i love him very much, but we were seperated for 3 days and he got someone else pregnant.. now i really dont want to be a part of it.. i dont want to end badly though!! help!!!!
2007-08-06 07:58:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ummm..just end it. It only took him 3 days of being apart from you to get someone else pregnant. He can't care very much about you if he can just go and mess around with someone else; especially without using protection. Just walk away from this situation, you don't need any more drama.
2007-08-06 08:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by NYCLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to be honest and tell him, say look, I love you but I can't be apart of this. Tell him how it will make you feel everytime you see that baby and let him know that it really really hurts you because you wanted to bear his first child.
I mean you seperated for 3 days and he was already out with someone else. That is a sign that he has to go.
2007-08-06 15:15:56 · answer #2 · answered by Va princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated, not you. He was the one that put the relationship at risk, not you. Now he is going to have a baby with this other woman that he will sometimes have with him and he will sure have to pay child support. Who would care if it ended badly. He has done the worst thing imaginable to you anyway. Just leave him in his pre-made bed.
2007-08-06 16:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like he got over you quickly and it only took 3 days. If the other woman is unattached, she may want him to commit to her. He may feel pressure to do just that. In any event, he will have to be involved in her life and the baby's life -- at least in a child-support capacity. You don't need to accept this kind of life for yourself, but it doesn't have to end badly. You can tell him that you don't want to be involved in a relationship where the man needs to be committed (to whatever extent) to another woman and a child by her. It sounds like you are looking for someone who is solely committed to you.
2007-08-06 15:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dovekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you worry about hurting a guy's feelings who was so uncommitted that he gets some lady preggers? (And what kind of an idiot is she to have unprotected sex?) The two of them deserve each other......Hon, just pack up your stuff, (or his) and say, " I'm sorry. I just can't stay. WE obviously didn't mean much to you, and I don't share."
Leave, hon, and never look back. You owe the guy nothing. Better you find out now what he is like than some time down the road when children are involved. Actually, he did you a favor!!
2007-08-06 15:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is already ending badly... If you want out, now is the time to go, but be comfortable with your decision when you make the move. If you think you may want to reconcile, then get counseling together before you make any permanent decisions. Sorry this happened to you... Good luck!
2007-08-06 15:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have been seeing her before you left him..you cant tell after 3 days of being split up from him that the girl is pregnant..just leave..hes a cheater anyways
2007-08-06 16:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by Shannon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL....don't want it to end badly? one fight and he breeds with someone else inside of 3 days? And you don't want it to end badly? Is there any alternative with a start like this?
2007-08-06 15:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How much worse could it be? Leave him now and dont look back. Dont want it to end badly? Holy cra.p!
2007-08-06 15:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That other woman is going to be in his life forever. You need to realize that right now & that will help you make your decision. LEAVE HIM>
2007-08-06 16:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋