He is being Weird.....?

Question

Ok. I met this guy and I wasn't interested at first. He kept telling my friend how much he liked me and ect. Well I thought he was fun to hang out with and talk to so I hung out with him. I started to like him, but I kept my feelings back. Then one night he was pointing out the different constalations in the sky, and I noticed him in a different way. So I started liking him, then all of a sudden he doesn't call for like a day or so. Then calls and picks up right were he left off. I have kissed him twice since then. This weekend came up and he didn't call on thursday, but friday night he calls needing someone to talk to, and he is all upset about the relationship he just got out of. Saying he didn't just leave a girl he left his family(She had a little boy) What??? How am I ?? Uhhh....??? He needs a friend and I'm going to be the friend he needs but what do I do with my feelings. He wil flirt and throw game at me, but If I do it back it seems to push him away

Answer 1

Give him some room and don't push too hard. Have some compassion. He's going through a lot. It sounds like it might be news to him that you care so much, considering you did not look at him as a boyfriend at first. You two are just getting started. Take your time.

Answer 2

look, this is just my opinion. you can take it or not, but first of all, i think that you should not be getting involved with a man who would leave his family unless you know he had a d*mn good reason for doing so. and second, as an answer to your question, i think you should just be his friend right now until you know where everything is going, because there is a big chance he probably wants to go back to his girlfriend(I'm not trying to discourage you, I'm jus sayin). i just think you need to hold back on the confessions before you know good and sure what's going on and everything is sorted out in his heart as well. and if you do decide to get with him, make sure that you are his first priority because there is also a chance that his girlfriend will want him back.

Answer 3

Your friendship is currently at a push-pull basic, he is going threw some rough times in his life that he needs to get threw. Support of a good friend makes alot of things in life easy. Too be honest him flirting maybe a result of his mixed emotions. Give him your friendship but also give him the space he needs.

Answer 4

He sounds like he's conflicted and I would caution you going too far with him. It sounds like he needs to figure out what he wants in his life before he can focus on you. You deserve someone who will focus on you. I say, if you want to continue being his friend...be his friend..nothing else. Things get sticky if you mix friendship with romance. If you really have strong feelings for him, it can wait until he figures out what he wants to do with his life.

Answer 5

I'd say stay away.... excuse me, but anyone who is willing to leave his "family" has a major problem. Continuing with this relationship is asking for trouble. Consider yourself warned.

Answer 6

you need to sit down with him and let him know how you feel.Ask him how he feels and hat he lookin for? Ask him if he wants a relationship or what?Good luck hope it works for you

Answer 7

He is hurting, he needs a friend to talk to. Be that friend, and it will become more. Don't rush it though.

Answer 8

Steer clear.

Answer 9

yeah just be his friend, keep ur feelings hidden until you know for sure that he likes you, and only you.

Answer 10

Be straight with him and run like hell.