Family & Relationships - 6 August 2007

2007-08-06 07:52:02 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

these one bitches always **** with her at first she didnt care she never cared what people thought she was the chick who stood out of the crowd and would be like im me an if u dont like it then to bad thats why i like her but then most of her boyfriends broke up with her to go out with one of them so yea thats when she started thinkin about it i always tell her to ignore them an that shes beautifull and that theyre just jealous but she thinks im just sayin that cause im her friend but its true i do think she beautifull way more than the bitches but i was thinkin that if she sees not everyone thinks she ugly she'd feel better an go back to her old dont give a **** self :) so yea..

http://s175.photobucket.com/albums/w140/...

2007-08-06 07:50:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met a man who was married and I fell in love. He decided to leave his wife to be with me. After three weeks together he decided to give his marrige one last go. I left and she came back. In one week he sent her back home and wanted me back saying that he loved me and wanted to be with me. They got a divorce and we have been together for seven months. He began to suffer from bouts of depression and started drinking a lot. He was happy with me at first; and then I guess when the new wore off he sunk back into his depression. He told me he needed some time to think, so I went to stay with a friend for a few days. He then called and wanted me to come home because he missed me. I came back, but I had already planned to visit my father. So I left again to go see him. My boyfriend told me that when I got back everything was going to be OK. About 6 hours later I got a call from him saying he was going back to his wife. I'm comfused; help.

2007-08-06 07:47:51 · 15 answers · asked by candy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what do u like in girls
hair
eyes
body shape(nothing gross)
personality
thanks
GB

2007-08-06 07:47:32 · 9 answers · asked by Wind Driven Wanderer 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 28 and she is 21, I let her go out last weekend because you know, she hasn't gone out and now we're marrie with a 2yr old girl, and I used to go out when I was her aged now I can't because of my job, and now it looks like she liked going to the bar and she wants to go out again. Is this the beginning of the end, or should I be more strict and tell her no that she's marrie and she doesn't have business anywhere else.
Worrie man.

2007-08-06 07:46:07 · 21 answers · asked by Shadow 4 in Marriage & Divorce

do you think boys like gurls that a kind loving honest every thing nice n not afraid to do something new

2007-08-06 07:45:40 · 4 answers · asked by gnlcs13 2 in Singles & Dating

I woke up this morning and my body felt like I had made love. Then I just got off the phone with my husband and he told me he did me when I was in a deep sleep. He doesn't believe that I can't remember!! I'm not mad I'm just trippin cause I had no idea till he told me. I was just wondering if this has happened to anyone else out there. Guys and Girls can both answer. Thanks!

2007-08-06 07:42:00 · 21 answers · asked by tookoolfool 4 in Marriage & Divorce

whats the point why don't u just dump the other person and go out with the other one
GB

2007-08-06 07:40:47 · 16 answers · asked by Wind Driven Wanderer 4 in Singles & Dating

zero

2007-08-06 07:35:33 · 8 answers · asked by Ifeoma N 1 in Weddings

he/she used to work at a gay striper house in las vegas for good while , not because for money it was because of plassure.

what would you say?

2007-08-06 07:35:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is open bar is that when its free or u a have to pay and if its a pay bar then how much should i bring

2007-08-06 07:34:44 · 17 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Weddings

This may sound stupid but pls understand that I am feeling a lot of pain.... When the husband cheats on you and leaves you for another woman, and when a husband leaves you because mommy is too important does it hurt the same?

Sorry, my emotional level is way of the charts and I am not thinking.... just feeling a lot of pain, betrayal. I am very very passionate and my feelings, whatever they are, are very strong

2007-08-06 07:34:08 · 15 answers · asked by Lost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

sex when you are trying to convienve more
or is it more straight to buisness and not as passionate.
do you also feel disappointe dlike the girsl when you misse that month?

2007-08-06 07:31:19 · 10 answers · asked by girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i need a great name for a tea shop...any ideas??

2007-08-06 07:31:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been seeing someone for 3 years. We live together.

There is this guy who likes me, and hes pretty attractive & easy to talk to. Sometimes i get the urge to just talk to him or flirt with him, but i keep it completly innocent, is this wrong?

2007-08-06 07:30:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm italian,20 yo, and i study english...but i'd really like to write e-mail with an american boy or girl, to learn the true american...it's perfect if you study italian and want to improve it writing and asking me...

2007-08-06 07:29:20 · 4 answers · asked by Vanilla 2 in Friends

Last night my fiance and I were a buzzed after drinking a bunch of wine. We had a great weekend. Then things got wierd. He was jokingly pulling me on his lap, and I jokingly took his nose b/t my fingers and plugged it up. when I did that he got mad and in retaliation punched me on my skull - not too hard but hard enough. Long story short I threw a frisbee at him again semi-jokingly and it hit him on the face. he got really mad and got the frisbee and starting throwing it at me continuously with all his might. Then he started saying we were done. I know he didn't mean that. But I've never been in an abusive relationship and don't want to be now. Was he overreacting cuz he was drunk? Its my fault too because i have hit him on the leg once when I was mad and this started this whole wierd cycle where he hits back. Should I cancel our wedding and end it or talk to him?

2007-08-06 07:27:54 · 12 answers · asked by malibubeach 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 17 years. I work from home and my wife works downtown. Because I work from home, over time almost all of the household chores and maintenance have defaulted to me.

Let me explain... I spend twice as much time caring for the kids. I make the 90% of our meals, including weekends. I do 90% of the laundry, 80% of the general cleaning, and 60% of kitchen cleaning/dishes. All of the general maintenance on our house (repairs, painting, mowing, landscaping, etc) also falls on me.

She does take a lead in a few things, such as our social calendar, setting up doctors' appointments, and school issues. But that is about it.

She refuses to see the inequality or uses her job/commute or her health as an excuse. She gets defensive and I look like the bad guy. If she acknowledges the problem at all, it 'gets better' for a week or so, and then back to normal.

Any advice?

2007-08-06 07:26:23 · 9 answers · asked by Wundt 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-06 07:25:40 · 10 answers · asked by JJ 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay. I need advice. I didn't want to turn to Yahoo Answers for this
because it's a really, really long story, and I felt like I could
deal with it on my own. But I can't. So all I ask for is serious and
sincere answers, because this means a lot to me. And if you can't think
of any, then I at least hope the story will provide entertainment,
although it is a bit sad. And thank you so much for those of
you who gave it a shot.

Last month, I went to Italy. It was for a pre-college camp, but it
was really low-key and we stayed at the professor's house in Assisi.
Since Assisi is a relatively small town, we went there pretty much
every day and got to know it really well. On July 4th, Professor
Meredith decided to invite all of her American/ English-speaking friends
over for a party so that we could all have a July 4th, even though weren't
in the US. Lots of people came, and I met a guy.

He's American, but he lives in Assisi and he's two years younger than me. We spent almost
every day together after that Independence Day dinner, and I had so much fun with him. It didn't
take me long to realize that I was really attracted to him. But after all that time, even though
it felt so short, he had to leave Assisi to go on vacation too. I was heartbroken and I didn't want him to go, because
I didn't think I'd see him again after that, even though I had his phone number. And I kept thinking
it was just a silly crush, but then I guess I realized it wasn't. I wasin love with him,
and I was scared.

So I wrote him a note while we were eating dinner with the group the night before he left.
I told him how I felt and how stupid I felt to be asking him out even though he lived
so far away. I was going to give it to him after dinner in the car before he got out,
but he had to go in a seperate car from me because the car I was in was too crowded.
So I gave it to my friend Molly to give to him before he got dropped off. I said goodbye
to him, and that was that. I drove off.

Meanwhile, in the other car, Molly gave it to him and told him not to open it until he got home.
He was confused but agreed. I checked my cell phone that night and he didn't call.
Later, Molly told me that I should forget about him and that it was totally
unrealistic to think it would work out.

Two nights later, I got a text message from him. He asked me how I was doing
and that yes, he would like to go out with me, but we wouldn't be together
very much. I was ecstatic. I told him that I didn't care that I wouldn't see
him, and that I missed him and wanted to give it a chance. He said alright, we'd
spend time together when he got back.

We texted eachother and called eachother for the next two weeks. They were a hard
two weeks but I knew I'd see him and that was all that mattered to me. But then,
my professor told me shortly after that we would be in Florence when he came back to
Assisi. I was so upset that I couldn't even take it. I told him what was happening
and he said he'd come up to Florence by train.

Then the day finally came when I had to pick him up at the train station.
For some reason, when he got off the train, he was incredibly awkward and didn't
know what to say. My friends were confused and let me tell you, so was I.
I asked him what was wrong, and he said nothing, he was just tired. He wasn't
being his usual, outgoing self and everyone was wondering why.

Then we split off from the group and walked around Florence together. We
talked and I finally asked him, "what are we?" He said "I guess since you
live so far...we're friends, but more..." and I said that it made me sad
to think about leaving him in Italy, and he told me that if we stayed friends,
both of us wouldn't be sad.

Well he was wrong. I said goodbye to him and it felt like the saddest moment
of my life. He called me a couple times that night when I was driving to Venice,
but I didn't pick up because I was so sure that it was over.

A few days later, he was still calling me. I finally sent him a text message,
and I asked him, "If I went to Assisi tomorrow on the train, would you want
to see me one more time?" he sent a message back and said that he couldn't
because he was getting ready to leave again the next day. So then I sent him
another message and he didn't respond. I knew that was the last time I'd talk
to him.When I came back to the states two weeks ago, I just couldn't stop crying.
I've been like that ever since and I can't handle it. I know he'll hook up
with tons of other girls while I'm gone and it hurts to think about it.
I sent him an email to his email adress. I told him that I was working a lot
and getting ready to go to school in the fall and that besides all that, I missed
him and that I would come back to visit my friend who lives in his town
for winter break, and that we could hang out then.
He sent me an email back a few days later, and told me that he just got back from his trip,
he was coming to visit his family in the states this week, and "I guess
we will see eachother in the winter, write back".
It was really short and it felt almost cold and formal. I wrote another email to him
yesterday and he hasn't responded. Well, that's it. Thanks for reading and I hope you don't think I'm insane,
cause I'm not. Now, for my questions:

1. What the hell is going through his mind? Does he miss me at all?
2. Why did he write such a formal/distant email, and at the same time
tell me to respond?
3. Should I go back and see him in the winter?
4. Does he still feel anything for me or has he moved on?
5. If I do go back in the winter, do you think anything will happen
between us?

For those of you that read all of that, I applaud you because it was the most
exhausting thing ever. I think I'm gonna go to Starbucks now and contemplate
why I wrote such a long question on here. Thank you so much for your advice,
you have no idea how much I appreciate it.

2007-08-06 07:24:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 07:23:26 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so, I am planning on joining the school paper as a columnist next year, but to do so, I have to write a series of 10 articles. I want to write a 'Best Friend Survival Guide' because I have had experience with bad bestfriends, and good ones. I have the following 'chapters' already but I need some ideas for some more.
- Highschool
- Boyfriends
- Other Friends

And, if you have any stories.. PLEASE let me know! I won't use your name, or anything like that.

2007-08-06 07:22:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband is a serial cheater. He is 23 & I am 30. We have been together since he was 18 & I was 26 (yes I know, big mistake). I am caucasian & he is african american. He is attracted to african american females & I am the only caucasian woman he has ever been with so I feel as though I can't "compete" with the females he likes. He vows to give it up & then does it again. He often times cannot deal with the guilt he feels for doing it so then he will blame me to make himself feel better. I know that everyone will say leave him or learn to deal with it, but I believe people can change & I also believe that once you commit to someone maritally that you should stick with them. Please do not think that I am uneducated or have low self-esteem. I have a master's degree & know that I am a wonderful & beautiful person. He has a hs diploma & often remarks that he can't contribute to the family as I do. Does anyone have any suggestions on what can be done to change a serial cheater?

2007-08-06 07:21:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 14 year old and everytime me and my friends go to the pool there is always at least 2 guy checking me out. 2 weeks ago, this guy I guess really like me, he kept looking and smiling at me. And I found out later that he kept looking at my but. He did try and talk to me. Then this total geeky guy kept trying to talk to me and everytime I would walk up the stairs he would be watching me. Then there was these two lifeguards, one kept secertly watching me. Like when I standing a few feet away from his chair where he was sitting watching the pool, he kept turning and looking at me. I was talking to my friends. He also watched me leaving the pool? Then this other lifeguard kept walking real close to me when I was waiting for the ball to be thrown back to me from my friends. I mean close I could lean back and I could touch him. He did that another time too. And he had plenty of room for him not to walk so close. What does this all mean? i'm going back to the pool next week!! Help!!

2007-08-06 07:18:56 · 26 answers · asked by Nicole. 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-06 07:16:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when a guy likes/crushes on you what is your biggest hint besides him straight out asking you to be with him or saying that he likes you a lot?...i mean what actions does he do to let you know?..and guys what do you do to drop hints that you like a girl without flat out saying it????

2007-08-06 07:14:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean I go to school and I'm friends with sluts but like once I wore jeans and mostly girls payed attention to me! saying they like my jeans and stuff.... but next day I wore these short miniskirt and I was writing down my email to this girl against the wall and I guess my butt was sticking out! so these guys tried to lift up my skirt!

2007-08-06 07:14:26 · 7 answers · asked by julii<3 2 in Singles & Dating

Do women find guys giving them a flower lame? If hes a good looking stranger whos across the room from you and comes over to give you a flower, is that stupid? At my work there are always girls passing by, I argue with my co-workers about giving a girl passing a flower, they believe the flower idea is stupid and lame. My co-workers claim its old school and it doesnt work anymore, but can a female tell me what she thinks about this?

2007-08-06 07:12:15 · 22 answers · asked by Krazydude111 2 in Singles & Dating

my lil bro is now watchin porn and playing online porn games i know this cause i've checked his internet history and it has bare porn sites......my mom & dad don't know about this but i jus wana talk 2 him by myself without tellin my mom & dad...
but how should i tell him??? plz help

2007-08-06 07:09:57 · 11 answers · asked by blessin m 1 in Family

me and my ex broke up some months ago and recently she looked me up on myspace. i ended up calling her 3 days after getting the message and it seems that she is trying to get back in the picture. jus to make this clear i am a female but when we broke up she started dating this one boy and etc. i think she crawling back to me because something happened between she and him but she dont wanna discusse it.

2007-08-06 07:09:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating