whats the point why don't u just dump the other person and go out with the other one
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2007-08-06 07:40:47 · 16 answers · asked by Wind Driven Wanderer 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they want things their way.It is really a sign of insecurity,and a lack of respect
2007-08-06 07:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
People usually involve themselves in relationships for a reason. There are usually three reasons to choose from: emotion, financial, or physical (or all three if you are committed).
Sometimes the relationship a person is in might not be fullfilling them all three ways. For example, the emotional needs might be met, but the physical is not, so they go out and find a physical connection. Or, they have a physical connection with their partner, but no financial, so they go find it elsewhere.
Morally, it may be wrong, but mentally, people justify cheating, by thinking they are doing nothing wrong by findind other parts of the relationship elsewhere. Also, most people won't break up with someone for fear of being alone... That's why, when people meet they need to make sure they fit eachother 100% and not 85% so that later they won't go looking elsewhere for whatever was missing in the first place!
2007-08-06 14:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you are not happy in the relationship or afraid from getting lost in the relationship.
I dont say that cheating cant be forgived but sometimes it helps to realize that your partner doesnt put heart and soul in to it and lets u down by time to time.
And than comes the cheat, when someone is not satisfied! In cheating not just the cheater is the guilty!
2007-08-06 14:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by L...A... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do that. i have a friend who cheats because of the fun. she is damn too adventurous. she means no harm. she just changes men like wrapper.
but honestly i feel the best thing is to stay with a man and stay forever once you love each other much. other men wont appeal to you anymore.
its not decent to dump one and go for the other. it does not portray a Stable and responsible personality.
2007-08-06 14:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by Inexorable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't. If I was dating someone, and found another, then I will break off with that person rather be labeled dishonest. It's hard because you tend to worry but if the new guy does not work out. But it's a choice I made and I will live with it.
2007-08-06 14:45:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you still might WANT to be with that other person, you're just looking for a change from the norm, OR the situation is far more complicated and breaking up with your current would just cause too many problems in the cheaters mind.
2007-08-06 14:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jack B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't cheat, but what you say defeats the purpose of cheating... Why keep changing girlfriends when someone could have relations with their girlfriend and 5 girls on the side?
2007-08-06 14:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. I could never cheat. I just can't even fathom it. When in a relationship you should be entirely committed to your spouse and not even thinking of other ppl.
I think the idea is people want their cake and to eat it too. Its awful imo.
2007-08-06 19:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by fishcan'tseewater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sometimes get tired of the person and want to do something else i guess. It's really horrible.
2007-08-06 14:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by julii<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they have no life and they are bored. Not only men do it, girls do it too.
Let's just say the ones who cheat, are stupid.
2007-08-06 14:44:51 · answer #10 · answered by Tooly 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋