I met a man who was married and I fell in love. He decided to leave his wife to be with me. After three weeks together he decided to give his marrige one last go. I left and she came back. In one week he sent her back home and wanted me back saying that he loved me and wanted to be with me. They got a divorce and we have been together for seven months. He began to suffer from bouts of depression and started drinking a lot. He was happy with me at first; and then I guess when the new wore off he sunk back into his depression. He told me he needed some time to think, so I went to stay with a friend for a few days. He then called and wanted me to come home because he missed me. I came back, but I had already planned to visit my father. So I left again to go see him. My boyfriend told me that when I got back everything was going to be OK. About 6 hours later I got a call from him saying he was going back to his wife. I'm comfused; help.
2007-08-06 07:47:51 · 15 answers · asked by candy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok leave the psycho alone. he is an undecided psychotic prick. plus you cant even be felt sorry for cuzz you are a homewrecker
2007-08-06 07:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your lucky he won't come back to you. If your smart you won't let him. The guy seems to be on an ego trip. He wants which ever woman he thinks he can't have at the moment. It was a mistake to get involved with a married man. I realize that there are bad marriages and divorce happens. What I don't get is why not leave before starting another relationship? I think this guy was looking for an excuse to get out of his marriage, and got his ego bruised when the wife let him go. Same with you, he just wants you to want him. You shouldn't have to pay for your mistake forever, move on to someone better and available now, not maybe in the future. Best of luck!
2007-08-06 15:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something you should know about being "the other woman a guy leaves a marriage to be with" This relationship is called "The bridge" out of the marriage, and rarely is it successful. His marriage wasn't successful if he left it, and a relationship with you won't be either.... sorry you didn't know that. He does indeed need time alone, and a few more relationships after the end of his marriage to find his balance... In a few years, he may again be husband material.... He's confused, and sorry you didn't know this. Moral of story: Never date a married guy, and hope he leaves his wife for you, and never be the first lady a guy dates after separation or divorce....
2007-08-06 14:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you date a married man, you've got to know right from the getgo that he's not trustworthy. Run and never look back. Next time, date someone who wouldn't treat a wife like that!
2007-08-06 14:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by Mitch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be younger than him.He has to pay alimony,child support,and pay a lawyer to keep him some money.I would venture to say he never completely divorced his wife.I would chalk it up to life experience and find me a single man without Drama...Hope you see that married men as off limits,he played both of you...Sorry.
2007-08-06 15:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his drinking had nothing to do with the "new" wearing off. he's depressed about a failed marriage and you're sorta there to make the divorce easier for him. kinda like a rebound. maybe you should move on, don't you think? it's kind of a dead end here for you.
2007-08-06 14:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to be confused. Let me clear it up for ya. You has an affair with a married man, now you are weeping the benefits. What comes around goes around.
2007-08-06 15:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump this loser he is playing with your mind and emotions. and personaly i wouldn't give him the time of day.he dont know what the hell he wants. and besides if you wouldn't have messed around with someones elses man you wouldn't be all confused right now. so just dump him and start over with a good man that will treat you with some respect,instead of a tramp that comes and gos at will.
2007-08-06 14:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky guy....gets to play with two women at a time. especially since all he has to do is call you or her and both of you come running to warm his bed at his beckon call.
Got any sisters at home like you?
2007-08-06 14:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a doormat and regain your self respect by leaving him for good and don't look back.
2007-08-06 14:55:14 · answer #10 · answered by Evoljz_Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋