Family & Relationships - 6 August 2007

I have a friend who is really mean to mean but when I talk to her about it she freaks out. She also flirts with my boyfriend all the time, what do I do?

2007-08-06 09:05:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Dear friends
Honestly talking, I am very beautiful girl,people around me belive & say.
But unfortunately I am shy and can not find and attract boys successfully,please tell me what to do?
I am worried to tell others abut this problem
thank you

2007-08-06 09:05:27 · 11 answers · asked by Mona 1 in Singles & Dating

It's a fight between my kids and my job. I'm a single mom and this school year is going to be tough. Last year me daughter got on and off the bus at my friend's house, it's not going to work out that way this year. I can't afford after school daycare (this summer is killing me financially) and I know about the extra help you can get but that still doesn't meet ends. And there is no way I can let her stay home alone until I get home, just can't do it. All my other friends and family live at least 30 minutes away. I talked to my boss about cutting my hours from 8-5 to 8:30 to 3. She was pissed said there was no way. I have a great 'awesome' job but I'm stuck I don't know what to do????

2007-08-06 09:04:37 · 19 answers · asked by 0 3 in Family

i'm 17, almost 18.. what would you rate me on a scale of 1-10.. just curious is all.. thanks! :)

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2007-08-06 09:03:50 · 15 answers · asked by sweetaction 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you do?

2007-08-06 09:01:20 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for a grand total of 14 years. We have a 4 month old. My husband goes out, gets drunk, hangs out with his friends and comes home at 4AM! Not all the time, but at least twice a month! He doesn't call me at all to tell me where he is either! I ask him and he simply says "I was just out". I am upset because like him I have a fulltime job and I am tired when I get home...still I care for our son with a lot of love : ) I don't know what to think! And when he comes home, he goes directly into the bathroom and blows his nose under the faucet! So to me...he's also stuffing his nose!

2007-08-06 09:01:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband says I am selfish for wanting to go on a cruise with him alone. I think it is weird that a 37 year old man has to go on a cruise with his mommy and older sis.

2007-08-06 09:00:53 · 18 answers · asked by SABRINA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i'm 17, almost 18.. and this sounds completely stupid, but i've basically always just had the guys come out and tell me they like me... so i don't think i've ever really been in the position to where i was Wondering If they did or not.... until now, that is. and honestly, i can usually tell when guys like my friends and whatnot, but actually Being in the situation is completely different. and i honestly realized i Don't Know how to really tell..... this sounds lame, but this is like the hardest thing for me.. how do you tell for Sure? how do you take things? especially just through like Writing.. because maybe you text or write to the guy more than actually Talk to him... Then what are ways to tell through that and not just mistake it for his personality? how do you tell through to guys actual motives?!?

2007-08-06 09:00:09 · 21 answers · asked by sweetaction 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 09:00:00 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been offered a great (and steady) job in Detroit. Where are the best suburbs to live for people with kids who are interested in great schools and family atmosphere? Also, what is the commute like? If you grew up in or are living in a city and love it I would love to hear about it.

2007-08-06 08:59:31 · 3 answers · asked by delfamily 2 in Family

I kind of need advice; I have a mad crush on this boy, he's 16, I'm 13. He thought I was fifteen/sixteen. He used to be in a band with my brother, but they don't really talk anymore... But my brother's told me he thought I was really cool (even though we'd never really talked). He's invited me to sing with them a couple of times, and then we stopped talking after the band split up. I got to be friends with one of his other friends, and a few months later he told my boy that I was really cool and that kind of stuff, and out of nowhere he started emailing me. I have a pretty severe inferiority complex, and I'm really shy, I get really nervous when I have to talk to people. All the girls in our town would KILL to talk to him, he denies it but I think he knows deep down he could have whoever he wanted. But he's assured me that he really likes talking to me and I think he's being honest, and he thinks I'm really mature for my age, ("I always thought you were older, you act like an adult")

2007-08-06 08:55:34 · 10 answers · asked by XXX 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so my friends keep telling me to IM my crush and find out once and for all if he likes me or not. The thing i got his SN from a friend and he knows i like him. ( at least im pretty sure unless he didnt believe the things my friends told him) So how do i start a convo? Just like hey how your summer going? BTW we're both super shy and im reallly nervous about doing this, so any tips oon oh to relax would be helpful too,

2007-08-06 08:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by everything_shes_not2 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 08:49:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What are your thoughts about a 20yr old virgin......not unattractive or anything wrong, just never been that serious with anyone.........

2007-08-06 08:49:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 08:48:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my friend are both 13 soon to be 14..she is taller than me and prettier. she has soo many friends..and i can say i barely make any..she just got asked out by a really cute guy..and said yes..and i havent even been asked out once...i dono how to talk to her about this because if i do i will start feeling jealous. i no jealousy is bad..but please help me! i dono how to cope with this.

2007-08-06 08:48:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no health reasons for this nothing she or he is just off sex.

2007-08-06 08:46:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been going out for 7 months with this guy I know at the company I work for. We both are rather old fashioned. He's 43 and I'm 35. Nothing romantic has happened yet, no hand holding, hugs or kisses! At work, we walk together every day for half an hour. On some weekends, we go out. He treats me to movies and dinners but seems he's sloooow!! He checks out my boobs but never makes a move!! We get along well, have an intellectual connection and lots of common interest. I want him to look at me as his girlfriend. He hasn't had a girlfriend in over 4 years. He's shy and is Catholic A COMPLETE LATE-BLOOMER, if you know what I mean. What is going through his mind?

I don't want him to think I just want sex. But I like to have a tender romantic relationship with him and not just be his movie pal. How do I do that properly? He never calls me on a weekend to do something spontaneous, it bugs me...want him as a boyfriend. HELP. Read more below

2007-08-06 08:44:16 · 15 answers · asked by supergirl 5 in Singles & Dating

Me and my bf been going out for exactly a week and when I call him we just sit the on the phone saying nothing, and i want to know what to talk about. we are not in a serious relationship! and we haven't kissed yet.

2007-08-06 08:44:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is from Africa. He's very disapproving of homosexuals and gay culture. However, he has very feminine body gestures and talks softly, even during sex! I need help, I'm not used to this, I usually date thugs.

2007-08-06 08:43:41 · 24 answers · asked by luvindistress 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 08:42:53 · 3 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-06 08:42:22 · 19 answers · asked by godsent1121 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a close friend who needs to take care of his hygiene and I really want to give him some advice but don't know how to go about doing so without hurting his feelings. Its not just his oral hygiene but also his overall body odor. I guess I wouldn't be complaining about it so bad but it gets me nauseated when hes in the car with me. I know other people feel the same but never spoke up. The closest I ever got was recommending a GQ magazine to him. He's a great guy and I know once he cleans up, he'll surely be able to get a date. Any suggestions?

2007-08-06 08:40:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have almost been married for 2 yrs. I'll be turning 20 next month. my husband is very controlling. when we first got married he was physically abusive to me. now its not as bad but he still gets that way every few months. he knows my email password-this one is secret and he doesnt know i have it. he doesnt want me talking to my family or making any friends. he is scared of me going to college as well as learning to drive. we also work at the same place which makes to difficult to leave. he says he wont change. he also has threatened some pretty nasty things if i did decide to leave him.

2007-08-06 08:38:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend always tells me to grow a pair and i never can come back with anything, does anybody have any comebacks for that

2007-08-06 08:35:38 · 8 answers · asked by Joeseph 2 in Friends

please can you answer in detail in order to get a best answer

2007-08-06 08:35:11 · 28 answers · asked by kelly_sweet 2 in Weddings

I'm not engaged, but my mama and I got on the topic of weddings the other day and I figured I'd ask this and see what y'all thought about it.
My mama is pretty much my best friend and when we got to talking about weddings she said something about her being my MOH. I told her I would absolutely LOVE it if she could, but her duties as the MOB would be plenty without adding those of the MOH. She said "oh, yeah" and we went on talking about our topic. However, afterwards, i began thinking more about it. What would you think if the MOB was also the MOH? I'm very traditional so I'm a little if-y on that thought, but I don't think it would be THAT bad of an idea.
Your thoughts?

2007-08-06 08:34:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Tell me what you do. Do you go to the extreme to impress a guy or do you wait until he notices you to make the move or do you make the move first??

2007-08-06 08:34:11 · 1 answers · asked by WWE_Diva_Angel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

WHY ARE PEOPLE SO MEAN?
RIGHT AFTER A PARTY MY CUZIN WHOM IS 23 WAS JUMPED BY 8 BLACK PEOPLE AND 3 GIRLS FOR HIS 3,000 BRACELET. THEY KICKED HIM AND BEAT THE CRAP OUT OF HIM AND HIS EYE SWOLL SHUT. AND THEY KICKED HIM REALLY BAD HE ENDED UP ROLLING UNDER A CAR THEN THE BLACK GUYS TRIED TO USE A WRENCH TO PRY OFF HIS HUGE BRACELET BUT THE BRACELET WAS REALLY THICK AND WOULDNT BREAK OFF INSTEAD MY CUZINS WRIST SNAPPED AND BROKE WITH THE FORCE OF THE WRENCH AND WAS ALMOST BEAT TO DEATH. WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN ALOT IN DALLAS? THIS HAPPENED TO MY FRIENDS CUZIN LIKE 4 MONTHS EARLIER.
THIS IS REALLY FREAKING ME OUT.
AND THEN MY BROTHER SHATTERED THE GUYS CAR WINDOWS WITH A TEQUILA BOTTLE.

2007-08-06 08:34:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. We've been best friends for a year and a half I waited to give my virginity to him because I am in love with him and I gave it to him about 2 months ago. Whenever we hug or kiss each other or even hold hands he gets an erection. Is this normal...he can even be talking about something and he'll get aroused. He's 24 and I'm 20.

2007-08-06 08:33:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating