nothing serious, then it probably isn't, so don't worry about it
2007-08-15 05:15:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with flirting. i do it all the time, i even did it when i was with my ex. a few times i even told him about it, like so and so said this to me or so and so did this. i wasn't trying to make him jealous though, i'm just honest like that.
2007-08-15 05:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes... tell him. Also try to change the way you "flirt" without meaning to.
2007-08-15 05:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by awjandbjj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u need to be honest with ur bf and tell him u flirted with another guy. "he will respect ur honesty" Then u need too explain to the other guy that when u flirted with him u ment nothing by it
2007-08-15 05:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by ammon b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Consider the times he must have noticed another girl, and NEVER told YOU about it!!! You need to have the maturity to keep some things to yourself.
2007-08-15 05:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋