no health reasons for this nothing she or he is just off sex.
2007-08-06 08:46:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if it's not for health reasons I wouldn't last very long. That's just selfishness. It's like saying I'm not in the mood to talk to you that's fine for tonight but if we're married we will talk and we will have sex.(again with the exception being something is wrong medically or mentally with the person) I guess I would probably last 6 months to a year but after about 6 weeks I would be saying "we need to fix this before it destroys us"
Should I point out that the bible says the wife's body belongs to her husband and the husbands to the wife and you should not deny the other person unless it's for a time to be devoted to prayer. We are christians and we absolutely follow this. I have even quoted it when necessary LOL. I will let it go if he's stressed or sick or whatever but after a certain point I insist!!!!
2007-08-06 10:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not long.. A man with no health issues is getting sex somewhere and the same goes for some of us women.
2007-08-06 15:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're married I'd stay until the counsellor said 'this is hopeless you need to split up'. If this is a dating relationship, if this is all you're about then you've got problems. Even if it isn't, wait til you're married to do the whole sex thing.
If you were having sex and he/she just up and decided to stop, talk about it with him/her.
2007-08-06 15:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by Monchichi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not very long. Either she's having sex with me, she's giving me permission to get it elsewhere or I'm ending the relationship so I can go elsewhere. It would be a huge problem within 6 months.
2007-08-06 15:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
They both go hand and hand. A healthy marriage means a healthy sex life. If not something is wrong.
2007-08-06 22:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by sweet peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay as long as can and try to fix the issues. There's different ways of doing it.
Marriage counselor
Communication (LOTS)
Understanding
PATIENCE
Good luck
2007-08-06 17:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by AK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say because i am married and i respect my vows that say "for better or for worse" that i would stay with him forever regardless, because he is my best friend and that is more important than having sex. Plus that is why they make sex toys if it gets that bad!
2007-08-06 15:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we have gone a month without it and im still here so i would say it doesnt matter about that part. i love him for who he is not the sex part, that part is terrific but its not the only part of our marriage.
2007-08-06 16:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have a hand? Love shouldn't ONLY be about sex... I would just work through it until what ever the problem was wasn't a problem anymore - even if it took YEARS.
2007-08-06 15:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I don't think I would be able to very long. As long as physical attraction is there, I don't think I could last a week.
2007-08-06 15:50:06 · answer #10 · answered by Jasper 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋