I have been seeing someone for 3 years. We live together.
There is this guy who likes me, and hes pretty attractive & easy to talk to. Sometimes i get the urge to just talk to him or flirt with him, but i keep it completly innocent, is this wrong?
2007-08-06 07:30:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just want to add that i have no intentions of getting serious with this guy or anything, hes just someone whos fun to flirt with now & again.
2007-08-06 07:31:15 · update #1
FYI, it would be almost impossible to cheat...and i dont want to anyways. We live 4 hours away from each other, see each other maybe twice a year at get togethers
2007-08-06 07:37:06 · update #2
hahah way to you people to assume. IF my boyfriend found out? Not only do i TELL him, but i let him LISTEN to our conversations.
2007-08-06 07:38:17 · update #3
and No: i would not care if my bf flirted with someone else, cause i know at the end of the day, he's coming home with me! =)
2007-08-06 07:39:30 · update #4
Does your b/f think it's fun to see you do that? Or do you just do it when he's not around. In either case, it's wrong.
There is NO such thing as innocent flirting. You flirt for one reason, to attract. If you have a b/f, particularly one of three years, you have no business flirting with anyone.
2007-08-06 07:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it's completely wrong. If you are going to do that, then you might as well just break up with him. It's not right to flirt with anyone but the one you love. Clearly, you do not truly love your boyfriend, or you may not feel the same way you used to about him.
Time to move on.
2007-08-06 07:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with a little flirting...it's all good fun as long as you don't take it to another level but it seems like you have everything under control.
2007-08-06 07:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by ginu1luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to justify your actions. You're wrong !! You don't flirt with others when you're supposed to be in a committed relationship like you are. Grow up or get out. Its not fair to your current boyfriend.
2007-08-06 07:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep it down a notch dont take it to the touchy feely flirtung stage if you are just talking to him and he makes you laugh and it seems like flirting i dont think thats a big deal but dont make yourself fall for this guy either if you are already serious with somebody and you love him...
2007-08-06 07:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by audrajean05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i do not think it is ok. how would you feel if he flirt with some girl, if your tired of him them move on dont take taht chance of hurting someone you love by cheating on them,and I am sure taht is not your intention but its not hard to take it too far and not even know your doing it,
2007-08-06 07:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Nolan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows you have no intentions toward him, that it's all in good fun, and your boyfriend knows about it and is ok with it, it's perfectly fine to flirt.
2007-08-06 07:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to answer that for yourself is to ask yourself would you like your boyfriend to flirt with another girl?
If it is something you wouldn't do in front of your boyfriend then it is probably something you shouldn't do.
2007-08-06 07:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by Intelfem7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah i still say thats somewhat cheating or getting ready too flirting will eventually lead to something else and hey would u a honestly like it if he did it to
2007-08-06 07:33:17 · answer #9 · answered by minnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's ok ... think about it this way, would you like it if your bf was flirting with another girl ?
2007-08-06 07:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by Luay14 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋