Family & Relationships - 6 August 2007

I went through some very difficult times during a recent seperation from my husband and a man that I grew attracted to said he wanted to be my black knight. Any ideas what he could have meant?

2007-08-06 08:33:56 · 17 answers · asked by willow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i love my girlfriend with all my heart, i can even see us getting married someday i love her so much.

I would really love to get married to this girl someday actually....

But she doesnt know how i feel 100% all ive ever really told her is that i love her very much and i qant to be with her for a very long time etc.

SO what should i do? tell her how i really feel?

2007-08-06 08:32:20 · 19 answers · asked by The Eternal Warrior? 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm supposed to meet up with a bunch of my friends at musikfest tonight. My mom doesn't want me to go because no adults are going. How can I persuade her into letting me go, i'll do anything. or how can i convince her theres going to be an adult with me even if theres not? i'll lie, do whatever. i just need to go.

2007-08-06 08:30:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Question... U are going to spend the weekend with me. I need to know what type of pillow u prefer. soft, firm long hahaha that sounds bad. But remember. real pillow to lay that beautiful head on. PILLOW chicks. please guys. dont want 2 hav u over. but if ur nosen in here. state what ur lady likes from exp.

2007-08-06 08:30:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad just pasted away........

2007-08-06 08:29:24 · 37 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Family

I've been going out for 7 months with this guy I know at the company I work for. We both are rather old fashioned. He's 43 and I'm 35. Nothing romantic has happened yet, no hand holding, hugs or kisses! At work, we walk together every day for half an hour. On some weekends, we go out. He treats me to movies and dinners but seems he's sloooow!! He checks out my boobs but never makes a move!! We get along well, have an intellectual connection and lots of common interest. I want him to look at me as his girlfriend. He hasn't had a girlfriend in over 4 years. He's shy and is Catholic A COMPLETE LATE-BLOOMER, if you know what I mean. What is going through his mind? How do I transition from pal to girlfriend? I don't want him to think I just want sex. But I like to have a tender romantic relationship with him and not just be his movie pal. How do I do that properly? He never calls me on a weekend to do something spontaneous, it bugs me...want him as a boyfriend. HELP. Read more below.

2007-08-06 08:28:41 · 5 answers · asked by supergirl 5 in Friends

ok...every time my boyfriend sees a fat person, he is really rude....he cringes and says, "oh gosh, can't look; can't look!" he doesn't let them know what he is doing that over, but i know why, and i find it very rude! i don't think skinny ppl are any more beautiful than overweight ppl, and he even used to be a little overweight himself! how can i get him to stop doing this w/o getting him mad? he's so nice other than this!

2007-08-06 08:27:24 · 38 answers · asked by julie h 2 in Singles & Dating

Right dont get me wrong, I like having a laugh. Going out on a friday and sat night having a drink but it just seems like most of the people on here (dont take offense please) seem really desperate. Well yea its fun to flirt and that but some people just seem to like "need one" i see like 12 year olds being desperate for a date and things? like why cant you just wait until something happens or when your out and maybe try. I just think looking around everywhere including myspace is sad.
No im not niave. Im actually a bit crazy party student. Yes I have had my fare share of 1 night stands which seems contradictive but I dont like go out just to look. I go out for a laugh with my mates and what happens...happens.
So do you think there are too many people who are desperate?
I do understand that the answers will be biased.
Thanks, again no one take offense please.

2007-08-06 08:27:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years and have been wanting to get pregnant so bad! well finally we did!!! yay! and we have such a wonderful relationship, or so i thought! a week after we found out i was pregnant, he went out to the bar, got all whiskey drunk and made out with a girl that i hate and he know i hate her! he says he was taken advantage of, but he didnt push her off or say no. My mother says"i know you need him to get through this pregnancy, but i would not marry him!" and now he pressuring me into getting married b4 the baby is born. Am i just setting myself up for more heartache? what should I do? what would you do?

2007-08-06 08:25:08 · 11 answers · asked by 315 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i said lick me as a joke her mom took it serious i told her it was a joke she still is mad i think.

2007-08-06 08:22:22 · 13 answers · asked by bigblue 2 in Singles & Dating

My colors are gold, creme, and burnt orange. I have not found an idea of what to put on the tables at the banquet hall! Please help!

2007-08-06 08:19:53 · 16 answers · asked by Day Day 1 in Weddings

moved back in together. After two years of me not seeing or talking to my mother in law and her only seeing our children (which she denies) once in two years she has gone on a rapage and has had the police out to our house 4 times in the past week. She called CPS and claimed we were neglecting and miss treating our children. CPS came to our house and investigated and found the alligations to be false!! Now she has slapped my husband with a restraining order full of false allegations. I dont know how to deal with all of this and if there is anything I can do. Any suggestions? Police and CPS are on our side so far and my husband is fighting the restraining order but what if her behavior continues? Might I add she lives in the same neighborhood and us!

2007-08-06 08:18:34 · 21 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 31 and my fiance is 51. He has 2 grown children ages 27 & 29. His kids have been his life. They both work for him. He loves them very much and would do anything for them. But they hate me b/c of my age apparantly and refuse to even meet me. Neither of them came to dinner for their dad's bday b/c I was there and now that we are engaged I'm wondering if they will even come to the wedding. I don't need them to like me but it would be nice if they could respect their father by growing up a little and acting mature at family functions or holidays instead of refusing to show up at all which hurts him very much. Hopefully time will heal all of this. Who knows. I don't want to be a mom of any sort to them. The best I could hope for is to be a friend. It is hard not to get mad though. Their dad employs them, gives and gives to them and this is the way they treat him. Because I love him I hate to watch it. The rest of his family is happy for us. What should I/we do about the kids though?

2007-08-06 08:16:43 · 20 answers · asked by bnr76 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do u prefer looks or personality??

2007-08-06 08:15:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I'am told that we have to eat this cake. So how do I go about preparing this cake to eat. Please HELP......

2007-08-06 08:15:01 · 14 answers · asked by Jamie S 1 in Weddings

Im 25 and having a real hard time finding attractive women. im decently good looking, intelligent and charming, of course not perfect, im kinda shy when first meeting people.
I dont go to college and my job is filled with people who is a lot older than i am. I tried match.com but as you know is a scam since most of the people who cantact you dissapear after you've paid your next suscription. The other personal websites that i know ( including yahoo personals) most of the time feauture women who are not appealing at all. Some people say; "Go and meet women in the real world" but this is just plain stupid, how are you suppossed to go and say hi to a complete stranger?? I mean is frustrating since the only places where you can meet someone seem to be school or work.
I was considering myspace since there is plenty of pretty girls there who are single . What do you think?
Please dont reply saying that im superficial, you cant blame for trying to find someone i feel attracted to.

2007-08-06 08:12:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Jamie and I would like to thank everyone for being here today. We know most of you had to travel quite a long distance to be here, and we really appreciate that you are with us today. We hope that you are all enjoying this day as much as we are! We'd also like to thank everyone who has worked so hard to help make our wedding day as wonderful as it has been. Jamie, I’m very proud to say, I’m your husband, the love of my life and my best friend. I love you, baby. Mom and Dad; look at my beautiful bride, Tomorrow, a wife and of course, she is always your daughter. Thank you with all my heart! Let’s have some fun and celebrate!!

2007-08-06 08:12:10 · 5 answers · asked by CR 2 in Weddings

My class went on a field trip via train. We are college students and the tickets we had didn't have reserved seats, thus allowing us to sit where we pleased. So, this guy from my class sat by me on the way there. We spoke for almost the whole 3 hr. ride about ourselves, our goals, and all that stuff. We hung out together the whole day, and he sat by me again on the way back. He was really tired and decided to sleep. He kept leaning on me as he was sleeping, and he had a lot of room left on his side. He woke up, and I told him he was taking up half of my chair and laughed. He apologized and leaned away from me. Soon after, he was leaning on me. I began to stroke his fingers just to bother him since I was bored, and wanted to see if he was really sleeping. He then intwined our fingers and left them like that. At one point we let go, I think it was to get my phone our something. Anyway, when I was done, we held went back to holding hands. He "woke" up, and we spoke to

2007-08-06 08:12:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what to look for hes using excuses saying you deserve better,ive failed,why do you put up with this,but he shows no signs of wanting to improve himself any feed back would be greatly appreciated

2007-08-06 08:12:00 · 23 answers · asked by mamaof 6 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the point? He says he wants to fix it. How can you fix what has already been done? The other times we've talked, he hasn't gotten it. How can he love me and act like a complete jerk? Why does he have to know what's in my head? Why does he have to know how I feel? Vivesectionist!

2007-08-06 08:10:04 · 6 answers · asked by so tired 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i kno they think with there head( well at least some do jajaja jk guys) but i just wonder what goes around in there mind...jaja

2007-08-06 08:10:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a hard time meeting new girls... I have a great personality (I think...haha) and I often see girls looking at me. But I don't have the guts to go over and just start talking. If I see a girl looking at me or making eye contact, do I just go walking over by myself? What if she's with friends or family? And what is the first thing I should say?

2007-08-06 08:09:46 · 10 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Singles & Dating

Ok. I met this guy and I wasn't interested at first. He kept telling my friend how much he liked me and ect. Well I thought he was fun to hang out with and talk to so I hung out with him. I started to like him, but I kept my feelings back. Then one night he was pointing out the different constalations in the sky, and I noticed him in a different way. So I started liking him, then all of a sudden he doesn't call for like a day or so. Then calls and picks up right were he left off. I have kissed him twice since then. This weekend came up and he didn't call on thursday, but friday night he calls needing someone to talk to, and he is all upset about the relationship he just got out of. Saying he didn't just leave a girl he left his family(She had a little boy) What??? How am I ?? Uhhh....??? He needs a friend and I'm going to be the friend he needs but what do I do with my feelings. He wil flirt and throw game at me, but If I do it back it seems to push him away

2007-08-06 08:07:08 · 11 answers · asked by B 3 in Singles & Dating

hes a junior and im a freshman do u think he is too old for me?

2007-08-06 08:03:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys...Do you really want a nonchalant girlfriend.....

2007-08-06 08:01:31 · 5 answers · asked by vikkilynn5454 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that is codependent, What can i do as a friend to help her overcome her past?

2007-08-06 07:59:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my boyfriend and i just went on our date and at one point we were making out and we were both sitting down in his car. and i can so tell that he definitley likes my kisses.. but he started like gently shaking or trembling while we were making out and i was trying to figure out if it was me or him and i finally figured out it was him. and asked him about it and laughed but then we just continued and he was still shaking! what does this mean? is this good? or should i stop? or go further or what?

2007-08-06 07:58:10 · 10 answers · asked by <3 strawberry smoothies<3 2 in Singles & Dating

i love him very much, but we were seperated for 3 days and he got someone else pregnant.. now i really dont want to be a part of it.. i dont want to end badly though!! help!!!!

2007-08-06 07:58:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well she is four years elder to me an she tells me she luves me but im scared she might leave me for sum one else again so im kinda giving her cold shoulder she has come back to me after being left by that boy wat should i do

2007-08-06 07:57:21 · 11 answers · asked by elektronikk magnet 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a 23 year old african american male and I am a 30 year old caucasian female. I have a master's degree & a good paying job, he has a high school diploma & makes about 1/4 of what I do. We have one child & one on the way. We have been together 5 years and married 2. My husband has cheated on me many many times. I truly love him & our child adores him. I do not have low self-esteem or think that I don't deserve better. He is mainly attracted to african american females, however he does tell me he is attracted to me as well. Due to him looking at african american females & cheating on me with them I feel as though I can't "compete" with them. He is mainly with these girls for sex & the longest he has been with one is about a month. I know that I can't "make" him stop cheating, but does anyone have any suggestions on what I can do to make him interested in me and not other females?

2007-08-06 07:54:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce