To make a long story short: Went out with this guy, but broke up with him because it was too difficult to keep seeing him (he knows the reason why, I explained to him), he still likes me and is willing to go back out and continue to work around the difficulties. However, I feel bad that we have to work around it in the first place and things would be hard anyway! He tells me he's fine with this.
I'm not sure if I still like him, I think I do because I often miss talking/hanging out/etc. with him. But then again, I'm not really sure if I want a boyfriend. Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. I feel like I need more time to think about this. He texted me just now saying: he still likes me and wants to go out.
How do I respond to this? I want to have more time to think but I don't want him to lose interest and I'll get hurt without expecting it. I also don't want to say yes and make things even more difficult and end up getting hurt anyway.
Please help. I'm very, very confused
2007-08-15 04:57:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By everything you said here... it sound like you have the same problem I do sometimes... you think tooooo much instead of just doing what you want to do. The first thing that clued me in was the SORRY was your first word. Sorry for what? We're all on Yahoo Anwers b/c we want to help out... so don't be sorry. My second guess is that you dealt with a really controlling parent, so that's why you're always second guessing yourself... I've had this problem too!!!
Of course, I could be wrong:) But seriously, just relax, go out with him, be honest, but CHILL! Do YOU want to go out with him? Are YOU interested? If the answers to these are a remote yes, then go for broke and if it doesn't end up working out, chalk it up to experience!
2007-08-15 05:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just go out and have fun? it doesn't have to be anything other than that.
2007-08-15 05:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill think bout it
2007-08-15 05:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by CHS Track Sprinter 09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋