My dad just pasted away........
2007-08-06 08:29:24 · 37 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Wow.. on something of this magnitude, I doubt there is anything anyone can say to make you feel better. Just know that our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family!
2007-08-06 13:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Adrian Hill 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss. I understand how u feel. My grandpa, who was very close to me pasted away last year. It was unexpected, a few days before he past away I saw him laughing and enjoying life. It was all too sudden. Just release your emotions, cry whenever u want and wherever u feel like. Watch old videos with him in it, hang out more with your friends and have them council you, share your melancholy with your close relatives and other family members. You should be more optimistic, try to view his death as a new beginning for him, and not an end. Also, time is also a very effective remedy. I hope you will feel better soon.
sincerely: Andy
2007-08-06 08:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by LegendaryJarl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry for your loss. Just remember that he is in a better place and that he still loves you. I don't think anyone can help you feel better but I hope the kind words from the people on here help ease the pain a little. My heart goes out to you and your family. All you can do is never forget the things you guys did together and try to keep his memory alive. God bless you and I hope you are able to overcome this tragedy.
2007-08-06 08:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by 1hotmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey I'm very sorry for your loss. This is very hard, and I'm not sure anyone can cheer you up to a certain point right now.
All I can say is that you need to remember him, cherish the time you had with him, and know that he is there in spirit even if he cannot be there in body.
He is within you, from your outter features, to your inner qualities, and he is in your heart. If you hold that dear he will never truly leave you.
I wish you all the best, and hope that you find peace, within mourning for your father. May you carry the memories of a great man in your mind and heart. PEACE
2007-08-06 09:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, I'm really really sorry to hear that =( I know that I can't possibly imagine how much it must hurt to lose him and i'm sure nothing that I can say can even begin to make you feel any better about what has happened. I know it's going to be so hard for you and I really hope you do end up feeling better. Whatever doesn't kill you can only make you stronger right? I wish you all the best for the future and I hope that you can get through this difficult period without too much hurt. =] Take care of yourself.
2007-08-06 08:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sketch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that. It's a big loss. No words right now can comfort you. Only time would heal you. All I can say is pray to God. Don't stop your self from crying. Think about your mother, she needs support right now as well. Think about what your dad wanted you to do. May be fulfilling his dream would comfort you. Go to church and find support from church community. You know I found a lot of comfort when I went to the priest of my church. I felt so good and calm after my conversation with him.
Good luck
2007-08-06 08:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by soniakidman 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a hard thing when a family member dies but try to remember that he would not want you to be sad. Also you might feel as if you will never be happy again but you will my uncle died and I felt terrible but after a long cry to get my feelings out I realized that I wanted to spend time with my other family members and have a great time with them to make the most of every second with them.
Hope that helped.
2007-08-06 08:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by citteh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear this. I dont know the circumstance, but right he isn't feeling any pain anymore, in fact he is prolly feeling so much better.. I dont know your religion, but Im Christian, I will certainly be praying for peace in your home. This event in your life will only make you stronger. Dont hold anything back though, cry when you need to cry, yell if you need to yell, get everything out. It's hard to face these tragedies, i kno, but I still can't imagine your pain. I know that you can make it through this time though, you can still cry and be strong.
im sorry i couldn't ease your pain anymore. Im praying, and God Bless
2007-08-06 08:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for you loss, is hard as it may seem to do at the current time you need to stay focused on your life. Your father is in a better place now and be great full for the time you too did spend together.
2007-08-06 08:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom passed away 2003 nothing i can say will make you feel better , nut time will take you to a better place with your mom and you will be able to talk an dream of her in peaceful an dearing way but it is time that will cure the loss an pain of the loss sry/ for ur loss peace be with you &ur mom pray alot
it helps
2007-08-06 08:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by slick&sly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋