I've been going out for 7 months with this guy I know at the company I work for. We both are rather old fashioned. He's 43 and I'm 35. Nothing romantic has happened yet, no hand holding, hugs or kisses! At work, we walk together every day for half an hour. On some weekends, we go out. He treats me to movies and dinners but seems he's sloooow!! He checks out my boobs but never makes a move!! We get along well, have an intellectual connection and lots of common interest. I want him to look at me as his girlfriend. He hasn't had a girlfriend in over 4 years. He's shy and is Catholic A COMPLETE LATE-BLOOMER, if you know what I mean. What is going through his mind? How do I transition from pal to girlfriend? I don't want him to think I just want sex. But I like to have a tender romantic relationship with him and not just be his movie pal. How do I do that properly? He never calls me on a weekend to do something spontaneous, it bugs me...want him as a boyfriend. HELP. Read more below.
2007-08-06
08:28:41
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We don't work together. We work in different divisions of the company. There are many couples in our company who dated and got married here. As long as I don't report to him, which I don't; it's fine.
One more thing, I can't just talk to him straight. Neither one of us is up for straight-out-of- the-box communication. He likes finess and so do I.
This past Sunday I dressed up really sexy for the first time. Any other guy would have at least tried to prolong the date or at least touch me once, instead of just looking me up and down, but he didn't. He just dropped me off and went home!!!!!! What's up with that???
He isn't gay, he's had a girlfriend before but he was dumped after two months and he hasn't been dating in the past 4 years. Help!! I hope he isn't double-timing me with some other woman, is he??
2007-08-06
08:29:19 ·
update #1